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CheeseQueen57
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Dear sisters. I heard from our dear Bobbi. She is at home being cared for by dear friends and hospice. Unfortunately she is still suffering a lot of pain. So please pray for her pain to be relieved and her mind to be at peace. Also pray for those who are caring for her. I know you'll wrap your virtual arms around her. 

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Donna Faye
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Dear Cheese, thank you for letting us know this. Yes, we will all join in hope for the pain and suffering to cease and for Bobbi to know she is loved by many who never met her but feel a sisterhood that is so strong. I go to this board every day and learn more about strength and courage than at any other place. Our shared disease is not a kind one and each of us draws courage from our pooled strength. Bobbi is one of those who has shared so much to help us all. May the good Lord bless and keep her and may her pain be swept away.

 

MAbound
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I'm having so many different emotions hearing this; I don't think I can find the words. I mad because this is so unfair, heartbroken because I can't believe that it's come to this, guilt-ridden because it's her and not me, and I'm upset to think of her in pain and that it's been going on for as long as it has. Thank you, Bobbi, for all that you've given of yourself here. It will always matter. Love you to infinity and beyond. Find your peace.

Pat

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Forherself
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Bobbi those are my prayers for you.  And your caregivers who give so much.  xoxo

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Kaleena
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Thanks for the update.   Saying prayers for Bobbi and her caregivers.   

Kathy

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cmb
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While this board is a wonderful resource, including women from many countries, the disadvantage of our geographic separation is especially poignant at times like this when one of our most active and dearly loved members is struggling and we can't be there in person to help. I hope that hospice can manage her pain and that Bobbi's other caregivers and friends provide her with the support she needs now.

zsazsa1
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Bobbi, wishing you peace and comfort.  Thank you for all you have contributed to us here.

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Rosesforever
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Selfishly I will miss Bobbi's knowledge & guidance. I wish her peace & comfort on her journey. Sending positive thought. with love as always. 

Fridays Child
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I'm so sad to hear this news, and pray that her pain can be managed and her mind at rest.  I appreciate the knowledge and caring that she has shared here.

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derMaus
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So far so  good... ANYTHING beats this dams hospital bead !!!

SF73
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Yippie. So good to hear from you!

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CheeseQueen57
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I agree. From experience, it’s impossible to get comfortable in those beds. I found myself constantly slipping down and having to scootch myself up. 

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Armywife
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Wonderful to hear from you!  Keep on, girl!  We're praying for you daily. Please  text if you need anything as you're able.  Chris sent you my number.

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EZLiving66
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So good to hear from you!! Hopefully you're able to rest without pain. 

Love,

Eldri 

Fridays Child
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They sure weren't engineered for comfort!  Praying for you!

oldbeauty
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Powerful "mojo" thoughts going out to you, for your continued freedom from pain and sustenance from the peaceful support of your palliative care team.  Getting out of the "damn hospital bed" seems to be a powerful motivator for you.  I hope you are able to move around a bit and interact with family and friends who are there to support and love you.  I will just add my voice to the others who rightfully laud you for the contributions you have made to the board and that you continue to make with your heroic ("heroine-oic") efforts to keep us mindful of your presence.  Peace be with you.  Best wishes, Oldbeauty

ConnieSW
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her not to hurt. And to thank her for sharing herself on this site. 

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Armywife
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My husband and I are praying daily for Bobbi.  She has been a voice of encouragement, wisdom, practicality and humor to all of us. What a fierce fighter she is!  I often think about what I'd want on that journey, and the answer is that I want to be remembered.  I want to have mattered.  Something I love about this board is that we don't forget the ones who have walked the hard path.  I'm thinking of so many we have lost since I've been reading - Editgrl, Pinky, Linmk, so many.  Here's to all of us - and to bravery and peace.   

janaes
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This part of pur group is soo sad and hard. I also will not forget Lou Ann and Beccabtown. 

I pray that the hospice team can help Bobbi to be pain free and that she can find peace in her heart.

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Jairoldi
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It's hard to hear that Bobbi is still in pain. Cheese, is there any way could send cards to her? Perhaps through the hospice agency to be respectful of privacy?

barnyardgal
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Bobbi, thank you for all you have contributed to this board, and the advice and love you have given to all of us. You have made a difference in all of our lives with your wisdom and kind words. Thank you. I pray that you're free of pain and are comforted by the presence of your loved ones and the knowledge that you helped so many.

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TeddyandBears_Mom
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Bobbi, Thinking of you today and always. I hope and pray that you are able to find relief from your pain. Thanks for being such a wonderful friend and member of this group. 

Cheese, really appreciate the update. Sure wish it was better news.

Love and Hugs,

Cindi

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cmb
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I got a brief message from Bobbi this morning, saying that she is currently pain free! No additional information, but so glad to hear her care team has her pain under control.

Donswife48
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I am glad that she sent a message and that she is pain free at this moment.  I hope that things continue to be managed and she can rest.  Hugs Nancy

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Armywife
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Oh, so thankful to hear this!!

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TeddyandBears_Mom
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Glad to hear this news.  Thanks CMB.

Love and Hugs,

Cindi

Fridays Child
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Thanks for updating us.

MoeKay
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I'm so happy to hear that Bobbi is now pain free!  I suspect it may have taken the hospice folks a while to effectively manage her pain, but I'm so glad that they've found a pain-management regimen that is working well.  Continued thoughts, prayers, and big hugs being sent to Bobbi! 

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Quilter_1
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I hope that she remains pain free on these last steps of her journey.  Hospice workers are truly angels on earth.  May our Heavenly Father wrap his arms around her and bring her peace.  
Love and peace to you, our sister  warrior.

Linda

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dgrdalton
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Praying for Bobbi, family and caregivers. Thankful her pain is under control. 
Appreciate the update, Cheese Queen.

SF73
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It has been so hard to post a message to this thread. I just adore derMaus and am still hoping for a remission.

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mamlicsw
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but comforted to know she is now pain free and in hospice care.  I don't know Bobbi as well as many on this board as I'm still relatively new.  Clearly she is beloved.  What a wonderful legacy.  Mary Ann

Northwoodsgirl
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I have you in my prayers...praying for comfort, grace and peace unto you.

 I too will pray for your caregivers as they do the work of angels making sure you are well cared for.

You have helped so many women who sought help in making sense of uterine cancer.  You have made a difference for many women in our “sisterhood”. God bless you and keep you comforted. 

((Hug))

Lori

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jan9wils
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Dear Bobbi,

I pray you continue to find comfort and peace, pain-free as you enjoy your days with people who love you. Please know that we are all surrounding you with our love. 

MugsBugs
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This disease is relentless? Bobbi you Have been a voice of comfort and knowledge to all the ladies!  Praying that you remain pain free.  Sending love and prayers!  Thanks Cheese for keeping us informed - I think and pray for all you brave ladies every day!

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Susie2
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Dear Bobbi, you're in my prayers,too. I am not on often, but your posts helped me so much when first diagnosed. Hoping you are pain free and filled with peace. 

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NoTimeForCancer
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B - look at you!  Ha!  LOVE YOU MY FRIEND.  

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TeddyandBears_Mom
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So great to see you up and posting Bobbi! I hope you continue on to much better health!

Love and Hugs,

Cindi

MoeKay
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Hi Bobbi,

It was so good to see your recent post and hear that you're up and doing somewhat better!  May you gain strength and remain pain-free in the coming days!!

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Tamlen
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Bobbi, since I first joined the forum almost two years ago I've though of you as one of my heroes here, both because you have been such a warrior and because you have given so much to us here. I'm sorry I've been away while you've been going through so much. I'm sending you a big virtual hug.

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