Went for help and advice today........

dyaneb123 said:

Try to think of it as the
Try to think of it as the end of the turmoil and the beginning of peace.We're proud of you for having the fortitude to make the move.
Dee

So glad to hear that you're

So glad to hear that you're looking forward and doing whatever needs to be done, so you can move past this.

Joyce

Yes. Beautiful
Tasha, you are beautiful in every way possible. I am so proud and relieved and happy that you are moving forward, however painfully, to the life you deserve to have. You are brave in this, too, and will do more than survive--you will thrive, free of someone who hurt you and denied you the joy of being you.

Moopy23 said:

Yes. Beautiful
Tasha, you are beautiful in every way possible. I am so proud and relieved and happy that you are moving forward, however painfully, to the life you deserve to have. You are brave in this, too, and will do more than survive--you will thrive, free of someone who hurt you and denied you the joy of being you.

In Case You Ever Have 2nd Thoughts....
Tasha, I too hooked up with a loser...been divorced 12 years but he still shows up ocasionally with a sob story asking for money....hasn't worked in 5 years or so...he's the king of finding some stupid woman(like me) to keep him up... anyway, he calls last night late(leaves a message) saying he needs a prescription filled and doesn't have any money , can I give him $50. I ignor the call thinking he will get the hint and go away....4 calls later I finally call and remind him that I have chemo tommorrow and some very expensive meds. of my own to pay for and NO! I cannot give him any money AND DON'T ASK ME AGAIN!!!!!
His response....."oh sorry, I forgot what you were going through...."
One a selfcentered pr**k always a selfcentered pr**k...
Sorry for venting but I thought you could probably relate!
Dee

Akiss4me said:

Tasha....
So proud of you for forging foreward and onward!! But I'm alittle lost, what wonderful apartment are you viewing? Did I miss a thread somewhere? Geesh...even with my newfound shortcut on only reading new post, I still have a hard time keeping up!! Pammy

Good luck to you Tasha. I
Good luck to you Tasha. I hope your apartment is what you are looking for! Great that you have help!

fauxma said:

I'm with you Pammy. What
I'm with you Pammy. What Apartment and how did we miss the news? Come on, Tasha explain to the lame brains.
Stef

Why
Why look for an apartment when you already have a place? Maybe the place you are in brings bad memories or is too expensive. Now that blob is out of the picture you should have more money--I know I do.

Margo

tgf said:

me too
I'm with Pammy, Stef and Margo ... I must have missed a thread somewhere ... because I didn't know you were planning on moving. Fill us in ... so we won't feel so left out ...

We are all so proud of you and want to know what's going on with your "NEW" life.

hugs.
teena

Me too, too
I'll just reiterate what everyone's been saying: GOOD FOR YOU!!!
You are letting your strength and resourcefulness shine through, and you are making a new and wonderful life for yourself. I'm so proud of you, too -- it may not be easy, but it's the right and the best thing for you to do.

Yay YOU!!!!!

With love and encouragement,
Debi

rjjj said:

me too!
I am so proud of you Tash! The sun is breaking through all those dark clouds! I hope you LOVE your new apt. and your life tuns out to be all that you have dreamed of.
love and hugs, jackie

Good luck Tasha! Why do you
Good luck Tasha! Why do you have to leave your house? You will be so much happier with the, as Margo says, blob gone. lol