May 12, 2013 - 9:31 pm
We have just been told my husband has pancreatic cancer that has spread to his liver. They removed a tumor on his liver last week but did not open him up to remove the tumor on his pancreas. He will see an oncologist next week and will star chemo sometime soon. The cancer is stage 4, so we know things are not looking good. I need information on how to support him without making him feel like I am going overboard. We are praying for the best, but know we have to face the worse. I try not to think about the bad things, but it is hard. I feel guilty when thoughts pop into my head about what is going to happen when he isn't with me. We have been married going on 44 years. Are there good books to read about how to deal with your loved ones having cancer? Any help would be appreciated.