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MR_SAD
Posts: 91
Joined: Nov 2008

Hello My friends. A Few of my friends that I have know for quite some time are telling me that I should join a Support Group in my town for People like me that has Lost a loved one.
Has anyone any experience with these kinds of Groups. Everyone on this site has been my Support Group for quite some time while I was caring for my Wife and After she Lost Her Battle. I really don't Know to much about these things. If anyone could help me out I would greatly appreciate it. Is it worth Looking in too? The Hospice Social Worker also said I should consider it. Just wanted some of your thoughts. I really value all of the great advice and support I have recieved from all of my friends on this site.

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zahalene
Posts: 624
Joined: Nov 2005

We all handle and process grief in different ways. And then some of us are more of a 'people person' than others.
Personally, I would probably never share with 'real people' (so to speak) the way I do here on these boards and in the chat room. In fact, there is no one in my life, even other cancer survivors, who I get so 'real' with as I do my friends here. I did attend a general crisis support group at one time which was made up of women from my church, all of whom were already close friends. I considered it more of a social outlet than a system for support.
But others will testify that 'face to face' support is the best way to go. I think it wouldn't hurt to check into what is available in your area and even give a group or two a try if you feel so inclined. After all, there is no life-time membership required and if you don't 'connect' after a few meetings, no harm done.
God bless.

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MR_SAD
Posts: 91
Joined: Nov 2008

I think for now I will just continue here on this site. You are Right, The friends I have made on thi