I am 39 years old, and i have a 6 years old daughter, i was being married for 7 years. On May 23rd I went to the ER for a stomach pain and they told me I had a tumor in my colon and it was cancer, I stayed at the hospital for 10 days my mom came from Mexico, to help me out.
I went home on Jun and it was really hard, to get back to normal like my daughter said.
After a few weeks being home and having my momma helping to do everything, like bathe, get dressed, etc., and going back an fort to see the surgeon, the oncologist.
My husband never support me, never even once attempt to help me in any way, i was really frustrated, depressed, because they said my cancer is Stage IV and i will need chemo for 6 months. One day on thursday Jun 21st we have a fight and he ask me to leave his house, to be gone, he did this in front of my mom, and my daughter and our daughter said Daddy if momma leaves I am leaving with her. And he said ok.
I left and stayed over his sister for a week, the people at work my friends help me to find a place to live, and give me furniture, and give me money to put the downpayment, and first month rent, i went back to work on Jun 25th, and thank god I am in a better place, I am working I just missed the days that i have chemo, so yes it is really hard and difficult but is a lot of people that really care for us, that we never even thought they would.
My husband not even once said he is sorry, or even admit he said a mistake.
I guess he never care for me, but right now i dont have time to think about what happen, i need to work, take care of my daughter, and deal with the chemo.
For some reason we have these disease, or we are blessed with this disease.
A lot of the issues that i have on my marriage, are clear now HE NEVER CARE ABOUT ME...