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jjaj133
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Hi Everyone,

I have not posted, but have been keeping  you all in my prayers and check in every once in awhile.

I am getting ready to have a routine ct scan on the 7th. this time will be worse, simply because I will be going alone.

My beloved husband and best friend, died suddenly on May 16th. He had a very minor surgery and they cant find a reason for his death. So now we wait for a toxicolgy report.

Needless to say, my heart is broken, but I have amazing support so I know somewhere down the road I'll be ok.

I just cant get over how much this is like my first husband at age 52. At least now I am much older and my life is in a different place.

 God Bless you all, and as we we all know, hug your loved ones tight.

Judy

  

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Momof2plusteentwins
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So sorry for your loss. It's hard enough going through all this! I hope your CT is all clear, I also have one next month.
Sandy

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Aud
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Dear Judy, I am so sorry for the loss of your husband.  Holding you in the Light for comfort.

sincerely,

Audrey

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Trubrit
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I am so sorry about the passing of your husband.  We cancer patients know it could be us, but to be taken so suddenly and not know why, must be very, very hard. 

Please accept my sincerest condolances. 

I will be thinking of you on June 7th. 

Be comforted in your grief, and don't bother stressing about the 7th. It will be what it will be, and stressing over that while grieving will be hard on your body. 

Blessings!

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MargaritaSalsa
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I'm so sorry to hear that. That's heartbreaking. I hope you find peace and comfort as soon as humanly possible for you! It's great you have support. Good luck on the 7th.

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geotina
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I am so very sorry.  I know firsthand the depth of your grief.  You are right, tomorrow is never promised. 

Hugs to you and your family.

With deepest sympathy - Tina

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wolfen
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I'm so very sorry for your sudden loss. You will be in my thoughts during this most difficult time.

Luv,

Wolfen

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Lovekitties
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I am so very sorry for your loss.

Love,

Marie who loves kitties

jen2012
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I'm so sorry Judy.

danker
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Joined: Apr 2012

They say live each day like it is your last one, because one of them will be.  Sorry for your loss.  Most people never consider how fragile life is. Thirty or forty years ago, a gasoline truck exploded in a tunnel in Calif.  Not only the truck driver, but the driver and passengers of 5 autos lost their life that day.   

As cancer survivors we schould appreciate every morning we wake up !

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Kathleen808
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Oh Judy,

I am so very sorry for the sudden loss of your husband.  My prayers are with you and your family.  Sending you hugs.

 

Aloha,

Kathleen

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annalexandria
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The loss of someone we love is terribly hard under any circumstances, but to lose someone so suddenyl, without warning, that is just devastating.     Love, and hope for peace with the passage of time coming your way~Ann Alexandria

smokeyjoe
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So, very sorry for your loss. 

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Annabelle41415
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Sorry for the loss of your husband.  I'm praying for a good scan coming up.  Glad you have a good support team, as that is what carries a lot of us through.

Kim

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jjaj133
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thank you everyone for your thoughts and prayers.

I will keep you in mine as well, and let you know about my scan.

I do love the people on this site.

God Bless,

Judy

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thxmiker
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We are sending our thoughts and prayers for your strength!  Cancer is a big battle and we half to go in to it with a complete mind and soul. Keep up the good fight!  Please know you have many on your side rooting for you success!

 

Best Always, mike 

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fatbob2010
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Judy,

So Sorry to hear of your loss.  Thank you for sharing and please let us know how the CT comes out.

Holding you close in prayer and believing for a good CT.

Art

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LivinginNH
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My deepest condolences, I'm so very sorry that you've lost your dear husband.

With sympathy,

Cynthia

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AnnLouise
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I would like to add my sincere condolences to you and your family. I will be thinking of you on the 7th and hope for good scan results. Glad you found us and posted so we can be there for you.....~ Ann

daddys_boy
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Hi Judy,

I am sorry to hear about your loss at this very unfortunate moment. 

My thoughs are with you and I truly wish you the best of luck with your scan.

Will be with thinking about you and sending positive thoughs out in the universe for you.

Hope you get better.

David

Cathleen Mary
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Joined: May 2011

 

Dear Judy,

To deal with the loss of a husband too soon, not once, but twice, must be so difficult. My heart and prayer are with you.

A lot of us will be with you 'in spirit' for your scan.

Be gentle with yourself.

Cathleen Mary

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Eltina21
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Hi,  I am sending my prayers to you and your family.  As you have stated tomorrow is never promised, however, we must learn to live our best each day.  I am sure that your husband was also very thankful for your time together.  GOD has more plans for you. Peace and Blessings to you.

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steveandnat
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So sorry, this is such a surprise when it isn'texpected. I pray for you and give you extra strength during these tough times. Jeff

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Aicirtap
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I am sorry for your loss! all my best! 

Chelsea71
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Joined: Sep 2012

You just never know what life is going to throw at you next.  I'm sorry for your loss.  My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.  Will be hoping for great scan results.

 

chelsea

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YoVita
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My condolences for losing your husband and best friend.  Sorry you have to go through this next scan without him.  I'm hoping for good results on the scan.  Again, so sorry about your loss.  

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Sundanceh
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Dear Judy

Not only is Tomorrow Never Promised.....it seems that even Today can carry the same disclaimer:(

I had not seen you for awhile and figured you had enough of cancer and was taking care of business...and now, we understand and are heartbroken for you.

I'll check back in here after the 7th and look for your 'Clear' post.....:)

This has been a difficult year for so many - and cancer is not always the lead story - Life is the story - and sometimes cancer is a part of life - and then sometimes, stories like yours and others has a way of showing us that few of us get out of here without being scarred. 

It's hard watching my friends suffer....

And that's the damnation of it all for me.

You are of a strong disposition...I know you've been through many things in this life...I have no idea of how you are feeling.  I just know that yours is yet another story of 'true' love between one another.....many people search high and low hoping to find someone who fits their bill and meets their needs.

Stories like yours and so many others I've come to know here let me know that real love and really liking someone for just being them does happen in this life.

And it must feel so incredible to experience.....and as such, this must be why the pain resonates so deeply.    

Wishing you better days as you move forward and know that there are a bevy of women on-board here, who share your pain and walk with you this year as you try and negotiate the next phase of your life.

I have no answers for this one.....

I just want to wish you well and tell you that I'm very sorry for your loss and am so glad that you have support in place....that's the next big thing there - and I'm glad you've got that.

How about a hug?

(((JJ))))

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Sonia32
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Big hugs and prayers to you.:-(

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herdizziness
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I am so sorry.  Oh dear, I have tears in my eyes over your sudden loss.

I hope yesterday went well on your scan, I'm thinking of you and my heart goes out to you.

Love and Hugs Judy,

Winter Marie

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Nana b
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Wishing you the best on your scan.  Hang in there.  

 

My condolences to you and yours. 

 

 

 

 

Meowycat
Posts: 55
Joined: May 2013

Judy, 

Please accept my heartfelt condolences. 

Nellie

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joemetz
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my heart, my prayers and and big hugs are all coming your way.

I wish I know the right words, but please know that you're in all our prayers and thoughts.

 

keep pushing on!

 

hugs

 

Joe

 

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