Dec 21, 2011 - 5:36 am
We are now three weeks post surgery and my husband's biggest post operative problem is his mind not his body. We have so much for which to be thankful for; pain is at a manageable point, bowels are moving good and wound is healing nicely. But he continues to be paranoid, anxious, and generally disinterested in the world including his family. I am started to get angry at him because everyone has been catering to his physical and emotional needs but he is unable to reciprocate. He doesn't return people's calls or texts and is uninterested in visitors. When our children are laughing or sharing stories, he does not join the conversation. It's like they removed his personality along with the tumors. Those of you who have walked his path, what am I suppose to do?