Who Packs Your Parachute?

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LadyParvati
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edited March 2014 in Breast Cancer #1
INSIGHTS INTO EXCELLENCE
Packing Parachutes - Excerpt from Chapter 16
By Charlie Plumb

Recently, I was sitting in a restaurant in Kansas City. A man about two tables away kept looking at me. I didn't recognize him. A few minutes into our meal he stood up and walked over to my table, looked down at me, pointed his finger in my face and said, "You're Captain Plumb."

I looked up and I said, "Yes sir, I'm Captain Plumb."

He said, "You flew jet fighters in Vietnam. You were on the aircraft carrier Kitty Hawk. You were shot down. You parachuted into enemy hands and spent six years as a prisoner of war."

I said, "How in the world did you know all that?"

He replied, "Because, I packed your parachute."

I was speechless. I staggered to my feet and held out a very grateful hand of thanks. This guy came up with just the proper words. He grabbed my hand, he pumped my arm and said, "I guess it worked."

"Yes sir, indeed it did", I said, "and I must tell you I've said a lot of prayers of thanks for your nimble fingers, but I never thought I'd have the opportunity to express my gratitude in person."

He said, "Were all the panels there?"

"Well sir, I must shoot straight with you," I said, "of the eighteen panels that were supposed to be in that parachute, I had fifteen good ones. Three were torn, but it wasn't your fault, it was mine. I jumped out of that jet fighter at a high rate of speed, close to the ground. That's what tore the panels in the chute. It wasn't the way you packed it."

"Let me ask you a question," I said, "do you keep track of all the parachutes you pack?"

"No" he responded, "it's enough gratification for me just to know that I've served."

I didn't get much sleep that night. I kept thinking about that man. I kept wondering what he might have looked like in a Navy uniform - a Dixie cup hat, a bib in the back and bell bottom trousers. I wondered how many times I might have passed him on board the Kitty Hawk. I wondered how many times I might have seen him and not even said "good morning", "how are you", or anything because, you see, I was a fighter pilot and he was just a sailor. How many hours did he spend on that long wooden table in the bowels of that ship weaving the shrouds and folding the silks of those chutes? I could have cared less...until one day my parachute came along and he packed it for me.

So the philosophical question here is this: How's your parachute packing coming along? Who looks to you for strength in times of need? And perhaps, more importantly, who are the special people in your life who provide you the encouragement you need when the chips are down? Perhaps it's time right now to give those people a call and thank them for packing your chute.

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Some friends just sent me this, and it was perfect for me right now--I needed the reminder to express my gratitude not only to my DH but also to some friends, who have all been packing my parachute frequently (sometimes more than once a day!) over the last several challenging weeks.

Sometimes we keep ourselves going, sometimes we keep each other going, and sometimes others keep us going.

Hugs, Sandy

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  • Mama G
    Mama G Member Posts: 762
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    So true....
    Thanks Sandy, that was a good read, and good timing!
  • Rague
    Rague Member Posts: 3,653 Member
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    Hubby was a PR
    My Hubby was a USN PR (Parachute Rigger/Aircrew Survival Equiptmentman) from May 1975 - May 1995.
  • DianeBC
    DianeBC Member Posts: 3,881 Member
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    Rague said:

    Hubby was a PR
    My Hubby was a USN PR (Parachute Rigger/Aircrew Survival Equiptmentman) from May 1975 - May 1995.

    Thanks for this post Sandy!

    Thanks for this post Sandy!
  • Different Ballgame
    Different Ballgame Member Posts: 868
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    Good Solid Story
    Hi Sandy,

    First, I am glad to see you on board today. You came back with a good, strong story. I like it. Who packs my parahute? My family and my friends. Yes, this time around I am thanking all them at different times for packing my parachute. I have even printed what I said about my husband on this site and have given it to him to read as well as having my children read what I wrote about their father. Sometimes, it is good to see it in print as opposed to hearing the words.

    Lots of Hugs,
    Janelle
  • carkris
    carkris Member Posts: 4,553 Member
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    Good Solid Story
    Hi Sandy,

    First, I am glad to see you on board today. You came back with a good, strong story. I like it. Who packs my parahute? My family and my friends. Yes, this time around I am thanking all them at different times for packing my parachute. I have even printed what I said about my husband on this site and have given it to him to read as well as having my children read what I wrote about their father. Sometimes, it is good to see it in print as opposed to hearing the words.

    Lots of Hugs,
    Janelle

    that was an awesome story.

    that was an awesome story.
  • MyTurnNow
    MyTurnNow Member Posts: 2,686 Member
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    Thanks, Sandy, that is an
    Thanks, Sandy, that is an awesome story and one I've read before BUT worth repeating over and over. I think my wonderful husband and daughter are the main parachute packers for me but I also want to thank all of your wonderful ladies and men on this site. You have all helped me with answers to my questions and also replies to many other questions I was thinking but never had to ask. THANK YOU!!!!
  • mariam_11_09
    mariam_11_09 Member Posts: 691
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    thank-you for posting this
    thank-you for posting this Sandy. It brought tears of gratitude to my eyes and got me thinking about all my wonderful friends and wondering which one I might have overlooked. Sometimes all it takes is a friendly smile from the person in the local coffee shop or grocery store to offer an uplift and sometimes it is that dear friend or family member who is just there no matter what.