my son is now brain dead and the whold family will be meeting at my house tomorrow to discuss stopping all medical care. My heart is hurting so bad and I just can,t seem to accept it all. All I do is cry. as a mother we're suppose to protect our children not bury them. Thanks a lot Kathy
I am so sorry. I will certainly be praying for you and your family. No parent should ever have to bury a child. It's so against nature. Go ahead and cry. It's okay! God gave us grief. Don't let anyone take that away from you. I'm sending you a virtual hug!
Dear Kathy, I too am so sorry for what is happening to you and your family. To bury your child is Nature out of step...just NOT supposed to happen! Having gone through this, the best I can tell you is that you can not "put this behind you", but you can't let this be in front of you all the time. Learn to let your grief walk BESIDE you, always there, but in it's place.My son is with me everyday and so is my grief, but it what I have left of him and for now it is...manageable and every once in a while it becomes comfortable. Praying for you and yours, one mother to another. Best, Debrajo
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my son is now brain dead and the whold family will be meeting at my house tomorrow to discuss stopping all medical care. My heart is hurting so bad and I just can,t seem to accept it all. All I do is cry. as a mother we're suppose to protect our children not bury them. Thanks a lot Kathy
Joined: Jun 2011
I am so sorry. I will certainly be praying for you and your family. No parent should ever have to bury a child. It's so against nature. Go ahead and cry. It's okay! God gave us grief. Don't let anyone take that away from you. I'm sending you a virtual hug!
Carla
Joined: Jun 2010
you have to go what I consider the most difficult thing imaginable. My heart aches for you and your family. God bless you all.
Karen
Joined: Sep 2011
I am so, so sorry that you are faced with the hardest decision that a parent could face. Praying for your beloved son and you and your family.
Wishing you peace and sending you hugs,
Kelly
Joined: Sep 2011
Dear Kathy, I too am so sorry for what is happening to you and your family. To bury your child is Nature out of step...just NOT supposed to happen! Having gone through this, the best I can tell you is that you can not "put this behind you", but you can't let this be in front of you all the time. Learn to let your grief walk BESIDE you, always there, but in it's place.My son is with me everyday and so is my grief, but it what I have left of him and for now it is...manageable and every once in a while it becomes comfortable. Praying for you and yours, one mother to another. Best, Debrajo
Joined: Jul 2011
I lost three children I was not able to ever hold them or watch them grow but I fell a lost is a lost. I will be praying for you and your family.
Love, many hugs, and Prayers
Anne
Joined: Feb 2012
Being a mom is such a joy yet leaves us so vulnerable to pain. God bless you and your son.....I am crying and praying, God speed my sista.....