Jan 08, 2010 - 6:17 pm
Yep, I have none and i have told everyone and the calls keep coming, i have paper bills stacked to the ceiling and i am terrified that one day someone will find them if i die.
Sick, isn't it but this is what haunts me more than anything,
Anyone know what to do, My extended family helps when they can but that is running out and I get disability and what my husband and i make in our art and his income we really don't qualify for much social assistance and for some strange reason, people (creditors and hospitals ) think we have enough to make payments, (which we don't)
My kids are missing out on so much, like good food and clothes and enjoying going out with friends and just being able to have things that their friends have,. I recently let my daughter take my bank card to the mall because i was tired of saying no. And before i knew it she was calling me to say she wanted to buy this and that and i gave in thinking it was ok, and two days later when all the charges hit the bank, i was over drawn $156.00 and i had to just let it ride because i had no more favors with the bank ( a bank officers been really good about helping me with overdrafts, but no more).
I know many of you are going through this to, so how do you cope, and what do you do, I keep on saying to myself when i get well i can handle a BK, But right now I don't know.
I have never had bad credit before and i don't care about the credit score, but i need it to go way and i need to keep my house, our cars and our tools.
So what a girl to do?