Jul 26, 2001 - 11:05 pm
my mother in law and friend won't tell us her prognosis, is missng appointments etc. She survived the brain tumor surgery like a champ, very open and honest about things then, and thru radiation and chemo on lung. Now she won't tell us anything and has not seen a doctor in months. Tells my husband that it's none of his business, she's pushing us all away - on purpose- I think she is trying to go it alone. My husband and I want to talk to her, want to get her fighting again, want her to not give up...so many kids and grandkids love her and don't want to loose her. We don't know what to do!!! Don't want to upset her, but want to know what is going on. Any advice on what we should do??? Please!!!