Jul 13, 2010 - 12:07 pm
My mom has recently been diagnoised with cancer. We really do not have much information except that is metastatic cancer that is in her liver and lungs. Her doctors believe it has spread other places and they're doing a CT scan Thursday, July 15th.
We don't know the prognosis, but her doctor did tell her it was really bad. He said they haven't been able to pinpoint a point of origin. All this stemmed from my concern that my mother wasn't feeling well and had her check her BP. She had high BP and was rushed to the ER on early Saturday morning.
My mother is only 46-years-old! My mother has given so much in her life to raise my brother and I. She got married six years ago and was finally getting settled with her life. I felt like within the last three years she'd finally found some peace and happiness in life. FINALLY. NOW THIS!
I was so excited yesterday because on Sunday my husband and I found out we're pregnant. It all seems so bittersweet. I can't help to wonder the chances my mom will even be here when the baby is born.
It all seems so vague right now and I dont know what to do or what to say. Who to tell, who not to tell. We don't have enough information. We're waiting and it's the worst feeling ever.
I do not want to lose my mom. I'm sure no one on here ever wants to lose anyone.
I just feel so lost.