Jan 22, 2012 - 7:07 pm
I guess this is the place. I posted a month ago about my husband talking about death. Well, every week-maybe once, he talks about dying. Then suddenly he starts talking of all of these plans about going places and doing things around the house. Last two weeks he started talking about how he wants his funeral. Then one day he talked about the picture he wanted on the obituary. He told me he wanted me to tell the entire story of his life. Ok, then the next week, he makes all of these plans. It drives me crazy, because I don't know what to think. Is this normal? I try to prepare myself mentally, then suddenly...I am on another rollercoaster. I don't think people realize the psychological effect on the caregiver. People come up to him and tell him how God is going to heal him...that's good, but I just don't understand. Some told my mother the same thing...and she died. That makes me soooooooooooo angry. Does anyone understand?