New Life

mah
mah Member Posts: 28
edited March 2014 in Surviving Caregivers #1
My husband died June 7. It was a relief because he had suffered so long. I still feel like my life is in limbo and still revolves around him. I miss him terribly, but when do I feel like I have a life back again? My kids and friends have been wonderful and I keep busy but something is missing. This is the second time I have been through this but I don't remember feeling like this before unless it's because my kids were at home then and I focused on them. I would welcome any comments. MA

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  • grannyfranny
    grannyfranny Member Posts: 42
    #2
    I'm sorry you've had to wait so long for a reply. People so often don't know what to say to someone who's been bereaved, so they don't say anything.

    You've been through such a lot, being widowed twice. I hope you're feeling better now; it must be awfully hard. Take good care of yourself.
  • mah
    mah Member Posts: 28
    #3
    grannyfranny said:

    I'm sorry you've had to wait so long for a reply. People so often don't know what to say to someone who's been bereaved, so they don't say anything.

    You've been through such a lot, being widowed twice. I hope you're feeling better now; it must be awfully hard. Take good care of yourself.

    Thank you for replying. I am much better now that the holidays are over with. I still don't know where I'm headed with my life. I go to the grief support group which has been a big help to me. Thanks for caring. MA
  • mah
    mah Member Posts: 28
    #4
    grannyfranny said:

    I'm sorry you've had to wait so long for a reply. People so often don't know what to say to someone who's been bereaved, so they don't say anything.

    You've been through such a lot, being widowed twice. I hope you're feeling better now; it must be awfully hard. Take good care of yourself.

    Thank you for replying. I am much better now that the holidays are over with. I still don't know where I'm headed with my life. I still go to the grief support group which has been a big help to me. Thanks for caring. MA

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