16 months post op total laryngectomy

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scottishbrenda
scottishbrenda Member Posts: 8
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Hello
My name is Brenda and my husband Jim had a total laryngectomy 16 months ago. I cannot beleive how scared we both were about what our future would hold, how would get through it all, but we did. We have been on a huge emotional rollercoaster but have learned such a lot and we know our positivity and our ' glass half full' approach has made us stronger. I joined this site mainy to try and help anyone who is about to go through this life changing surgery, well I say life changing but once you get to grips with the stoma cleaning daily and all the little things that become second nature life does become normal! whatever that is. I would be happy to hear from anyone who just wants to chat or ask me anything that I may be able to help. Jim and I live in Bonnie Scotland and I look forward to being a part of the discussions boards.

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  • denistd
    denistd Member Posts: 597
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    Hi Brenda, I am a Brit living in the US, when I found out about my cancer I thought it was going to be a laryngectomy, fortunately the cancer was not too advanced and I went with radio and chemo. there is a site in Britain called Laryngectomy Life, I don't whether you have looked at it but it's a great site. denis
  • Skiffin16
    Skiffin16 Member Posts: 8,305 Member
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    Welcome Brenda
    Welcome to the forum, great people here, tons of experiences and knowledge and people willing to share.

    I'm sure that your contributions will be appreciated.

    Best,
    John
  • Hondo
    Hondo Member Posts: 6,636 Member
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    Skiffin16 said:

    Welcome Brenda
    Welcome to the forum, great people here, tons of experiences and knowledge and people willing to share.

    I'm sure that your contributions will be appreciated.

    Best,
    John

    Hi Brenda
    My family is from Scotland the McNab clan my Dad would often tell us stories about the Mother land as he called it. Hey sorry to hear about your journey with C but like you said it just makes you stronger. I am happy you are part of the CSN family now and hope you plan to stay as many of us do just to help someone else who is just starting along the way.

    Wishing you and Jim all the best
    Hondo
  • sweetblood22
    sweetblood22 Member Posts: 3,228
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    Brenda
    Different type of cancer with me, too, but I did want to welcome you. I went to England and Scotland in 2004, and I fell in love with Scotland! I'd go back in a heart beat! I didn't want to come home.

    Wishing you and Jim well.

    Sweet
  • scottishbrenda
    scottishbrenda Member Posts: 8
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    denistd said:

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    Hi Brenda, I am a Brit living in the US, when I found out about my cancer I thought it was going to be a laryngectomy, fortunately the cancer was not too advanced and I went with radio and chemo. there is a site in Britain called Laryngectomy Life, I don't whether you have looked at it but it's a great site. denis

    thanks
    hello dennis

    Yeah I do go on to laryngectomy life and it is a great site. I guess I hope to spread my support across the pond as we both know the importance of this. Brilliant that rads and chemo was sufficient. Unfortunately Jim's tumour was a t4 and the op was our only option. Thank you to all who welcomed me on to this site I look forward to communicating with you all.
  • denistd
    denistd Member Posts: 597
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    sweetblood22 said:

    Brenda
    Different type of cancer with me, too, but I did want to welcome you. I went to England and Scotland in 2004, and I fell in love with Scotland! I'd go back in a heart beat! I didn't want to come home.

    Wishing you and Jim well.

    Sweet

    LL
    Hi Brenda, when you go to LL look out for Christine and Elspeth, Christine is from Wales her husband had his laryngectomy 6 years ago, Elspeth is from Scotland, they propped me up every time I kept slipping in 2009
  • scottishbrenda
    scottishbrenda Member Posts: 8
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    denistd said:

    LL
    Hi Brenda, when you go to LL look out for Christine and Elspeth, Christine is from Wales her husband had his laryngectomy 6 years ago, Elspeth is from Scotland, they propped me up every time I kept slipping in 2009

    thanks
    hi dennis

    Will do, think I have seen Elspeth's name a lot I am sure she is from Fife, that will do me as my dear Mum was a Fifer!

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