Usually I shy away from the Pinkness of October~ but my Reggie doesn't!!!!!!

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chenheart
chenheart Member Posts: 5,159
edited March 2014 in Breast Cancer #1
Many of you know that Reggie is part of a Native American singing group~ he is honored and humbled to represent the Chumash people and have a part in preserving culture and language which was thought to be long-lost. He is an elder in his tribe, and also one of the captains/paddlers of traditional plank canoes which makes an annual ocean voyage to the California islands of their ancestors.
The singing "gigs" take Reggie to many venues. Last night he was singing at at dinner-ceremony with Native people as well as elected officials from the county and school board. Chief of police, Tribal chairman, etc etc.
Sadly, I had another event to attend, so he had to go without me. :-(

Cutting to the chase here, honestly! I have a pink/white kukui nut necklace which is painted with the pink ribbon logo. Reggie wore it to sing in!!!! He also took my pink bandana and stuck it so it hung out of his back pocket! Now my Reggie is a manly man~ strong, both physically and spiritually.Yet, he wore my pink necklace to a public venue and wore it with pride!

He introduced the singing group and explained where the songs come from and why they are important. He then segued into why for him, wearing pink is also important. He reminded the guests that October is BC awareness month, and that he was honoring his wife Claudia, who is doing battle with the beast, by wearing pink!

So many people came up to him after the performance~ not just to admire and thank him for the singing and the explanation of the songs, but for mentioning his wife who now is part of sooo many prayer groups!

In this month of all things pink, and oftentimes too much pink it seems, I must say I was so touched by the compassion and committment to me my Reggie showed by donning the pink!

Hugs,
Chen♥

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  • linpsu
    linpsu Member Posts: 747
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    So sweet!
    That Reggie of yours is a real gem - you are so lucky to have such a wonderful partner! That story brought tears to my eyes, it was so sweet.
    Linda
  • RE
    RE Member Posts: 4,591 Member
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    WHAT A GUY!
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    He is a good and honorable man who carries his love for you not just in his heart but on his sleeve, I am so glad he is your Warrior in Pink! Please thank your Reggie for bringing our plight to the forefront as it is greatly appreciated!

    RE
  • CypressCynthia
    CypressCynthia Member Posts: 4,014 Member
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    Reggie is a keeper--that is so sweet! Thank him from all of us too for daring to wear pink, etc. What a great guy!
  • missrenee
    missrenee Member Posts: 2,136 Member
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    Reggie is a keeper--that is so sweet! Thank him from all of us too for daring to wear pink, etc. What a great guy!

    I just love the men who "get it"
    and obviously, yours does. Thank him from all of us here. We love our men who support and cherish the women they're with.

    Thanks for sharing!

    Hugs, Renee
  • MyTurnNow
    MyTurnNow Member Posts: 2,686 Member
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    A keeper for sure!!
    I must admit, I'm not surprised by your story. YOU are an amazing individual and it only makes sense to me that you would surround yourself with amazing people. He is definately a "keeper" and I'm so glad you have him in your corner. Thank him for me, too. I can just envision your manly man in pink. I'm certain he wore it well!
  • GayleMc
    GayleMc Member Posts: 311 Member
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    MyTurnNow said:

    A keeper for sure!!
    I must admit, I'm not surprised by your story. YOU are an amazing individual and it only makes sense to me that you would surround yourself with amazing people. He is definately a "keeper" and I'm so glad you have him in your corner. Thank him for me, too. I can just envision your manly man in pink. I'm certain he wore it well!

    Reggie is truly a man. He " gets it " and isn't afraid to wear the pink to show it. My 29 yr. old, macho, 250 lb. son bought a pink shopping bag at our local grocery and carries it to shop in honor of all us warriors I don't think anyone would be stupid enough to ridicule him, as he's so BIG, but I'm proud that he also " gets it " because as his mom I always felt he was immature. I guess he's a lot more of a man than I thought.
  • sea60
    sea60 Member Posts: 2,613
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    What a guy!
    Bless his heart. You must be quite proud of him.


    Thanks for sharing that touching story with us Chen!

    Hugs & blessings,

    Sylvia
  • ladyg
    ladyg Member Posts: 1,577
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    I just want
    to say what a wonderful man you have. You are lucky to have found someone with so much understanding and compassion. Don't let him get away!

    Hugs
    Georgia
  • fauxma
    fauxma Member Posts: 3,577 Member
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    Chen,
    That is the most

    Chen,
    That is the most touching tribute to you and to the fight against breast cancer. I cannot think of a better way for one person to tell another they love them with all their heart than doing what your Reggie did. And the fact that he reached out to so many people. It is just another reason that I love you two so much. I am not an October pink person but this was the perfect pink. I prayer that you and he have years and years to celebrate your love for each other.
    Stef
  • VickiSam
    VickiSam Member Posts: 9,079 Member
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    fauxma said:

    Chen,
    That is the most

    Chen,
    That is the most touching tribute to you and to the fight against breast cancer. I cannot think of a better way for one person to tell another they love them with all their heart than doing what your Reggie did. And the fact that he reached out to so many people. It is just another reason that I love you two so much. I am not an October pink person but this was the perfect pink. I prayer that you and he have years and years to celebrate your love for each other.
    Stef

    Chen ... what a wonderful, caring and loving
    husband you have! Reggie's love for you is overwhelming to say the very least. I hope and pray that you and Reggie have a lifetime of happiness to share with each other and the world.


    Vicki Sam
  • mwallace1325
    mwallace1325 Member Posts: 806
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    You are both so lucky
    You are so lucky to have found one another. He honors you in so many ways and you show us all the time that you are truly a woman to be honored. Thanks to both of you for being here for us all.

    marge