Feb 18, 2013 - 11:57 pm
well since my last post mom was to be donning the surgery gown... but the doc wants mom to sign a waiver saying there is a 10% chance that she will end up with a bag, and mom won't sign b/c she just DOESNT WANT A BAG!!!!!! 'sigh' so mom is upset... as i am... i figured we could finally move on with this...
as it is... now we are looking at more options! our fam doc thinks there may be a surgeon in toronto that could work out...
still going home the weekend i'm excited and sad at the same time!
i just wish mom could see like meet face to face a younger person even my own age with a colostomy bag and see what its like, so she wouldn't be so against it.
i mean really its a bag!? whats a bag to having another 5 or 10 or 15 years of life ?
i've even tried to get across that point, but she is just dead set against it... and she thinks the ukrainian are stubborn!!! take a look at the irish!!!!!
i just don't get it...... maybe its being selfish... maybe not...