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I'm a single guy, live alone, diagnosed at age 37, stage II renal cell carcinoma, right kidney, July 2000. Three days later I was in surgery for a radical nephrectomy, tumor, kidney, lymph nodes, etc. It was all handled very quickly and matter-of-factly, no emotion, no tears. I never felt sad, or mad, or any of those other…