How many people don't finish their chemo regimen?

JanJan63
JanJan63 Member Posts: 2,478 Member

I'm back to seriously considering stopping the chemo early. I've done four of eight and will do the fifth on Monday. I'm seriously thinking about just doing six. I want to give this my best shot but I'm so sick and miserable I just can't imagine still being this sick at the end of January.

Have all of you finished your chemo regimens or has anyone stopped early?

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  • janderson1964
    janderson1964 Member Posts: 2,215 Member
    In 2006 i did 12 treatments

    In 2006 i did 12 treatments of FOLFOX and never considered stopping early. In 2007 after my first recurrence i stopped after 10 rounds out os 12 rounds of FOLFIRIR. In 2012 after my second recurrence i considered stopping after 10 rounds of FOLFIRI BUT ENDED UP DOING all 12. So far I have done 15 rounds of vrious combinations in 2014 after my third recurrence. I am considering going to Xeloda and Celebrex only if my scan next week shows now negative changes and the ablation goes well next week.

  • Trubrit
    Trubrit Member Posts: 5,796 Member
    5FU was stopped

    I managed to make it through FOLFOX and 5FU for nine treatments, but when I did the six weeks continuous 5FU, my neuropathy got so bad that my Doctor quit it at five weeks. 

    I wanted to stop the last six days of radiatoin, but my Rad Onc would not let me. 

    It is a hard decision and one not to be taken lightly. It could mean the difference between life and death.  Did my I get my liver met because I didn't do six full weeks of 5FU? I will never know of course, but it does flit through my mind every now and again. 

    Good luck making your decision. 

    Sue - Trubrit

  • JanJan63
    JanJan63 Member Posts: 2,478 Member
    Trubrit said:

    5FU was stopped

    I managed to make it through FOLFOX and 5FU for nine treatments, but when I did the six weeks continuous 5FU, my neuropathy got so bad that my Doctor quit it at five weeks. 

    I wanted to stop the last six days of radiatoin, but my Rad Onc would not let me. 

    It is a hard decision and one not to be taken lightly. It could mean the difference between life and death.  Did my I get my liver met because I didn't do six full weeks of 5FU? I will never know of course, but it does flit through my mind every now and again. 

    Good luck making your decision. 

    Sue - Trubrit

    Thank you. I want to give it

    Thank you. I want to give it my best shot at getting rid of the cancer cells but I'm just completely miserable. I'm angry because this has taken so long and now Christmas will be ruined because of it. I've lost a year of my life so far. I'm sick of the cold sensitivity and blood clots that hurt and constant nausea and my mouth feeling like it has a layer of oil that tastes like crap in it all the time and dehydration and fatigue. I wouldn't mind just having the flouro whatever it's called but the oxypalatin is the worst. I suppose it's what's doing the most good. Or bad if you consider how poisonous it is.

    Is the cold sensitivity called neuropathy or is that something else?

    Jan

  • Annabelle41415
    Annabelle41415 Member Posts: 6,742 Member
    Treatment

    Have you discussed this with your doctor and asked them if they could reduce the amount you get at treatment.  Sometimes this can help immensley.  Also, there are other meds they can give you if you feel sick.  I'm sorry that it's so hard on you.  Feeling like that during treatment only makes things seem worse.  Please talk to your doctor.

    Kim

  • Trubrit
    Trubrit Member Posts: 5,796 Member
    JanJan63 said:

    Thank you. I want to give it

    Thank you. I want to give it my best shot at getting rid of the cancer cells but I'm just completely miserable. I'm angry because this has taken so long and now Christmas will be ruined because of it. I've lost a year of my life so far. I'm sick of the cold sensitivity and blood clots that hurt and constant nausea and my mouth feeling like it has a layer of oil that tastes like crap in it all the time and dehydration and fatigue. I wouldn't mind just having the flouro whatever it's called but the oxypalatin is the worst. I suppose it's what's doing the most good. Or bad if you consider how poisonous it is.

    Is the cold sensitivity called neuropathy or is that something else?

    Jan

    Neuropathy

    Neuropathy is when you lose all or partial feeling in your hands and feet due to nerve damage; which, in our case is caused by the chemo. 

    Being sensitive to cold is called cold hypersensitivity. 

    I am so sorry that you are having such a terrible time. I hated the Oxi too, but radiation was by far worse for me by leaps and bounds. 

    Do have a serious talk about all of your concerns with your Oncologist; something must be done to help you. 

    Sue - Trubrit

  • Yolllmbs
    Yolllmbs Member Posts: 360 Member
    10 of 12 FCU5

         I know it's different for everybody. I started chemotherapy Fcu5 four weeks after surgery.  My oncologist made us take a class which informed us of all the possible side effects. I went into chemotherapy feeling informed. I joined this group and found out I really didn't know the information from the patients side. I asked lots of questions and I think it made the sick feeling more tolerable. I did 10 of the 12 treatments. We decided to stop the treatment because of the neuropathy. I was prepared for the cold sensation. That was part of the introduction to oxy. The neuropathy is pain and tingling hands and feet constantly. I'm still feeling those effects 10 weeks after I stopped. My doctor and I made the decision together because of the concern regarding the quality of life. I didn't feel the best when I was doing treatment but I kept pushing forward until it felt impossible. I think you need to discuss your health with your oncologist and make decisions accordingly. I do also worry if I should have finished the remaining 2 cycles. Only time will tell. 

     

    Yolanda

  • ron50
    ron50 Member Posts: 1,723 Member
    I had chemo IE an infusion of 5fu via canula

     In the back of alternating hands every week for 48 weeks.Every second week it was enhanced with 9 tablets ,three a day for three days after 5fu, of a drug called levamisole. It was a weight related dose. Too much levamisole killed you, too little did nothing ,just right , well I am still alive sixteen years later. My Oncologist was worried towards the end that chemo was having a bad physical and psychological effect on me and suggested we stop. I just said if it comes back I will always wonder so lets just do it. We did. Ron.

  • lilacbrroller
    lilacbrroller Member Posts: 412 Member
    ron50 said:

    I had chemo IE an infusion of 5fu via canula

     In the back of alternating hands every week for 48 weeks.Every second week it was enhanced with 9 tablets ,three a day for three days after 5fu, of a drug called levamisole. It was a weight related dose. Too much levamisole killed you, too little did nothing ,just right , well I am still alive sixteen years later. My Oncologist was worried towards the end that chemo was having a bad physical and psychological effect on me and suggested we stop. I just said if it comes back I will always wonder so lets just do it. We did. Ron.

    Go! Go! Go!

    Hi, Jan. I can't remember whether you are a stage III or IV.   If you're a III, the chemo could save your life. If you're a IV, especialy an advanced IV, well.. it's going to buy you time but that's about all, unless you're one of the few and very fortunate.

    This board is a great cheering section.  If you're a III and just need encouragement through some tough times, I'm sure several of us will step up and say "Go, Jan!" every week if that would help you stay on it.  Many people, especially IIIs, post a countdown of their treatments after each one, and when the rest of us are able, we cheer and offer encouragement.  

    If you're truly miserable and just can't continue, I suggest you talk to your onc about a break, or even switching chemo.  The are about, what, five, six, possible MCRC drugs we can have, and several cocktails. I think I've taken most of them and not all have awful side effects. They're not great but everybody responds differently, and maybe you can find one that works well for you and doesn't affect you much, or causes side effects you can deal with.   

    I did the full 12 of Folfox and then the onc stopped it.  Another doc I saw asked why he didn't continue, since it really really worked, and I didn't ask or know.  I had the cold sensitivity (luckily I had started in the summer so ended o/a January) and didn't get the neuropathy until my last treatment which made me unable to put on earrings and do fine motor work. Nearly two years out, I'm fine. No residual oxy damage, full functionality restored in my hands.  But no way do I have Winter Marie's tolerance for the stuff!  What an oxy superhero! I'm picturing her strapped to a chair, ala Game of Thrones, being infused by poison, and then screaming and writhing, sweating, turning all colors, clenching her fists, and then returning to normal, tossing her head back and saying to a crowd of onlookers - "it was nothing, just a flesh wound - hit me again." Not me, man.  Other chemos were stopped by the onc when they didn't work (CEA went up, scans showed progression ;-(, but then, I'm a IV.)

    Good luck - (go Jan, go Jan, go, go, go, go Jan...)

     

    Karin

  • herdizziness
    herdizziness Member Posts: 3,624 Member
    Next treatment is my 23 in a row

    I can't help with when to stop treatment.  I've been on chemo for almost five years.  I've done Oxi three times in regimes.  On the Oxi now getting it every week, next week is my 23rd week of the Oxi, with one week off every four weeks, along with two other chemo's.  Mind you I have had time off to get surgeries from chemo, other then that, no.

    Dear Christopher who has passed away did 7 years of chemo. Do I get tired? Yes.  Do I feel miserable at times? Yes.  Do I like living more then death? Oh to be sure the answer is yes.  So I do my chemo.

    bdttcgtttttttt tt tof dbrbh. Kim,ook

    The above sentence was written by my chihuahua Nubs, not sure what he is saying.

    Any rate my suggestion is same as others talk to your oncologist and see what can be done.  I wouldn't just quit without that talk, ok?

    Hugs,

    Winter Marie

  • JanJan63
    JanJan63 Member Posts: 2,478 Member

    Go! Go! Go!

    Hi, Jan. I can't remember whether you are a stage III or IV.   If you're a III, the chemo could save your life. If you're a IV, especialy an advanced IV, well.. it's going to buy you time but that's about all, unless you're one of the few and very fortunate.

    This board is a great cheering section.  If you're a III and just need encouragement through some tough times, I'm sure several of us will step up and say "Go, Jan!" every week if that would help you stay on it.  Many people, especially IIIs, post a countdown of their treatments after each one, and when the rest of us are able, we cheer and offer encouragement.  

    If you're truly miserable and just can't continue, I suggest you talk to your onc about a break, or even switching chemo.  The are about, what, five, six, possible MCRC drugs we can have, and several cocktails. I think I've taken most of them and not all have awful side effects. They're not great but everybody responds differently, and maybe you can find one that works well for you and doesn't affect you much, or causes side effects you can deal with.   

    I did the full 12 of Folfox and then the onc stopped it.  Another doc I saw asked why he didn't continue, since it really really worked, and I didn't ask or know.  I had the cold sensitivity (luckily I had started in the summer so ended o/a January) and didn't get the neuropathy until my last treatment which made me unable to put on earrings and do fine motor work. Nearly two years out, I'm fine. No residual oxy damage, full functionality restored in my hands.  But no way do I have Winter Marie's tolerance for the stuff!  What an oxy superhero! I'm picturing her strapped to a chair, ala Game of Thrones, being infused by poison, and then screaming and writhing, sweating, turning all colors, clenching her fists, and then returning to normal, tossing her head back and saying to a crowd of onlookers - "it was nothing, just a flesh wound - hit me again." Not me, man.  Other chemos were stopped by the onc when they didn't work (CEA went up, scans showed progression ;-(, but then, I'm a IV.)

    Good luck - (go Jan, go Jan, go, go, go, go Jan...)

     

    Karin

    Thank you everyone for the

    Thank you everyone for the support.

    Winter Marie, my oncologist is about as helpful as Nubs would be. I should have switched before this second round. Karin, thank you for the encouragement. I'm a stage three. I don't want to take a break because I need to get better and get back to work. The cold sensitivity is really bad now because it's so cold here. Today was -24 C with a wind chill of -39 C. That's -11 F and -38 F. It affects so many things. Last week I had to use a glove to talk on my cell phone and make sure it didn't touch my face. I can't take silverware out of the drawer without gloves. It's ridiculous. We keep our house warm but the coldness gets into everything. I have to use gloves to feed the dogs because their dishes are metal. I'm only getting a few days before the next chemo where I can drink something cold but not too cold. Another two months of this is going to drive me nuts.

    I didn't see my oncologist yesterday because I can no longer drive myself there due to the cold sensitivity as it's hard to find a spot and they're always far from the door and I can't get into a cold car. My friend was supposed to take me but they had a gas leak avacuation in the middle of the night and she still wasn't able to go home and they had three dogs with them at the hotel.

    Jan

  • Nana b
    Nana b Member Posts: 3,030 Member
    Try to hang in there, you've

    Try to hang in there, you've come so far. What's your CEA? I did 12 rounds of Folfox but had 1.5 month break in between for surgery. I was still NED for over 3 years. stage 4. 

  • UncleBuddy
    UncleBuddy Member Posts: 1,019 Member
    Only you can make that decision.

    My brother is stage 4, started as stage 2a. He had to stop a few times because of hospitalizations and also because his heart was too weak for the 5-fu. He is only on irintoecan right now. He's on a low dose and his onc will raise the dose if he does well on it. Make sure your heart function is monitored. My brother's heart was affected by the chemo he had in 2000 for non hodgkins lymphoma, as well as from 5-fu and a couple of other chemo meds he was on. He's had a rough time. Right now they are treating him to try to slow down the growth of cancer, so they're trying to extend his life. Good luck. I can't say what I'd do because I'm not in your position, but I hope you're able to figure things out.

    Lin

  • JanJan63
    JanJan63 Member Posts: 2,478 Member

    Only you can make that decision.

    My brother is stage 4, started as stage 2a. He had to stop a few times because of hospitalizations and also because his heart was too weak for the 5-fu. He is only on irintoecan right now. He's on a low dose and his onc will raise the dose if he does well on it. Make sure your heart function is monitored. My brother's heart was affected by the chemo he had in 2000 for non hodgkins lymphoma, as well as from 5-fu and a couple of other chemo meds he was on. He's had a rough time. Right now they are treating him to try to slow down the growth of cancer, so they're trying to extend his life. Good luck. I can't say what I'd do because I'm not in your position, but I hope you're able to figure things out.

    Lin

    I have no idea what my CEA is

    I have no idea what my CEA is because my onc hasn't asked for it. They say I'm healthy other than fighting cancer. Tomorrow is chemo day so I've been upset and stressed for the last few days. I hate, hate, hate it.

  • herdizziness
    herdizziness Member Posts: 3,624 Member

    Go! Go! Go!

    Hi, Jan. I can't remember whether you are a stage III or IV.   If you're a III, the chemo could save your life. If you're a IV, especialy an advanced IV, well.. it's going to buy you time but that's about all, unless you're one of the few and very fortunate.

    This board is a great cheering section.  If you're a III and just need encouragement through some tough times, I'm sure several of us will step up and say "Go, Jan!" every week if that would help you stay on it.  Many people, especially IIIs, post a countdown of their treatments after each one, and when the rest of us are able, we cheer and offer encouragement.  

    If you're truly miserable and just can't continue, I suggest you talk to your onc about a break, or even switching chemo.  The are about, what, five, six, possible MCRC drugs we can have, and several cocktails. I think I've taken most of them and not all have awful side effects. They're not great but everybody responds differently, and maybe you can find one that works well for you and doesn't affect you much, or causes side effects you can deal with.   

    I did the full 12 of Folfox and then the onc stopped it.  Another doc I saw asked why he didn't continue, since it really really worked, and I didn't ask or know.  I had the cold sensitivity (luckily I had started in the summer so ended o/a January) and didn't get the neuropathy until my last treatment which made me unable to put on earrings and do fine motor work. Nearly two years out, I'm fine. No residual oxy damage, full functionality restored in my hands.  But no way do I have Winter Marie's tolerance for the stuff!  What an oxy superhero! I'm picturing her strapped to a chair, ala Game of Thrones, being infused by poison, and then screaming and writhing, sweating, turning all colors, clenching her fists, and then returning to normal, tossing her head back and saying to a crowd of onlookers - "it was nothing, just a flesh wound - hit me again." Not me, man.  Other chemos were stopped by the onc when they didn't work (CEA went up, scans showed progression ;-(, but then, I'm a IV.)

    Good luck - (go Jan, go Jan, go, go, go, go Jan...)

     

    Karin

    You crack me up Karin

    Boxing GlovesSee Karin, no turning colors, just clenched fist in boxing gloves.  My daughter sent that to me, with the words Keep up the Fight Mom.

    AND IT's hard it isn't easy and Jan you seem to have gotten the worst of everything.  Keep trying dear, it will hopefully get much better.

    Winter Marie

  • herdizziness
    herdizziness Member Posts: 3,624 Member
    JanJan63 said:

    I have no idea what my CEA is

    I have no idea what my CEA is because my onc hasn't asked for it. They say I'm healthy other than fighting cancer. Tomorrow is chemo day so I've been upset and stressed for the last few days. I hate, hate, hate it.

    Tell your a Onc

    Tell your Onc you want a CEA count, there is no reason for him not to order it at your request.

    Winter Marie

  • abrub
    abrub Member Posts: 2,174 Member
    I quit after 7 cycles

    However, they stated up front that they would never know if the chemo was beneficial to me.  The known problems far outweighed the questionable benefits in my case (and my neuropathy, while now mild, is permanent, and 6 years post-chemo is getting worse.)

    It's a very personal decision.  In some parts of the world, 6 or 8 cycles of Folfox is considered the norm, not 12.  Discuss with your dr and then decide.  Quality of life cannot be overstated.

    Alice

  • Trubrit
    Trubrit Member Posts: 5,796 Member
    JanJan63 said:

    I have no idea what my CEA is

    I have no idea what my CEA is because my onc hasn't asked for it. They say I'm healthy other than fighting cancer. Tomorrow is chemo day so I've been upset and stressed for the last few days. I hate, hate, hate it.

    CEA

    My Oncologist did not order CEA until after I had finished chemo, as he said that the chemo itself messes with the results. So maybe your Oncologist is waiting. Did you have your CEA checked before starting treatment? That way you may have an idea what your number was while the tumour was active or post surgery. 

    Sue - Trubrit

  • thxmiker
    thxmiker Member Posts: 1,278 Member
    There is little clinical

    There is little clinical evidence that 6 tretments or 12 treatments is better.   If you are responding to the treatments then they are working!  Do what your body tells you is right.  I was scheduled for 12 treatments and have done 14, but am finally seeing great results.

     

     

     

    Best ALways,  mike

  • JanJan63
    JanJan63 Member Posts: 2,478 Member
    thxmiker said:

    There is little clinical

    There is little clinical evidence that 6 tretments or 12 treatments is better.   If you are responding to the treatments then they are working!  Do what your body tells you is right.  I was scheduled for 12 treatments and have done 14, but am finally seeing great results.

     

     

     

    Best ALways,  mike

    Thanks again everyone. This

    Thanks again everyone. This is the best place to talk about this, you're all wonderful.

    How do you know if you're seeing good results? I was almost back to normal before I started this round of chemo, I just got tired easily. Now I can barely function and feel like crap. Can I only get an answer by asking for my CEA?

    My understanding is that my onc will have put my information into a computer program and it tells her what it thinks the ideal number of treatments is. Of course, I had to start a month later than they wanted after my surgery because my incision opened up. Before I started I asked her if that would make a difference and she was very casual about it and said she 'still thinks it's worth doing'. So I really have no faith in if it's doing anything for me. Did I miss my window of opportunity because it was so long before the chemo? Am I totally wasting my time doing this?

    I go for chemo number five today and I've been upset and stressed all weekend. I hardly slept last night. Three more to go after this if I complete it. It's really bugging me that Christmas will be ruined.

    I feel so bad because I know many of you have experienced far more than I have but I'm just so upset about doing this and not knowing if it's actually worth it. And I'm angry that I ended up stage 3. I went to the doctor for this in May of 2013 and they did an ultrasound but didn't look low enough to see anything. Then I was referred to the doctor that did the colonoscopy and he barely touched my stomach and said he figured it was just my IBS. I didn't get in for the colonoscopy until Dec 23 and that was only because my family doctor was pushing to have it moved up. I can't help but wonder at what point I could have been treated less invasively. By the time they figured it out I had to have chemo and radiation because the tumour was so big. And an ostomy first because it had completely blocked my colon. The tumour had torn my colon and I had three lymph nodes involved. Would six months earlier have put me in a stage two? And I wouldn't have had to have the chemo and radiation? I feel let down by the system and have lost faith in some doctors. And my onc is wishy washy and does not inspire confidence.

    Jan

  • Trubrit
    Trubrit Member Posts: 5,796 Member
    JanJan63 said:

    Thanks again everyone. This

    Thanks again everyone. This is the best place to talk about this, you're all wonderful.

    How do you know if you're seeing good results? I was almost back to normal before I started this round of chemo, I just got tired easily. Now I can barely function and feel like crap. Can I only get an answer by asking for my CEA?

    My understanding is that my onc will have put my information into a computer program and it tells her what it thinks the ideal number of treatments is. Of course, I had to start a month later than they wanted after my surgery because my incision opened up. Before I started I asked her if that would make a difference and she was very casual about it and said she 'still thinks it's worth doing'. So I really have no faith in if it's doing anything for me. Did I miss my window of opportunity because it was so long before the chemo? Am I totally wasting my time doing this?

    I go for chemo number five today and I've been upset and stressed all weekend. I hardly slept last night. Three more to go after this if I complete it. It's really bugging me that Christmas will be ruined.

    I feel so bad because I know many of you have experienced far more than I have but I'm just so upset about doing this and not knowing if it's actually worth it. And I'm angry that I ended up stage 3. I went to the doctor for this in May of 2013 and they did an ultrasound but didn't look low enough to see anything. Then I was referred to the doctor that did the colonoscopy and he barely touched my stomach and said he figured it was just my IBS. I didn't get in for the colonoscopy until Dec 23 and that was only because my family doctor was pushing to have it moved up. I can't help but wonder at what point I could have been treated less invasively. By the time they figured it out I had to have chemo and radiation because the tumour was so big. And an ostomy first because it had completely blocked my colon. The tumour had torn my colon and I had three lymph nodes involved. Would six months earlier have put me in a stage two? And I wouldn't have had to have the chemo and radiation? I feel let down by the system and have lost faith in some doctors. And my onc is wishy washy and does not inspire confidence.

    Jan

    TWO more, only two more.....

    Tell youself its only two more after the next one. I know it sounds silly, but that is what I did with radiation. I jumped ahead to make it sound better. The mind is a funny thing. Yeah, tell yourself 'only two more after the next one'. 

    Don't fret about your CEA now. Wait until you're finished (and you are going to finish) and then ask your Onc for a CEA draw. Ask the facility (hospital, wherever you go for your blood draw) how long before they get the results (my blood gets sent to Texas and takes two days), then go back in and request your results. You don't have to wait for the Oncologist appointment. 

    I have read many of my results before the Oncologist even gets them. 

    Once your treatment is over (and its only two after then next one), you should be scheduled for a CT scan. 

    Gird yourself up my friend, you can do this. 

    As for Christmas, can you get someone to decorate your bedroom? Put your tree in there, put up the Christmas cards in there. Make the room you spend the most time in, your Christmas room.  Ask family to help with a Christmas dinner, even if its just soup. Call it a Christmas soup, or aif you can only eat certain things, call them Christmas food. Like I said before, the mind is an interesting organ, and you can make it believe whatever.

    Last night, when I couldn't sleep, I laid their and pretended I was an Elf in Lothlorien (I've been reading and watching Lord of the Rings). It soothed me to sleep, and even though it took me a while, it was very pleasant while  . image

    Do what it takes to make it through if you can. 

    Really, just two more after the next one. You can do it. We're beside you all the way. 

    Sue - Trubrit