May 25, 2013 - 10:34 am
Heartache, Hemmorhoids and Hairloss, You Are Not Alone!!
Everyone struggles with something either financially, emotionally or physically; it can be done privately or publically. If you have never struggled , you have never lived. While you are struggling, know that you are not alone, somewhere else in this world someone is struggling with you very same problem. Some struggles are seen in a public place and some are handled in privacy with such grace. It is ok and acceptable to be a strong family man and pillar of your community yet still curl up in the fetal position and cry your eyes out. People make the choice on how to deal with things; either head on or in denial is usually the two most commonly seen ways of dealing with stress or struggles. You need to cope with whatever is troubling you and find an easy way to move on and forgive yourself.
Surround yourself with good..Good thoughts, good people, good friends, good Doctors, good food and good DRUGS< src="/sites/all/libraries/tinymce/jscripts/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions//smiley-wink" alt="Wink" title="Wink" border="0" />. Goodness- yeah I said it, is the key to being comfortable with who you truly are. The key is to always be yourself , and then there will never be any surprises along the way.
Having faith in: Yourself, your spirit, your Doctor
Love and Prayer are the two things that you can do for free and that make a huge impact on someone's life. Love for other people will allow you to recieve.
Selfishness is also acceptable...you can be selfish for yourself; you can sit and feel sorry for your friends and family because they have to be bystanders while you go through something so tough, knowing that there is nothing they can do to help. You can get mad and ask "why me?", "how many crosses do I have to bear?", "why do I have all of these scars and side effects?", "why can't I live a normal life?" ,"why am I so sleepy?" ,"why do I have to sit in this room with other sick people?". Don't punish yourself and blame yourself for everything that doesn't happen exactly how you planned it. Accept who you are and where you are at in your life at this very moment. "Smile, not because something good happend to you, but because something worse DID NOT."
This my friends is what I have been working on, my "secret mission" as Jim called it. This is only a sampling of a book that I am writing. It will be about many life struggles not just Cancer, but I thought I would like to share some of the possibly pertinent stuff with all of you.
XXXOOO to all