New member, stage IV esophageal cancer

48 yr old male, retired military, current civilian government employee, father of 5, married 27 years, originally from upstate, New York but currently residing in Kentucky.

Stage IV endocarcinoma Esophageal Cancer, lower section, clinical trial chemotherapy at Siteman Cancer center in ST Louis, Missouri.

Hello warriors, How are you all.  I'm new to the Forum and look forward to talking to you all.  I would like to post my story, But First things first. I want to give a shout out and a huge thank you to all the caregivers out there.  I know that Without the support of my spouse and friends, I would most certainly not be here today.  THANK YOU!

My Journey:  so back in December of 2015 I started having problems swallowing food and water.  The kids were all home on leave for Christmas, so I told my wife id go to the dr after the holidays. I went to my general practitioneer at Ireland Any Hospital and was told I had acid reflex and that I prob just needed my flapper stretched.   I was given a referral to see a gastro.. dr but my appointment was almost 3 months away as they were all booked up. (I feel this long delay in diognosis might ultimately cost me my life).  while waiting for my appointment with gastro.. I lost about a lb a day for 2 months.  At first I thought it was awesome, the best diet plan ever,  until I hit the 40-50 lb weight loss.  at that time when I looked into my eyes I could see death coming.  I called gastro and insisted on coming in immediately.  The nurse agreed and I went in the next day for a scope.  My wife was out of town on business so my sister in law drove me.  When I woke up from my scope I was alone.  I saw a piece of paper with pictures of some ugly things that had arrows pointing to them that said tumors.   We met with the local oncologist who told me I had a very rare and deadly cancer and things didn't look good.  He said he had not treated esophageal cancer before, but I could start chemo the next day.  My wife then stood up, thanked the dr for his time, and told me we were moving to Texas so I could get treated at MD Anderson.  I told my wife that the Dallas Cowboys were there and moving to Texas was not an option, this was non negotiable (Go Steelers).  After doing a couple days research we decided that Siteman Cancer Center in ST Louis was our best option as the oncologists were MD Anderson trained and it was only 350 miles from our house.  When we initially drove to ST Louis we intended on my moving there and getting chemo, radiation and surgery.  After meeting with the oncologist and telling him about the lump I could feel on my neck, he immediately took a painful sample and after a short wait I was old it was cancer in my lymph node.  After meeting with him, the radiologist and the surgeon, they all agreed that it had spread too far and chemo was my only option.  After reviewing my scans He also told me at that time I had  stage IV cancer and that chemo would only buy me a little time. We drove home defeated.  We called three of my kids that are in the military and told them to start making arrangements for companionate reassignments home. We told the kids exactly what the dr told us, w did not lie.  Just before we arrived home the oncologist called me and told me about a clinical trial and told me that after running my blood work, I was a good candidate for the trial.  I of course agreed.  The next week we drove back to ST Louis and started aggressive chemo.  The first treatment was like draino, it opened up my clogged pipes up and I was able to eat later that night.  I continued chemo, every other week, and still continue driving 700 miles every other week.  I am on like treatment 40, and the drive is starting to beat me down.  After my first scan I had 37% overall shrinkage in tumors and lymph nodes.  I was at 47% shrinkage after 2nd scan and leveled off after the third scan and nearly 60% overall shrinkage in my tumor and my lymph nodes are not lighting up on my scans.  Since January I have remained there, no shrinkage and no growth. At the time of my third scan my quality of life was very bad.  I could hardly walk, severe neuropathy in my hands and feet, my toe nails and hair fell out, I developed diabetes and my vision was failing bad. At that time they took me off the chemo Drug that was causing all this (can't remember the name).  Since then I have put all my weight back on plus 15 more lbs.  I have regained most of the feeling in my hands and feet and my hair on my head has grown back.  I am HER2 pos and believe the herceptin is keeping the cancer at Bay now. We are starting to look at our next option should the cancer start hitting back, right now we are afraid to change anything.  I have been 110% positive since the beginning.  I feed off positive people at Siteman and try to project positivity to every I meet there. Initially I was very diligent about what I ate or drank, but since my third scan I have gotten way to cocky and find myself not eating as good/healthy as I should. I need help getting back in track with that. Since the beginning my wife makes me take fish oil, cinnamon, multi Vitamins, and Vit D.  The dr has me on protonix for heartburn/acid reflux which I have never suffered from, but my oncologist insist this is what caused my cancer.  I am also on lyrica for the neuropathy which is working.  And recently started taking metformin to help with the diabetes.  I live on a two week cycle, a good week and a bad week.  My bad weeks are worse than ever but my good weeks are better than ever.  My hair has grown back.  I can feel my feet and hands and my diabetes is pretty much under control with regular testing and insulin shots.  Additionally I drink organic green tea twice daily.  I now go to church regularly and try fighting this from all angles.  My wife has eased up on me as far as diet and I need to get back on track.  I love life, god is great.  In the beginning i begged God to give me year, and it has been a year and a half and counting.  I thank God every day I wake up.  I feel in my heart that I am going to beat cancer.  I live to be with my kids and grand baby.  If anyone has any questions for me, ask away.  I look forward to getting to know you all.  Note, I have only met 1 other person with the same cancer I have.  We were nearly identical in every way when I met him, except he and his wife accepted the fact that he was not going to beat it.  I was very saddened.  I tried to email and call with encouragement but he never answered back.  I would love to talk to people who are similar in diagnosis.  Also, up until this week, I have never missed a treatment.  This past week my chemo sickness really beat me down and my dr told me I could skip a week and rest and recover.  I'll add more tomorrow, I'm sure I forgot to include a lot of info.  I will also read they more if your stories.  My wife manages my care, treatment, plan B.  I do what ever that still instructor tells me to.  She saved my life. We are really looking into immunotherapy as the next step should the cancer fight back. I don't know you yet, but I love you all! Keep up the good fight.    

 

Bill Baraby




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  • Deathorglory
    Deathorglory Member Posts: 364 Member
    Hello Bill

    Hello Bill, 

    Sorry you find yourself here, but glad that you're still around.  Unfortunately, a year and a half survival is a long time for stage IV EC.  There just aren't a lot of folks who make it that long.  As such, you have a lot of value to the people on this site.  You can talk first hand to folks who find themselves in a very bad spot.  I hope you stay active here, because there really are (too many) people who would love to get 1st person insight and be offered hope when they feel hopeless.   

    My case and yours are parallel in a lot of ways.  I started off stage III in 2008 and was offered chemo, radiation and surgery.  Because I was fairly young (40), we wanted to be as aggressive as possible.  I was looking to survive for decades, not just a few years.  So we did chemo/radiation, then surgery, then a bonus course of stronger chemo just to be as aggresive as possible.  I tested clean by every measure and thought I was done with it.  Unfortunately, life happens on its terms, not mine, and I had a recurrence in 2011.  This time there was a tumor in my lung (which is a bad spot to have one) and I was given 7-8 months life expectancy.  I thought I was free and clear, but it had come back and metastasized and I was now stage IV with a grim prognosis.  Surgery and radiation weren't options, so it was going to be chemo only.  

    I was fortunate that I go to a top flight cancer center and they knew to test me for HER2 overexpresion.  (Some folks are still not tested b/c their docs don't know enough.  I feel bad for them and usually recommend they look for better doctors at a better hospital.)  I was HER2+ and fortunately, herceptin had just been approved for metastatic EC.  I was given folfox (brutally harsh) every two weeks and herceptin (quite mild) every week. I responded VERY well to the treatment and have been testing clean (except for a recent lung nodule) for 5+ years now.  I only got 12 rounds of the folfox, but I've been getting the herceptin every week since 2011.   We don't really know if the herceptin is holding off another recurrence, because there's no study of folks taking it as long as me, because there are no folks who have been taking it as long as me.  Regardless, something has worked very well for me so we're not going to fix something that's not broken.  So, the weekly herceptin goes on indefinitely.  

    I'v also at one time or another run into a few of the hardships/side effects that you have.  I've had full body baldness.  I had diabetes for years before the EC, but cancer & its treatments does make it harder to manage.  I have permanent neuropathy in my hands and feet from the folfox (would love to hear about how the Lyrica works--please share).  When on folfox, I was so beat up that I occasionally had to crawl to the bathroom (made it every time, but one).  I lost 50 pounds, but I only weighed 165 to start with, so I was a near skeleton at 115.  

    There were a couple of other things I wanted to be sure to include here.  First, I know with absolute certainty that I'd be dead now if it wasn't for my wife.  I think it's great that you're giving your wife that same recognition--caregivers' contributions are frequently overlooked.  Another thing is that, unfortunately, EC (both  adenocarcinoma and squamous cell) is not all that rare.  It has been becoming more frequent in the U.S.  Each year brings in about another 17,000 of us.  Also, what was the chemo/clinical trial combination that you were on?  Are you currently on the clinical trial and herceptin, with the chemo dropped?  That's how it sounded.  You never specified exactly why you are stage IV.  Is it the lymph nodes, or was there spread further than that?  Finally, I mention sometimes to folks how much benefit can be derived by having a positive attitude and a will to fight this SOB.  You are an example of both of those.  Keep it up.

    Wishing you the best & hoping you continue living up to your username,

    Ed 

  • LorettaMarshall
    LorettaMarshall Member Posts: 662 Member
    Bill~Re your ltr~facts re EC~Best hospital listings,welcome

    Well good evening Bill,

    I see that our friend “Ed” has already answered you, and as a Stage IV Esophageal Cancer patient, he is certainly a dependable source of information.  May as well know, we’re not known for glossing over and sugar coating Esophageal Cancer.  First I say “welcome”, but wish I could say, “You’re not welcome.”  This is not the kind of place we like to meet “friends” that have things in common.  Nevertheless, here we

  • Follow Up

     

    Hi Ed and Loretta,

     

       Thank you very much for your replys and input.  I will Address Eds Questions first and Read thru your info tonight Loretta.  I think this board is just what I've needed.   I too am sorry that you have cancer, but very glad that you are doing well.  I’ll try to answer your questions the best I can.  My wife handles all of my care, so I am actually pretty dumb when it comes to what Meds/drugs I am on, but I can find out.  I actually need to start getting smart on all this stuff.  According to my Health Chart I found the following information.

     

     

     

    My Conditions

     

    • Malignant Neoplasm of lower third of Esophagus

    • Metastatic adenocarcinoma to lymph node

     

     

     

    ChemoTherapy

     

    • FOLFIRINOX

    • 5FU and Irinotecan

    • Trastuzumab (Herceptin)

    • Oxaliplatin

       

      I go to Chemotherapy every other week for about 6 hours, then I wear a pump with 5FU for 2 days.  I have been doing this continually for 1.5 years.

    • I could not find what the name of the actual Clinical Trial that I am on is called. I texted my wife and should have that info shortly.  I do know that I was taken off one of the chemo meds and thus I was removed from the Clinical Trial and placed in a Maintenance Phase.           

       

       

      I would agree with you 100%, if someone is diagnosed with EC, they need to get their @$$ up and GO!  DO NOT WASTE ANY TIME GETTING TREATED AT YOUR LOCAL HOSPITAL!!!!   You need to get over the shock quick and get busy.  If you are a caregiver, you need to take control and get them to the right place. Unless you are fortunate enough to live near a major Cancer Center that specializes in EC.  This is your life.  This is bad cancer.  There is no time to lay around whining.  If not for my wife, I would have most definitely listened to my local oncologist and started chemo in my hometown, and I would not be here today typing this.  I drive 700 miles Round trip every other week for the last year and a half.  It really, really sucks, but I am willing to do whatever I need to do to survive.   If I have to make this drive for the next 20 years, I will.   It sucks Ballz, but I’ll do it.  If you don’t have the $$ to travel, etc, there are ways around this.  There are organizations out there that will help with travel, lodging, etc.  People, you have to make this happen.  

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          I believe in my heart that Herceptin is what is holding my the cancer at bay.   The one person that I met with the same cancer as me was identical in every way as me to include (age, sex, same month of therapy start, Conditions) but at the time of his 3rd scan he had only had 10% Total Reduction.  The only difference between us that I know of was that I was HER2 Pos and he was not.  So that is why I’m thinking the Herceptin is working its magic on me.

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          At my worst, my Neuropathy was horribly painful.  May hands and feet hurt so bad that I had to sleep with my feet hanging off the side of the bed.  Just the sheet alone touching my feet hurt like hell.  I would lay in bed at night crying in pain trying to fall asleep.  My doctor originally prescribed Gabapentin, or Neurontin, and I took that for 2 Months.  It provided zero relief for me.  He then switched me to Lyrica and after a month or so I started to feel relief from the neuropathy.  I’ve been on Lyrica for 8 months now and I have regained the feeling in hands and feet except for just my finger tips and tows.  The severe pain is gone.  Please keep in mind that the pain also started to recede when they took me off the chemo med that was causing all the problems.  So it is probably a combination.   I will tell you this.  When my neuropathy was at its worse I started smoking marijuana just before bed and I was able to fall asleep quickly and with much less pain.  I do not like Marijuana and I am not a regular user, but I will say that for the 2 months I smoked it, it did help me out tremendously.  If the neuropathy pain ever comes back like it was, I would definitely start smoking Marijuana again in a heartbeat!

     

        As far as my staging.  When I initially met with my Dr., they inserted 5 needles into my neck Lymph Nodes and tested them.  When they came backpositive, he told me I was Stage IV.   After I hit the 57% shrinkage mark, I asked my Dr when I would be downgraded to stage III, etc.  He said that I would always be Stage IV and that even if the cancer went away, it would most likely come back somewhere else and kill me.  My original Dr (Dr Craig Lockhart) has since moved on to become the chief of Division of Medical Oncology at the University of Miami (Miller School of Medicine).  He was always direct and ever sugar coated anything.  The man saved my life and for that I am forever grateful.  

     

    Sorry about the Bold Font, etc, I've been typing from my phone and dont know how to chang it.

     

    Bill Baraby

     

  • Bill~Re your ltr~facts re EC~Best hospital listings,welcome

    Well good evening Bill,

    I see that our friend “Ed” has already answered you, and as a Stage IV Esophageal Cancer patient, he is certainly a dependable source of information.  May as well know, we’re not known for glossing over and sugar coating Esophageal Cancer.  First I say “welcome”, but wish I could say, “You’re not welcome.”  This is not the kind of place we like to meet “friends” that have things in common.  Nevertheless, here we are.  Your enthusiasm is evident, but as we all know it takes more than a positive attitude to “kick cancer.” And as a newbie, you certainly need to be in the company of others who have already “been there—and done, or are doing Esophageal Cancer, especially Stage IV.

    First of all, waiting 3 months to get an endoscopy is totally UNACCEPTABLE.  This is part of the reason we have so many Stage IVs present at the very start.  That, and of course, the doctors prescribing antacids instead of setting up the patient with a gastroenterologist for an endoscopy.  Of course an upper endoscopy is only the beginning of the required tests to correctly ascertain the problem.

    So with regard to tests, can you tell me how many tests you took that determined that you were Stage IV?  Precisely, what is the exact diagnosis?

    So for me, a stickler for detail, can you tell me:  Was it the Ireland ARMY hospital in Fort Knox, KY that you went to that put off your appointment with the gastroenterologist for 3 months?  If so, that explains why the VA hospitals need a “jacking up”!  And thank you for your service in the military.  If the Army weren’t any more prepared to go to war than the VA hospitals are to “fix the broken soldiers”, we would be in bad shape I fear!

     Secondly, I always root for the Phillies, although my husband, the EC survivor, is a Redskins diehard.  Since I’m not a real football fan, I make “emotional” connections to teams.  I like Phillies because of UPMC.  I like the cowboys because my oldest grandson likes them.  Other grandchildren like different teams, so I root for any of the teams that they like.  And since MDA in Houston is not the very best hospital for treatment of Esophageal Cancer (see stats) it’s good that you did not go there and be subject to the humiliation of being in a city filled with “Cowboys”!  YellAnd I wouldn’t have the slightest inclination to play Fantasy Football.  Stayin’ alive is enough of a gamble for me! 

    My husband William, aka Bill or Billy at home, was diagnosed with Esophageal cancer in late 2002.  His diagnosis was “Adenocarcinoma at the Gastroesophageal Junction (GE), Stage III, T3N1M0).  Dr. James D. Luketich at the University of Pittsburgh Medical Center performed the Ivor Lewis Minimally Invasive Esophagectomy May 17, 2003.

    Now we don’t expect you to understand what’s going on when you’re a newbie, but we do want to be certain that you have had all the tests you need, and that you have had a SECOND OPINION at a major medical facility that makes Esophageal Cancer one of their specialties.  You say, “I am on like treatment 40, and the drive is starting to beat me down. 700 miles every other week would wear a healthy fellow out, much less one with your condition. You might want to check out the USNews&World Health report rankings and locations and see if there is one closer to home.  I’ve given you some references below.

    Furthermore, we would hope that it would be at a hospital where there are surgeons trained to perform the very latest Esophagectomy, the Ivor Lewis Minimally Invasive Esophagectomy, (MIE), just in case you were misdiagnosed and were actually eligible for an Esophagectomy.  There can be “nodal involvement” and still be less than a Stage IV you know.  My husband was a Stage III, meaning that the tumor had infiltrated all 4 walls of the Esophagus, and also 2 local lymph nodes. 

    Now, if the nodes were “near” or “in” another major organ, then that could be a Stage IV diagnosis, but I’m not quite sure that you mentioned any other organ.  That’s the reason for my question.  I see that my friend “Ed” who posts as “DeathorGlory” has answered you and he is asking the same question.  So you will benefit greatly by interaction with Ed, and as he says other Stage IVs will benefit by your input.  Unfortunately, we have way too many Stage IVs who might have presented in with a lesser stage had they been given better attention by their primary physicians.  Just writing a prescription for “omeprazole” isn’t sufficient. Frown

    And Bill, although you weren’t aware of the potential cancer possibilities, like many others, procrastination and changing your eating habits, is NOT the first recommendation.  But as I say, all too often, it is the patient not knowing that acid reflux and heartburn can cause Esophageal Cancer.  And when one reads the instructions on the bottle, it says, this is not to be taken more than 2 weeks in duration.  If the patient has to take one every day, they should have “long ago” had an upper endoscopy to check for obstructions.  However, many seem to think that heartburn is just such an “ordinary” result of eating the wrong kinds of food—not so!  Moreover, as noted in the "CancerConnect" reference, the Upper Endoscopy is only the FIRST of a series of tests to determine the exact stage of EC.

    Now Bill, as good as MD Anderson is in Texas, they are NOT the #1 hospital for Esophageal cancer, although I commend your wife for “stepping in” and saying to the doc who wanted to start treatments the very next day-- “Not so fast Sir!” Actually the MAYO Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota is ranked #1 in the Gastroenterology & GI Series category of specialties. 

      Yes, while MDA has a good reputation overall, according to the USNews&Health Report, hospitals rank differently ACCORDING TO THE SPECIALTIES that they are most noted for.  According to USNews&World Report, MDAnderson is NOT noted for being the best hospital to receive care for Esophageal Cancer.  That may surprise you.  Keep in mind, we’re talking about “Gastroenterology and GI series” treatment facilities. 

      So definitely Ireland Army Hospital would not even be in the ranking.

     I will give you references below and you can “travel around on the sites and see hospitals possibly nearer home that are better than MDA in Houston and possibly even SITEMAN Cancer Center.   For instance, by the reference below I see that “Houston Methodist Hospital - Houston, TX 77030-2707 ranks #12 in Adult Gastroenterology & GI Surgery Hospitals.  Houston Methodist Hospital in Houston, TX is nationally ranked in 8 adult specialties.  (73.1/100 Gastroenterology & GI Surgery Score)…”

     By comparison, Barnes Jewish Hospital ranks #20, and MDAnderson is not even ranked as one of the top hospitals for treatment of patients diagnosed with Esophageal Cancer.  EC falls in the category of Gastroenterology and GI Series.  So it pays to do one’s homework when going for a SECOND opinion and possible treatment.

    Incidentally, MAYO clinic in Rochester, MN is ranked #1.  Now all Mayo clinics have different rankings but we are being specific as it relates to Esophageal Cancer—just so you know.  As I’ve said, hospitals are ranked differently according to their specialties, and we all know some are better than others.  Not all doctors graduate at the top of their class—unfortunately.  So it’s pretty much up to us to do our “own homework” in deciding where to go.  I certainly wish you were somewhere closer than 700 miles (round trip) to get your treatments. 

     Are you at the Barnes Jewish Hospital in St. Louis?  SITEMAN has several affiliates.  Rankings for different hospitals are referenced below my name.

     Now will you please do us a favor?  Find out the name of the clinical trial and tell us what chemicals they are giving you?  Granted that they have improved your condition, but at what price?   I note that there are 31 trials for EC going on at SITEMAN. 

     So we will be waiting to hear more “specifics” as to the duration of the clinical trial, chemicals used, as well as the “specific” diagnosis for which you are receiving treatment?  Who actually diagnosed you as Stage IV?  What specific tests did they run before suggesting this particular trial?

     What is the goal of this trial?  Currently there is no immunotherapy trial that has been approved by the FDA for Esophageal Cancer patients, although there are some in the works.  But the bottom line for the clinical trials is to find a “better” treatment plan to curtail the cancer, no matter the type, than what is currently approved by FDA today. 

     It’s good that you can still remain “positive” with the condition you’re in since January of this year.  Exactly what date did you start these treatments at St. Louis and how long are they supposed to continue?

     You say, “Since January I have remained there, no shrinkage and no growth. At the time of my third scan my quality of life was very bad.  I could hardly walk, severe neuropathy in my hands and feet, my toe nails and hair fell out, I developed diabetes and my vision was failing bad.”

     ·         How long does each treatment at SITEMAN last—a few hours—several days or what?

    • ·         What are the doctors saying about all these side effects?
    • ·         When is this clinical trial ending?
    • ·         What are the doctors saying about your “progress at this point?”
    • ·         What is the stated “end goal?”

     I’m assuming that your wife is accompanying you on all these trips.  Yes, side effects are dreadful!  Many of us know about that but we expect to be better when it’s all over.  We expect a period of “progression free survival” (PFS) that makes the ordeal worthwhile.

      My husband was treated (post op) with Carboplatin and 5-FU.  He also had 25 consecutive treatments of radiation (Monday thru Friday—I guess cancer takes the weekends off!)  Those neoadjuvant (pre-op) treatments completely eradicated the tumors, and no additional cancer was found during the (MIE) Esophagectomy in any of the 22 lymph nodes removed for biopsy.

     And while it is NOT good to be HER2 positive, meaning that you have an oncogene that causes the cancer to spread even MORE rapidly, the drug Herceptin (not a chemo drug) has proved to be exceptional in causing this gene’s overexpression to cease.  “Ed” is our “go-to-person” to attest to the benefits of Herceptin. 

     Lastly, I’m in agreement with both you and Ed, as to the value of allowing the wives to have a “say” in where you go and what you do.  However, there is a limit.  When a Stage IV EC patient wants to quit treatments, and the wife or some other close family member wants them to continue, it is the patient that MUST be given the liberty of making the final decision.  Thankfully, none of us are at that point yet. 

     And speaking of God, I’m pleased to hear that you are going to church.  For me, I fare best when I put God first in my life.  He isn’t a puppet whose strings we can pull and make every problem disappear.  So in my life, that doesn’t mean that He will always heal us, but we can sense His presence and His peace while we are traveling this often “booby-trapped minefield-laden” course.  I have several favorite Bible verses that give me comfort.  I believe strongly in Psalm 139.  My paraphrasing--David said to the Lord, “I can’t go anywhere that You are not already there.  You even saw me when I was being “knit together” in my mother’s womb, and in Your Book, all the days of my life were written when as yet there were none of them.”  I choose to believe that I serve an omnipotent, omnipresent, omniscient God who knows all about me.  And I firmly believe that I, myself, as a Stage IV Peritoneal Carcinomatosis/Ovarian Cancer patient, will not live one day longer, or die one day sooner that my “allotted” days on this earth. 

    No one else has to believe as I do, and I don’t wish to argue with anyone but my faith in the Lord sustains me in the most difficult of days.  And I do pray for many that write here, as I know that others do as well.  So consider yourself a welcome member of this family in which none of us wished to be “born”!  But here we are.  And as such, many of us here are thankful for each new day that we can hug our family members, our kids, grandkids, and see another sunrise and feel a gentle breeze while the birds chirp merrily in the trees.  Life really is made of simple pleasures, rather than fame or fortune.  Not to disparage “fortune” but in reality I am rich when I realize that I’m blessed to live another day and be in the company of those that I love.  I’m sure you feel the same way.

     Lastly, Bill, you and Ed speak wisely when you credit your wives as being the catalyst for your survival thus far.  I’ve always said, “When my husband has cancer, I have cancer!”  We’re in this thing together.  We wives like to think that we are indispensable and it doesn’t hurt to tell us that!    In Genesis 2:18, the New Living Bible says it quite well, “Then the LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him."  I rest my case. Smile

    Loretta (caregiver & instructor & wife of William, who is now into his 15th year of survival from EC, Stage III (T3N1M0)

     

    P.S. Can you do me a favor?  Bill, for ease in reading, I find it easier to read if the person writing will break down their different thoughts in different paragraphs.  Wink

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    1.      http://www.gomn.com/news/mayo-clinic-says-get-a-second-opinion-first-ones-are-frequently-wrong/

    "Mayo Clinic says get a second opinion – first ones are frequently wrong

    by Melissa Turtinen --April 4, 2017 12:17 pm --- 

    If you’re diagnosed with an illness, you might want to get a second opinion.

    The Mayo Clinic in Rochester did a study (published in a medical journal Tuesday) and found as many as 88 percent of patients who came to the clinic for a second opinion for a complex condition left with a new or more refined diagnosis, a news release says.

    The Mayo Clinic says a different or more detailed diagnosis can change someone’s care plan “and potentially their lives.”

    The study looked at 286 patients who were referred from primary care providers to Mayo Clinic’s General Internal Medicine Division in Rochester between Jan. 1, 2009, and Dec. 31, 2010. Here’s how the types of diagnostic errors breaks down:

    • Only 12 percent of patients left the Mayo Clinic with the same diagnosis.
    • In 21 percent of cases, the diagnosis was changed completely.
    • In 66 percent of patients, their diagnosis was refined or redefined..."
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     2.       https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jwPfq0xYqCk

    Video telling about Herceptin and its usage. - Published on Oct 21, 2015

    Herceptin (trastuzumab) is an approved #targetedtherapy cancer treatment for breast, stomach and esophagus cancers that are HER2-positive - positive for the Human Epidermal growth factor Receptor 2 protein. Breast cancers with too much of this protein tend to grow and spread more aggressively without special treatment. About 20% of breast cancer cases and 10-20% of stomach cancers are HER2-positive. In this video, oncologist Stephen Lemon MD describes how this cancer treatment works, as well as what types of side effects it may cause.

    #Herceptin is an artificially created antibody that works to fight off cancer cells much like naturally produced antibodies which fight off germs. Herceptin is a targeted drug therapy that attacks a specific protein called the HER2 protein, which causes cancer cells to grow. 

    Herceptin is made by Genentech. Dr. Stephen Lemon is a medical oncologist with Oncology Associates and is not affiliated with Genentech. Visit Http://www.oacancer.com to learn more about 
    #StephenLemonMD and Oncology Associates. #breastcancer #HER2positive

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    3.      http://news.cancerconnect.com/types-of-cancer/esophageal-cancer/

    4.      http://news.cancerconnect.com/types-of-cancer/esophageal-cancer/esophageal-cancer-overview/

    [This site will give exhaustive info relative to the treatment of Esophageal Cancer.

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    5.       http://news.cancerconnect.com/clinical-trial-information/clinical-trials/

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    6.      https://www.cancer.gov/publications/patient-education/eating-hints

    Eating hints before, during and after cancer treatments.

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    7.      http://health.usnews.com/best-hospitals/area/ky/ireland-army-community-hospital-6510180

    “Overview-Ireland Army Community Hospital is a general medical and surgical hospital in Fort Knox, KY, with 17 beds. Survey data for the latest year available shows that 19,812 patients visited the hospital's emergency room. The hospital had a total of 857 admissions. Its physicians performed 433 inpatient and 2,291 outpatient surgeries.”

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    8.      http://health.usnews.com/best-hospitals/area/tx/university-of-texas-md-anderson-cancer-center-6741945/gastroenterology-and-gi-surgery

    University of Texas MD Anderson Cancer Center Rankings & Ratings

    Gastroenterology & GI Surgery | Overall Score 47.6/100

    Gastroenterology & GI Surgery Scorecard - A hospital's overall Gastroenterology & GI Surgery score is based on various data categories, including volume of high-risk patients, nurse staffing and patient survival. The 50 top-scoring hospitals are nationally ranked. See the full U.S. News national rankings in Gastroenterology & GI Surgery or hospital ratings in colon cancer surgery.  National Rank Not Ranked - Overall Score 47.6/100

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    9.      http://health.usnews.com/best-hospitals/area/mo/barnes-jewish-hospitalwashington-university-6630930/gastroenterology-and-gi-surgery

    Barnes-Jewish Hospital Rankings & Ratings - #20 in Gastroenterology & GI Surgery | Overall Score 70/100

    Gastroenterology & GI Surgery Scorecard - A hospital's overall Gastroenterology & GI Surgery score is based on various data categories, including volume of high-risk patients, nurse staffing and patient survival. The 50 top-scoring hospitals are nationally ranked. See the full U.S. News national rankings in Gastroenterology & GI Surgery or hospital ratings in colon cancer surgery…”

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    10.  https://SITEMAN.wustl.edu/treatment/cancer-types/esophageal/our-approach/

    “…Washington University Physicians at the SITEMAN Cancer Center treat an average of 130 esophageal patients a year, and are internationally recognized for their expertise…”

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    11.  https://SITEMAN.wustl.edu/treatment/cancer-types/esophageal/clinical-trials/

    [My note:  Billy, which one of these 31 clinical trials are you participating in?  (Loretta)]

    “Clinical Trials - Showing Trials Related To: Esophagus ---Searching...31 results found…”

    12.  http://www.learnaboutclinicaltrials.org/#ACT

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    13.  http://health.usnews.com/health-care/best-hospitals/slideshows/the-honor-roll-of-best-hospitals

    UPMC Presbyterian Shadyside - Pittsburgh, PA 15213-2536

    #6 in Adult Gastroenterology & GI Surgery Hospitals

    UPMC Presbyterian Shadyside in Pittsburgh, PA is nationally ranked in 14 adult specialties.

    77.2/100 - Gastroenterology & GI Surgery Score

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    14.  http://health.usnews.com/health-care/best-hospitals/articles/best-hospitals-honor-roll-and-overview

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    15.  <a href="http://health.usnews.com/health-care/best-hospitals/articles/faq-how-and-why-we-rank-and-ra

  • cmpitts001
    cmpitts001 Member Posts: 4

    Bill~Re your ltr~facts re EC~Best hospital listings,welcome

    Well good evening Bill,

    I see that our friend “Ed” has already answered you, and as a Stage IV Esophageal Cancer patient, he is certainly a dependable source of information.  May as well know, we’re not known for glossing over and sugar coating Esophageal Cancer.  First I say “welcome”, but wish I could say, “You’re not welcome.”  This is not the kind of place we like to meet “friends” that have things in common.  Nevertheless, here we are.  Your enthusiasm is evident, but as we all know it takes more than a positive attitude to “kick cancer.” And as a newbie, you certainly need to be in the company of others who have already “been there—and done, or are doing Esophageal Cancer, especially Stage IV.

    First of all, waiting 3 months to get an endoscopy is totally UNACCEPTABLE.  This is part of the reason we have so many Stage IVs present at the very start.  That, and of course, the doctors prescribing antacids instead of setting up the patient with a gastroenterologist for an endoscopy.  Of course an upper endoscopy is only the beginning of the required tests to correctly ascertain the problem.

    So with regard to tests, can you tell me how many tests you took that determined that you were Stage IV?  Precisely, what is the exact diagnosis?

    So for me, a stickler for detail, can you tell me:  Was it the Ireland ARMY hospital in Fort Knox, KY that you went to that put off your appointment with the gastroenterologist for 3 months?  If so, that explains why the VA hospitals need a “jacking up”!  And thank you for your service in the military.  If the Army weren’t any more prepared to go to war than the VA hospitals are to “fix the broken soldiers”, we would be in bad shape I fear!

     Secondly, I always root for the Phillies, although my husband, the EC survivor, is a Redskins diehard.  Since I’m not a real football fan, I make “emotional” connections to teams.  I like Phillies because of UPMC.  I like the cowboys because my oldest grandson likes them.  Other grandchildren like different teams, so I root for any of the teams that they like.  And since MDA in Houston is not the very best hospital for treatment of Esophageal Cancer (see stats) it’s good that you did not go there and be subject to the humiliation of being in a city filled with “Cowboys”!  YellAnd I wouldn’t have the slightest inclination to play Fantasy Football.  Stayin’ alive is enough of a gamble for me! 

    My husband William, aka Bill or Billy at home, was diagnosed with Esophageal cancer in late 2002.  His diagnosis was “Adenocarcinoma at the Gastroesophageal Junction (GE), Stage III, T3N1M0).  Dr. James D. Luketich at the University of Pittsburgh Medical Center performed the Ivor Lewis Minimally Invasive Esophagectomy May 17, 2003.

    Now we don’t expect you to understand what’s going on when you’re a newbie, but we do want to be certain that you have had all the tests you need, and that you have had a SECOND OPINION at a major medical facility that makes Esophageal Cancer one of their specialties.  You say, “I am on like treatment 40, and the drive is starting to beat me down. 700 miles every other week would wear a healthy fellow out, much less one with your condition. You might want to check out the USNews&World Health report rankings and locations and see if there is one closer to home.  I’ve given you some references below.

    Furthermore, we would hope that it would be at a hospital where there are surgeons trained to perform the very latest Esophagectomy, the Ivor Lewis Minimally Invasive Esophagectomy, (MIE), just in case you were misdiagnosed and were actually eligible for an Esophagectomy.  There can be “nodal involvement” and still be less than a Stage IV you know.  My husband was a Stage III, meaning that the tumor had infiltrated all 4 walls of the Esophagus, and also 2 local lymph nodes. 

    Now, if the nodes were “near” or “in” another major organ, then that could be a Stage IV diagnosis, but I’m not quite sure that you mentioned any other organ.  That’s the reason for my question.  I see that my friend “Ed” who posts as “DeathorGlory” has answered you and he is asking the same question.  So you will benefit greatly by interaction with Ed, and as he says other Stage IVs will benefit by your input.  Unfortunately, we have way too many Stage IVs who might have presented in with a lesser stage had they been given better attention by their primary physicians.  Just writing a prescription for “omeprazole” isn’t sufficient. Frown

    And Bill, although you weren’t aware of the potential cancer possibilities, like many others, procrastination and changing your eating habits, is NOT the first recommendation.  But as I say, all too often, it is the patient not knowing that acid reflux and heartburn can cause Esophageal Cancer.  And when one reads the instructions on the bottle, it says, this is not to be taken more than 2 weeks in duration.  If the patient has to take one every day, they should have “long ago” had an upper endoscopy to check for obstructions.  However, many seem to think that heartburn is just such an “ordinary” result of eating the wrong kinds of food—not so!  Moreover, as noted in the "CancerConnect" reference, the Upper Endoscopy is only the FIRST of a series of tests to determine the exact stage of EC.

    Now Bill, as good as MD Anderson is in Texas, they are NOT the #1 hospital for Esophageal cancer, although I commend your wife for “stepping in” and saying to the doc who wanted to start treatments the very next day-- “Not so fast Sir!” Actually the MAYO Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota is ranked #1 in the Gastroenterology & GI Series category of specialties. 

      Yes, while MDA has a good reputation overall, according to the USNews&Health Report, hospitals rank differently ACCORDING TO THE SPECIALTIES that they are most noted for.  According to USNews&World Report, MDAnderson is NOT noted for being the best hospital to receive care for Esophageal Cancer.  That may surprise you.  Keep in mind, we’re talking about “Gastroenterology and GI series” treatment facilities. 

      So definitely Ireland Army Hospital would not even be in the ranking.

     I will give you references below and you can “travel around on the sites and see hospitals possibly nearer home that are better than MDA in Houston and possibly even SITEMAN Cancer Center.   For instance, by the reference below I see that “Houston Methodist Hospital - Houston, TX 77030-2707 ranks #12 in Adult Gastroenterology & GI Surgery Hospitals.  Houston Methodist Hospital in Houston, TX is nationally ranked in 8 adult specialties.  (73.1/100 Gastroenterology & GI Surgery Score)…”

     By comparison, Barnes Jewish Hospital ranks #20, and MDAnderson is not even ranked as one of the top hospitals for treatment of patients diagnosed with Esophageal Cancer.  EC falls in the category of Gastroenterology and GI Series.  So it pays to do one’s homework when going for a SECOND opinion and possible treatment.

    Incidentally, MAYO clinic in Rochester, MN is ranked #1.  Now all Mayo clinics have different rankings but we are being specific as it relates to Esophageal Cancer—just so you know.  As I’ve said, hospitals are ranked differently according to their specialties, and we all know some are better than others.  Not all doctors graduate at the top of their class—unfortunately.  So it’s pretty much up to us to do our “own homework” in deciding where to go.  I certainly wish you were somewhere closer than 700 miles (round trip) to get your treatments. 

     Are you at the Barnes Jewish Hospital in St. Louis?  SITEMAN has several affiliates.  Rankings for different hospitals are referenced below my name.

     Now will you please do us a favor?  Find out the name of the clinical trial and tell us what chemicals they are giving you?  Granted that they have improved your condition, but at what price?   I note that there are 31 trials for EC going on at SITEMAN. 

     So we will be waiting to hear more “specifics” as to the duration of the clinical trial, chemicals used, as well as the “specific” diagnosis for which you are receiving treatment?  Who actually diagnosed you as Stage IV?  What specific tests did they run before suggesting this particular trial?

     What is the goal of this trial?  Currently there is no immunotherapy trial that has been approved by the FDA for Esophageal Cancer patients, although there are some in the works.  But the bottom line for the clinical trials is to find a “better” treatment plan to curtail the cancer, no matter the type, than what is currently approved by FDA today. 

     It’s good that you can still remain “positive” with the condition you’re in since January of this year.  Exactly what date did you start these treatments at St. Louis and how long are they supposed to continue?

     You say, “Since January I have remained there, no shrinkage and no growth. At the time of my third scan my quality of life was very bad.  I could hardly walk, severe neuropathy in my hands and feet, my toe nails and hair fell out, I developed diabetes and my vision was failing bad.”

     ·         How long does each treatment at SITEMAN last—a few hours—several days or what?

    • ·         What are the doctors saying about all these side effects?
    • ·         When is this clinical trial ending?
    • ·         What are the doctors saying about your “progress at this point?”
    • ·         What is the stated “end goal?”

     I’m assuming that your wife is accompanying you on all these trips.  Yes, side effects are dreadful!  Many of us know about that but we expect to be better when it’s all over.  We expect a period of “progression free survival” (PFS) that makes the ordeal worthwhile.

      My husband was treated (post op) with Carboplatin and 5-FU.  He also had 25 consecutive treatments of radiation (Monday thru Friday—I guess cancer takes the weekends off!)  Those neoadjuvant (pre-op) treatments completely eradicated the tumors, and no additional cancer was found during the (MIE) Esophagectomy in any of the 22 lymph nodes removed for biopsy.

     And while it is NOT good to be HER2 positive, meaning that you have an oncogene that causes the cancer to spread even MORE rapidly, the drug Herceptin (not a chemo drug) has proved to be exceptional in causing this gene’s overexpression to cease.  “Ed” is our “go-to-person” to attest to the benefits of Herceptin. 

     Lastly, I’m in agreement with both you and Ed, as to the value of allowing the wives to have a “say” in where you go and what you do.  However, there is a limit.  When a Stage IV EC patient wants to quit treatments, and the wife or some other close family member wants them to continue, it is the patient that MUST be given the liberty of making the final decision.  Thankfully, none of us are at that point yet. 

     And speaking of God, I’m pleased to hear that you are going to church.  For me, I fare best when I put God first in my life.  He isn’t a puppet whose strings we can pull and make every problem disappear.  So in my life, that doesn’t mean that He will always heal us, but we can sense His presence and His peace while we are traveling this often “booby-trapped minefield-laden” course.  I have several favorite Bible verses that give me comfort.  I believe strongly in Psalm 139.  My paraphrasing--David said to the Lord, “I can’t go anywhere that You are not already there.  You even saw me when I was being “knit together” in my mother’s womb, and in Your Book, all the days of my life were written when as yet there were none of them.”  I choose to believe that I serve an omnipotent, omnipresent, omniscient God who knows all about me.  And I firmly believe that I, myself, as a Stage IV Peritoneal Carcinomatosis/Ovarian Cancer patient, will not live one day longer, or die one day sooner that my “allotted” days on this earth. 

    No one else has to believe as I do, and I don’t wish to argue with anyone but my faith in the Lord sustains me in the most difficult of days.  And I do pray for many that write here, as I know that others do as well.  So consider yourself a welcome member of this family in which none of us wished to be “born”!  But here we are.  And as such, many of us here are thankful for each new day that we can hug our family members, our kids, grandkids, and see another sunrise and feel a gentle breeze while the birds chirp merrily in the trees.  Life really is made of simple pleasures, rather than fame or fortune.  Not to disparage “fortune” but in reality I am rich when I realize that I’m blessed to live another day and be in the company of those that I love.  I’m sure you feel the same way.

     Lastly, Bill, you and Ed speak wisely when you credit your wives as being the catalyst for your survival thus far.  I’ve always said, “When my husband has cancer, I have cancer!”  We’re in this thing together.  We wives like to think that we are indispensable and it doesn’t hurt to tell us that!    In Genesis 2:18, the New Living Bible says it quite well, “Then the LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him."  I rest my case. Smile

    Loretta (caregiver & instructor & wife of William, who is now into his 15th year of survival from EC, Stage III (T3N1M0)

     

    P.S. Can you do me a favor?  Bill, for ease in reading, I find it easier to read if the person writing will break down their different thoughts in different paragraphs.  Wink

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    1.      http://www.gomn.com/news/mayo-clinic-says-get-a-second-opinion-first-ones-are-frequently-wrong/

    "Mayo Clinic says get a second opinion – first ones are frequently wrong

    by Melissa Turtinen --April 4, 2017 12:17 pm --- 

    If you’re diagnosed with an illness, you might want to get a second opinion.

    The Mayo Clinic in Rochester did a study (published in a medical journal Tuesday) and found as many as 88 percent of patients who came to the clinic for a second opinion for a complex condition left with a new or more refined diagnosis, a news release says.

    The Mayo Clinic says a different or more detailed diagnosis can change someone’s care plan “and potentially their lives.”

    The study looked at 286 patients who were referred from primary care providers to Mayo Clinic’s General Internal Medicine Division in Rochester between Jan. 1, 2009, and Dec. 31, 2010. Here’s how the types of diagnostic errors breaks down:

    • Only 12 percent of patients left the Mayo Clinic with the same diagnosis.
    • In 21 percent of cases, the diagnosis was changed completely.
    • In 66 percent of patients, their diagnosis was refined or redefined..."
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     2.       https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jwPfq0xYqCk

    Video telling about Herceptin and its usage. - Published on Oct 21, 2015

    Herceptin (trastuzumab) is an approved #targetedtherapy cancer treatment for breast, stomach and esophagus cancers that are HER2-positive - positive for the Human Epidermal growth factor Receptor 2 protein. Breast cancers with too much of this protein tend to grow and spread more aggressively without special treatment. About 20% of breast cancer cases and 10-20% of stomach cancers are HER2-positive. In this video, oncologist Stephen Lemon MD describes how this cancer treatment works, as well as what types of side effects it may cause.

    #Herceptin is an artificially created antibody that works to fight off cancer cells much like naturally produced antibodies which fight off germs. Herceptin is a targeted drug therapy that attacks a specific protein called the HER2 protein, which causes cancer cells to grow. 

    Herceptin is made by Genentech. Dr. Stephen Lemon is a medical oncologist with Oncology Associates and is not affiliated with Genentech. Visit Http://www.oacancer.com to learn more about 
    #StephenLemonMD and Oncology Associates. #breastcancer #HER2positive

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    3.      http://news.cancerconnect.com/types-of-cancer/esophageal-cancer/

    4.      http://news.cancerconnect.com/types-of-cancer/esophageal-cancer/esophageal-cancer-overview/

    [This site will give exhaustive info relative to the treatment of Esophageal Cancer.

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    5.       http://news.cancerconnect.com/clinical-trial-information/clinical-trials/

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    6.      https://www.cancer.gov/publications/patient-education/eating-hints

    Eating hints before, during and after cancer treatments.

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    7.      http://health.usnews.com/best-hospitals/area/ky/ireland-army-community-hospital-6510180

    “Overview-Ireland Army Community Hospital is a general medical and surgical hospital in Fort Knox, KY, with 17 beds. Survey data for the latest year available shows that 19,812 patients visited the hospital's emergency room. The hospital had a total of 857 admissions. Its physicians performed 433 inpatient and 2,291 outpatient surgeries.”

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    8.      http://health.usnews.com/best-hospitals/area/tx/university-of-texas-md-anderson-cancer-center-6741945/gastroenterology-and-gi-surgery

    University of Texas MD Anderson Cancer Center Rankings & Ratings

    Gastroenterology & GI Surgery | Overall Score 47.6/100

    Gastroenterology & GI Surgery Scorecard - A hospital's overall Gastroenterology & GI Surgery score is based on various data categories, including volume of high-risk patients, nurse staffing and patient survival. The 50 top-scoring hospitals are nationally ranked. See the full U.S. News national rankings in Gastroenterology & GI Surgery or hospital ratings in colon cancer surgery.  National Rank Not Ranked - Overall Score 47.6/100

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    9.      http://health.usnews.com/best-hospitals/area/mo/barnes-jewish-hospitalwashington-university-6630930/gastroenterology-and-gi-surgery

    Barnes-Jewish Hospital Rankings & Ratings - #20 in Gastroenterology & GI Surgery | Overall Score 70/100

    Gastroenterology & GI Surgery Scorecard - A hospital's overall Gastroenterology & GI Surgery score is based on various data categories, including volume of high-risk patients, nurse staffing and patient survival. The 50 top-scoring hospitals are nationally ranked. See the full U.S. News national rankings in Gastroenterology & GI Surgery or hospital ratings in colon cancer surgery…”

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    10.  https://SITEMAN.wustl.edu/treatment/cancer-types/esophageal/our-approach/

    “…Washington University Physicians at the SITEMAN Cancer Center treat an average of 130 esophageal patients a year, and are internationally recognized for their expertise…”

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    11.  https://SITEMAN.wustl.edu/treatment/cancer-types/esophageal/clinical-trials/

    [My note:  Billy, which one of these 31 clinical trials are you participating in?  (Loretta)]

    “Clinical Trials - Showing Trials Related To: Esophagus ---Searching...31 results found…”

    12.  http://www.learnaboutclinicaltrials.org/#ACT

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    13.  http://health.usnews.com/health-care/best-hospitals/slideshows/the-honor-roll-of-best-hospitals

    UPMC Presbyterian Shadyside - Pittsburgh, PA 15213-2536

    #6 in Adult Gastroenterology & GI Surgery Hospitals

    UPMC Presbyterian Shadyside in Pittsburgh, PA is nationally ranked in 14 adult specialties.

    77.2/100 - Gastroenterology & GI Surgery Score

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    14.  http://health.usnews.com/health-care/best-hospitals/articles/best-hospitals-honor-roll-and-overview

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    15.  <a href="http://health.usnews.com/health-care/best-hospitals/articles/faq-how-and-why-we-rank-and-ra

  • Deathorglory
    Deathorglory Member Posts: 364 Member
    edited September 2017 #7

    esophageal cancer

    Hi! I have been reading several of your posts on the subject of EC and cyramza and am impressed with your overall knowledge in these subjects! Smile 

    My husband was diagnosed in Feb 2016 with stage IIB EC. His doctors were very much on the ball with diagnosis. He went to ER on a Sunday after food stuck in his throat on Friday, they did a scope and told us that same day that it was EC. A biopsy scope was done on Wed which verified it and the surgeon referred us to KU Med Center for surgery with 6 weeks chemo and raddiation beforehand at Mercy Hospital in Joplin, MO. He had the surgery June 8 which ended up being more ten predicted as he had Barretts esophagus and lower junction tumor. The pathology showed cancer cells in 3 of the 13 lymph glands removed. 

    Following a surgical setback which resulted in a 6 week hospital stay and more surgery he started chemo again in Aug 2016. This time he received FU5 for 6 months finished up on Feb 1, 2017.

    Meanwhile xrays showed a questionable spot on his right femur. His onc was not convinced so he ordered a CT scan, still not convinced he had a Pet scan, a bone scan, an MRI and finally a bone biopsy which was positive for mets to the bone. He finally reclassed him at stage 4.  In April 2017 he did a week of radiation and then started on Irinotecan and Zometa. 

    The orthopedic surgeon who did the biopsy did a followup xray in August that showed the lesion on his femur has grown. Last week on Sept 12 he had a CT scan. He has a new lesion on his sternum and changes to a nodule in his liver they have been watching and more compressed vertebrae they had also been watching. The last two things have not been confirmed as cancer but because of the new lesion on his sternum they are changing treatment.

    Next week he will begin with Cyramza and continue the Zometa. The onc says he is running out of options. I asked if they had been aggressive enough in treatment and he assures me they have been. He has had barely any nausea, no hair loss and manageable diarrhea, some neuropathy, stable weight since his huge loss after surgery. That's why I asked. I'm glad he isn't sick except for the back pain and his attitude has been great.

    Needless to say I don't want to lose this battle. We've had 44 yrs together and two children and 5 grandkids. I'm hoping that this new treatment will buy us more time but we have both been depressed over this new news. I'm scared to even ask the doctor what he predicts for the outcome and husband doesn't want to know.  Can anyone give me any hope for this treatment or should we just resign ourselves to the inevitable? 

    I also am very disappointed in the support I have received from my siblings and family and friends. It has been next to nothing, like they are afraid it's contagious if they talk about it. His brothers have been fairly supportive considering they are all male. We ourselves, try not to dwell on it much because there isn't much gained in talking it to death. It is what it is and I don't want to cry in front of him and show how worried I am. Thanks for listening.

    Hello cmpitts

    Hello cmpitts,

    I am not knowledgeable about your husband's treatment, but I still might have something to offer you.  I am a stage IV guy myself (6 years next month) and you didn't mention your husband's HER2 status.  I was/am HER2+ and I am convinced that receiving herceptin for that is why I am still alive six years after being given 7-8 months to live.  Your husband's docs seem thorough, but I'd still check about that.

    With respect to your relatives seeming unsupportive, I've noticed that some folks are so afraid of making things worse that they literally do nothing, in the hope that they at least does no harm.  It doesn't work, but I've found those folks' motives to be in the right place at least.  "If I don't say/do anything, I can't make it worse."

    Wishing you guys the best,

    Ed

     

  • cmpitts001
    cmpitts001 Member Posts: 4
    edited September 2017 #8

    Hello cmpitts

    Hello cmpitts,

    I am not knowledgeable about your husband's treatment, but I still might have something to offer you.  I am a stage IV guy myself (6 years next month) and you didn't mention your husband's HER2 status.  I was/am HER2+ and I am convinced that receiving herceptin for that is why I am still alive six years after being given 7-8 months to live.  Your husband's docs seem thorough, but I'd still check about that.

    With respect to your relatives seeming unsupportive, I've noticed that some folks are so afraid of making things worse that they literally do nothing, in the hope that they at least does no harm.  It doesn't work, but I've found those folks' motives to be in the right place at least.  "If I don't say/do anything, I can't make it worse."

    Wishing you guys the best,

    Ed

     

    Hi,

    He was tested but tested negative for the HER2 receptor. That was one of the treatments considered before the Irinotecan. Tomorrow morning he starts the Cyramza so we will see how it affects him.