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grandmafay

Posts: 189
Joined: Aug 2009

October 20, 2009 - 2:15pm

My husband passed very peacefully in his sleep this morning.

mr steve

Posts: 39
Joined: Sep 2009

October 20, 2009 - 2:43pm

Fay

Fay,

I am so sorry for your loss. I am glad for the two of you it was peaceful. You are in our thoughts and prayers!

Steve

Glenna M

Posts: 131
Joined: May 2009

October 20, 2009 - 4:06pm

I'm so sorry

Fay,

I'm sure you don't know me, I'm usually on the lung or head and neck boards, but I have read all of your posts as you seem like such a kind and wonderful person.

I just wanted to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. Please remember that he will always be with you in spirit.

God bless you and your family,
Glenna

grandmafay

Posts: 189
Joined: Aug 2009

October 21, 2009 - 1:59pm

Love of Labs

I have read your posts and appreciate your thoughts. How could I not notice a fellow lab lover. Yours looks a little older than my 1 year old. Mine is helping me get through this. He shares my bed and I talk to him. Fay

Glenna M

Posts: 131
Joined: May 2009

October 21, 2009 - 3:29pm

Gotta Love Labs

You're right Fay, mine is 7 years old and I would be lost without him, he is always by my side or sleeping with me. Your dog will help you through this, even if just in little ways, as he will be there for you to talk to when things seem their worst.

Take care of yourself as you are a special person. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Bless you,
Glenna

onlyhuman

Posts: 45
Joined: Sep 2009

October 20, 2009 - 5:04pm

so sorry

Fay
I am so sorry for your loss. Do take care of yourself (dont try to be too strong...we are all allowed to give ourselves a break).

Regards
Sangeeta

Barbara53

Posts: 27
Joined: Aug 2009

October 20, 2009 - 5:52pm

Remember him the way he would like you to

Bless your heart, so now you can breathe. Your husband has been released from your care, and he's okay now. When you can't control your mind, get out pictures of when he was okay before and look at them. Memorize them. They can help get you through some of the sadness.

sue Siwek

Posts: 247
Joined: Jun 2009

October 20, 2009 - 5:56pm

we are near in age, i am 65

we are near in age, i am 65 and my husband will be 67 soon. my husband has had brain cancer. he is cancer free in the last five years, was diagnosed in 2000. you have been married for a long time, as we have (42 years) hard to imagine life with out them. i will say that at the begining of our journey i promised my children and grandchildren that i would stick around. find that strength in your children and grandchildren. i know you are religious...more than me but i think we can agree that we live forever in the hearts and minds of those we love...i.e. children and g-children, stay strong, he would want you to.

MichelleP

Posts: 237
Joined: May 2009

October 20, 2009 - 6:18pm

I'm so sad for your loss.

I'm so sad for your loss. It's the hardest thing in life to live with. The loss of someone you love so dearly. Please just take one moment at a time. I can't say it will get easier because I don't even know that yet myself....it's only been one week for me.

((((HUGS))))

angelsbaby

Posts: 614
Joined: May 2008

October 21, 2009 - 10:36am

Fay

My condolences To you and your family. Now we are on a different journey now , please take care Its been 6 months since angel died and it still seems like yesterday I still cry everyday for him.

michelle

SonSon

Posts: 186
Joined: Jul 2009

October 21, 2009 - 1:32pm

Poem for you

I am posting this poem for you...

The night has a thousand eyes,
and the day but one;
yet the light of the bright world dies with the dying sun.

The mind has a thousand eyes,
and the heart but one;
yet the light of a whole life dies when love is done.

F.W. Bourdillon (1852-1921)
There will always be a flame in your heart for him... and a light in the sky for you.
Fatima

grandmafay

Posts: 189
Joined: Aug 2009

October 21, 2009 - 2:02pm

More Thanks

Thanks to everyone for your kind and supportive words. My family is here and I an hanging in there. I went to sleep last night thinking of all the good times. My husband had a great sense of humor and our sons and I have been remembering the way he could make us laugh. Fay

pattynonews

Posts: 138
Joined: Aug 2009

October 21, 2009 - 5:39pm

my prayers are with you

My prayers are with you my sweet dear, I am so afraid, Jack will be going home soon, but I will say a pray for you and keep you in my prayers

junklady

Posts: 26
Joined: Aug 2009

October 23, 2009 - 9:18am

Fay, I am so sorry

Fay, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. I just don't have the perfect words of comfort, but I want you to know I am thinking of you. You will be in my prayers. Just know that he is at peace and there is no more suffering. Hugs to you.

onoinc

Posts: 2
Joined: Oct 2009

October 23, 2009 - 3:31pm

My Prayers Are with you!

May God surround you with loved ones to carry you through this difficult time. How ling were you married?

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