Jul 16, 2010 - 11:45 pm
So, here is my story...Im the eldest of five children and in February of 2008 my Grandfather, who was my Mom's dad, passed of leukemia. Then in April of 2008, my Mom had bad headaches and it turned out that She has a brain tumor that was surrounded by a cyst and the cyst had ruptured. About a week later, my Mom had to have brain surgery and then went through chemotherapy and radiation...the tumor was malignant and was a child's type of cancer. The doctors said that the tumor was there since my Mom was in utero. Anyway...my Mom was in remission of the cancer and had to go for a couple of treatments of chemotherapy left and She developed pnuemonia...three weeks later She passed from that.
Anyway...about three months later my father started dating this women. He hid it from us to protect us and about a year and a month after my Mom passed her proposed to her and they are due to get married next year. I do not like her and not for the reasons that I shouldnt like, but because she has no kids, no siblings, has the patience of a rat, and is too nice. There is totally something going on with this chick and I think my dad is blinded by love...
About two weeks ago I did something not so great though...all of this has been bottled up inside AND the fact that my dad doesnt not egknowlegde what I do around my house with my sisters, who are 15 years old, i.e. talk to them about drugs, sex, alcohol, life, something a mother would do...and so I did something without thinking of the consequences and went out to dinner with my sisters and ripped up the place mat and wrote stupid things like..."youre hot call me", "i just bought edible panties for you". etc and wrote my dad's fiancee's cell phone number on it...to make a longgg story short...my dad and her found out, my dad kicked me out for over a week, ruined my 21st bday, and is totally not understanding the truth behind my actions. Him and his fiancee have not forgiven me yet and still bring it up all the time...please please help me!!! I know that I should not have done that, but i was just so mad at so many things that went on the prior week, like she being at my bro's graduation, grad party, prom, etc instead of my Mom...I want to make this right, but unfortunately I think only time will heal this one...i mean this morning a telemarketer called her house, after she changed her cell and house number, and she freaked on my dad, who then freaked on me bc they think i had something to do with the telemarketer calling her house at 6am...HELP!!!
btw...already brought her flowers and a little gift...