Aug 13, 2012 - 8:40 pm
Im 28yrs old,and i recently lost my mom to cancer in febuary.we were all shocked because it was so sudden,and have all been dealing with our grief the best we can. Part of My issue is this-the boyfriend i am currently with will be the last one who will ever meet my mother.this devestates me. We dont seem to be working out,but i think i may be clinging to him because of the fact that if i dump him and move on,that i will no longer be able to bring the next beau to meet my mom for her approval. Part of my issue is that when she was after she passed,we found she had wrote us all letters.in mine she asked me to settle down and start a family. This is something i want anyways,but ofcourse id be happy to fulfill her wishes.
Lastly, part of the issue is my mother told my current boyfriend to "take good care of me",and he said one night when we were drinking,that he'd be too afraid to break up with me,because he thinks my mother will haunt and curse him from beyond.(yes he is serious)