Sep 13, 2012 - 11:15 pm
Hi, I am so sorry if this is not in good taste for this board, but I need help.
I am interested in hearing from those who are taking care of parents with no help from your siblings. My brother has done nothing to help my mom since her surgery. When I asked him for a little help, he told me "why would I have to do that when you are here?". His girlfriend told him to "stick your Mom on your sister"
I am burned out and tired, and I shouldn't feel this way. I go to my boyfriend's house whenever possible, but I also work and need down time. I don't mind helping either, but I simply cannot do everything. I also don't have a huge family-it is pretty much just me and my mom's friends helping out.
What should I do?