May 30, 2011 - 6:50 pm
someone please help i an the caregiver for my mother who is 77 we were told 2 years ago that she only had months to live an we should call hospis so we did an a year later they took her off. we go to doctor every 3 months an they do CT scan an every time he says it is spreading she has about 20 tummers in liver, lungs,an limpnods the last couple days she has been sleeping more an says she has pain in her back. to day she says she feels like there is a belt around her chest. i have asked the doctor what to look for so i can tell if she is getting worse but he never gives me a answer.the largest tummer is in the liver an is 9cm. i love my mother an dont want to see her suffer but she has allways been like the little boy that cryed wolf so i never know what to look for. also she has never been a very nice person an now it is getting worse every day for the last 2 years all i here is how she wants to die. i just dont know what to do.