Sep 21, 2007 - 4:18 pm
Ok, heres the deal, i went 2 the doc this morning. he said that he doesnt know the stage and wont know that until i have a complete hysterectomy. he thinks its stage 1 grade 3 and its endometrial adenocarcinoma which he said is the "friendliest" lol i asked a lot of questions and my mom and aunt were there. he got mad tho cuz i guess he thought i was questioning his expertise and got mad bout me asking what-if questions, but 2 make an informed decesion shouldnt i have asked all the effects, what-if's and type, grade, etc??? I have 2 make a decesion bout the surgery soon im down 2 the wire. he said the magace doesnt work, so why did he put me on it for 7 months then??? He said i seem 2 know my stuff and was like on the defense, which i told him i know hes a good doc but i need 2 know this stuff and he siad that hes a GOOD onco, but thats not doing me a bit of good if surgery is my only option. should i do this now??? theres no other way?? what if the dont get it all....what would happen and how would i know? and if theres anyone who has gone through this, is gettin a second opinion wasting valuable time? I know ultimatley survival is up 2 ME and God, but is just doing the surgery and going from there the best way??? He also said that they would put me on hormone replacement therapy and its ushually a estrogen based, but my body being all estrogen is what caused this in the 1st place. this seems like a contradiction, i dont know if im just looking 2 much into this or what......im sorry 2 bombard u guys, i just dont know what 2 do now, i feel like a deer in headlights, ive lost my composure which ive had thus far. Now what???