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My Husband has recently been diagnosed with stage T3, N2, M0 adenocarcinoma. We are still in shock!  He is 36 years old and this is his second bout with cancer. He is a 4 year survivor of brain cancer (oligodendroglioma, stage 2). I would like to make some friends who have experience with esophageal cancer. We just had his consultations at Cleveland Clinic, and have doctored with them since they performed his crainotomy in 2011. He goes to a local hospital Monday to have his J-Tube and mediport placement. he begins his radiation and chemo tretments on  the following Wednesday. I am terrified but trying to be strong for his sake. Any input would be greatly appreciated! We have a 9 month-old son and I just want him to have his daddy around as long as possible!

Thanks,

Beckie

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  • paul61
    paul61 Member Posts: 1,391 Member
    36 is very young for esophageal cancer - I am so sorry

    Hello Beckie,

    I am so very sorry to hear of your husband’s recent diagnosis. I was diagnosed with esophageal cancer in October of 2009. I was 61 years old at the time. Most of the folks I know who have been diagnosed with EC are in their 60’s; I am sure your doctor has mentioned how unusual it is for someone your husband’s age to be diagnosed.

    Cleveland Clinic has an excellent reputation for medical leadership although I am not sure how deep their experience is with esophageal cancer. One of the leading medical centers for esophageal cancer is in Pittsburg not too far from you if you were considering a second opinion.

    I had surgery to remove my esophagus and part of my stomach in December of 2009 and then follow up chemotherapy for six months. The good news is that after treatment I am now about 5 years out and so far I have had good scans. The survival statistics for EC can be frightening but please remember they are averages and don’t take into consideration age, overall health, and medical care resources.

    If there are any questions I can answer related to diagnosis, staging, or treatment please let me know and I will do my best based on my experiences.

    I should also add that this site does not get as much use as it used to, many of us have moved to a Facebook page called the CSN Esophageal Cancer Group. It is a private group but if you have a Facebook account and would like to join I can add you to the group. That group gets much more use and is more interactive.

    I hope things go well for you and your husband as you go through staging and establish a treatment plan.

    Best Regards,

    Paul Adams

    McCormick, South Carolina
    DX 10/2009 T2N1M0  Stage IIB - Ivor Lewis Surgery  12/3/2009 - Post Surgery Chemotherapy 2/2009 – 6/2009
    Cisplatin, Epirubicin, 5 FU - Four Year Survivor

     

  • John Char
    John Char Member Posts: 30
    Friends at the Cleveland Clinic

    if you are at the Cleveland Clinic you are at a good place. My husband has esophagus cancer too. His is in his lymph nodes, stomach, back and lungs. Last May they gave him 2 to 4 months to live He is still here. We called Cancer Treatment of America they didn't take my husbands insurance. They told us we was in one of the best places to stay there. We are there every other week Monday and Wenday. Friday John had to get a stent put in because his esophagus was closing where the cancer is and couldn't eat anymore. They say after this he will be able to eat soft foods again. Waiting to see, if you ever see anyone with a little black poodle it is us, we are going to get her papers to be a therapy dog. we would be happy to sit and talk with you, good luck we all need a friend that understand, hope to see you.

  • Beck_N_Fozz
    Beck_N_Fozz Member Posts: 2
    paul61 said:

    36 is very young for esophageal cancer - I am so sorry

    Hello Beckie,

    I am so very sorry to hear of your husband’s recent diagnosis. I was diagnosed with esophageal cancer in October of 2009. I was 61 years old at the time. Most of the folks I know who have been diagnosed with EC are in their 60’s; I am sure your doctor has mentioned how unusual it is for someone your husband’s age to be diagnosed.

    Cleveland Clinic has an excellent reputation for medical leadership although I am not sure how deep their experience is with esophageal cancer. One of the leading medical centers for esophageal cancer is in Pittsburg not too far from you if you were considering a second opinion.

    I had surgery to remove my esophagus and part of my stomach in December of 2009 and then follow up chemotherapy for six months. The good news is that after treatment I am now about 5 years out and so far I have had good scans. The survival statistics for EC can be frightening but please remember they are averages and don’t take into consideration age, overall health, and medical care resources.

    If there are any questions I can answer related to diagnosis, staging, or treatment please let me know and I will do my best based on my experiences.

    I should also add that this site does not get as much use as it used to, many of us have moved to a Facebook page called the CSN Esophageal Cancer Group. It is a private group but if you have a Facebook account and would like to join I can add you to the group. That group gets much more use and is more interactive.

    I hope things go well for you and your husband as you go through staging and establish a treatment plan.

    Best Regards,

    Paul Adams

    McCormick, South Carolina
    DX 10/2009 T2N1M0  Stage IIB - Ivor Lewis Surgery  12/3/2009 - Post Surgery Chemotherapy 2/2009 – 6/2009
    Cisplatin, Epirubicin, 5 FU - Four Year Survivor

     

    Thanks for your help!

    Paul, I really apperciate your input and suggestions. I have reviewed several of your previous posts and it was a breath of fresh air to see someone so well versed, intelligent and compassionate concerning this topic. We have been struggling with this recent diagnosis. After his brain cancer in 2011 and craniotomy I think we thought the worst was over. Boy were we ever wrong! He just had his mediport and J-Tube installed on Monday and is having a great deal of pain. He just came home yesterday evening. Also, I have tried to find the Facebook page you mentioned and for some reason I can't locate it anywhere. My Facebook is "Rebecca Lynn Thompson" from Gallipolis, Ohio, Married to Fozz Thompson. Sorry I can"t provide a link. I am currently at work and cannot access FB from my work computer. If you could look me up or help me out I'd really appreciate any help.

    Thanks,

    Beckie Thompson

  • Deathorglory
    Deathorglory Member Posts: 364 Member
    Wishing You the Best

    Hello,

     

    As I'm sure you're aware, stage III EC is a very big deal, with a best-case scenario that is quite arduous.  First and foremost, you need top notch medical folks to work with, and you have done that. Cleveland Clinic is very well respected.  I'm sure they've tested for her2/neu overexpression.  But double check with them anyhow.  If your husband tests positive for that, it means he has an extra aggressive version of EC, but there's a powerful weapon available against it.  After a good medical team, the best thing you can have going for you is youth and strength.  Your husband is certainly young and obviously has considerable strength if he's already won a fight against brain cancer.  I was 40 when I was diagnosed the first time (also stage III), and youth certainly aided me in the fight. 

    I've also had a second go with cancer, but not a different kind.  Mine was a recurrence of EC in my lung.  I get how demoralizing it is to be told you're starting another battle.  The most common route from where you are is chemo, radiation and an esophejectomy.  Mine was followed by a second round of chemo, but I don't think that's a universal practice; I think that's case by case.  That's one reason why it's so important to have quality docs working with you.  

    I wish you the best in your fight and hope to see you here posting how well everything is working for you,

     

    Ed

  • faithinlord
    faithinlord Member Posts: 27

    Wishing You the Best

    Hello,

     

    As I'm sure you're aware, stage III EC is a very big deal, with a best-case scenario that is quite arduous.  First and foremost, you need top notch medical folks to work with, and you have done that. Cleveland Clinic is very well respected.  I'm sure they've tested for her2/neu overexpression.  But double check with them anyhow.  If your husband tests positive for that, it means he has an extra aggressive version of EC, but there's a powerful weapon available against it.  After a good medical team, the best thing you can have going for you is youth and strength.  Your husband is certainly young and obviously has considerable strength if he's already won a fight against brain cancer.  I was 40 when I was diagnosed the first time (also stage III), and youth certainly aided me in the fight. 

    I've also had a second go with cancer, but not a different kind.  Mine was a recurrence of EC in my lung.  I get how demoralizing it is to be told you're starting another battle.  The most common route from where you are is chemo, radiation and an esophejectomy.  Mine was followed by a second round of chemo, but I don't think that's a universal practice; I think that's case by case.  That's one reason why it's so important to have quality docs working with you.  

    I wish you the best in your fight and hope to see you here posting how well everything is working for you,

     

    Ed

    her question

    Ed

    Are you still on maintenance dose of herceptin every week. Have you experienced side effects of it for being so long? Are they planning to discontinue at some point since you are doing good?

  • Deathorglory
    Deathorglory Member Posts: 364 Member

    her question

    Ed

    Are you still on maintenance dose of herceptin every week. Have you experienced side effects of it for being so long? Are they planning to discontinue at some point since you are doing good?

    Hello

    Hello,

     

    I still get herceptin every Tuesday.  It's coming in on 3 1/2 years now (much better than the 7-8 months I was told to expect).  I just got back my latest CT results this week, and I'm still in remission.  The plan is still to continue on indefinitely; we don't want to learn the hard way that herceptin is what was keeping me from another recurrence.  I've been on four different chemo regimens since 2008 and herceptin by itself has been by far the mildest as far as side effects go.   I've had mild fatigue, lots of diarrhea, nosebleeds, and a constant drippy nose, but it beats hell out of dieing in june 2012 as was scheduled.

     

    Hope all's well,

     

    Ed

  • dfd24
    dfd24 Member Posts: 91

    Hello

    Hello,

     

    I still get herceptin every Tuesday.  It's coming in on 3 1/2 years now (much better than the 7-8 months I was told to expect).  I just got back my latest CT results this week, and I'm still in remission.  The plan is still to continue on indefinitely; we don't want to learn the hard way that herceptin is what was keeping me from another recurrence.  I've been on four different chemo regimens since 2008 and herceptin by itself has been by far the mildest as far as side effects go.   I've had mild fatigue, lots of diarrhea, nosebleeds, and a constant drippy nose, but it beats hell out of dieing in june 2012 as was scheduled.

     

    Hope all's well,

     

    Ed

    HI Ed,

    It's wonderful that you have such great results.

    All the best,

    Danièle

  • clyons54
    clyons54 Member Posts: 3
    Husband Same Age when Diagnosed

    Hi Becky -

    My husband was 35 when he was diagnosed with T3, N2 squamous cell in January 2012.  Total shock - never smoked, healthy and active, no family history.  He had radiation, chemo and surgery at Duke Cancer Center under the care of Dr. Thomas D'Amico.  The best advice I can give you is to keep a positive attitude and do not believe any statistics!  My husband fought like hell and kept a positive attitude.  It is not an easy road but IT IS DOABLE!  He had a recurrence in Deecmebr 2014 and he treated again with radiation and chemo and thankfully he just had a clear scan last month! We are being very aggressive and he will begin additinal chemo next week. 

     

    Please feel free to reach out to me if you have any questions!

    All the Best,

    Colleen

  • Hollyhmu
    Hollyhmu Member Posts: 1
    I am glad I found this!! My

    I am glad I found this!! My fiancée (usually refer to him as hubby since we were supposed to marry in Jan. but he was too ill)  was diagnosed with stage IV Esophagael Cancer.  It has spread to his upper stomach, lymph nodes and connective tissue going to his liver.  He is young as well (42) and we have a 10 month old.  I feel I can relate.  We are from ND and weren't able to get any care there. We are currently in MN and started chemo last week.  It took a good month to get him strong enough to start chemo.  I would love to have someone to talk to who understands!!  Our world is upside down, living in a hotel, and trying to make ends meet while trying to save his life.  

    I would like to be a part of the group on FB but can't find it either! 

    Holly

  • jdsdanish
    jdsdanish Member Posts: 3
    I am new too!

    Hi Beckie, I am new too and my dad was diagnosed in March with stage 3, N1. He is 62 yrs old and otherwise healthy. Dad started chemo 3 weeks ago and now has radiation. He also just got his feeding tube. I am also terrified of the treatment, the process and letting him down. We have had many conversations about our fears and we have just recently decided to really focus one day at a time. Please continue to reach out and I will likewise, we have a long journey ahead of us! Paul, I also cannot find the "CNS esophageal group" you mentioned on FB?

  • paul61
    paul61 Member Posts: 1,391 Member
    jdsdanish said:

    I am new too!

    Hi Beckie, I am new too and my dad was diagnosed in March with stage 3, N1. He is 62 yrs old and otherwise healthy. Dad started chemo 3 weeks ago and now has radiation. He also just got his feeding tube. I am also terrified of the treatment, the process and letting him down. We have had many conversations about our fears and we have just recently decided to really focus one day at a time. Please continue to reach out and I will likewise, we have a long journey ahead of us! Paul, I also cannot find the "CNS esophageal group" you mentioned on FB?

    Here is the link to the CSN Esophageal Cancer Facebook Group

    Here is the link to the CSN Esophageal Cancer Facebook group. 

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/Csnesophagealcancer/

    There is also an Esophageal Cancer Awareness Facebook group here:

     

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/6744305812/