My Mom

Hi, Ive Been Lurking On this Board for a LONG time now!! Ive Learned so much and have so Much more hope and knowledge.I share it with my Mom.Shes A Very Healthy active 71 year old with Stage 1v Uterine cancer.Dr.said they found a tiny bit on her Diaphram she almost missed it it was so small,but with the DiVici Surgery she found it.Mom is on her 5th round of Chemo and Really doing Great! She has One more round then she will get a ct scan or pet? I am reading this board Everyday. Im addicted to it.I see Stage 1v Ladies on the board doing great and I am so Hopeful.I have never been so sad in my life, It wont ever be the same so Im Trying to adjust to The new one.My Mom Is my every thing.I love her so much.I know she wont be cured, but maintained.Like most of you.You have No Idea how much I appreciate you ladies.Ive been trying to get Mom to read the board,shes scared, I keep telling her how wonderful you all are and how much youve helped me. And you dont even know it!:) Some Day I will get her on here. Her story will help a Scared Some one too! I will keep Reading And learning .Thank You Ladies from the bottom of my heart. Cindy

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  • kkstef
    kkstef Member Posts: 688 Member
    Cindy
    I am so glad that you have posted on this board. Your Mom is so fortunate to have such caring daughter...and one that is trying to learn more about this diagnosis so that you can help educate your Mom. I hope some day that your Mom feels comfortable joining us, but in the mean time...ask away!

    I am so happy to hear how well your Mom is tolerating treatment. That is wonderful.

    Do you know what type of uterine cancer she has? I wasn't sure what you meant by Stage 1v?

    Cindy, there are much worse things to be addicted to than this board...:-) We are here to support you in any way that we can.

    Big Hugs! Karen
  • Cynthia Rose
    Cynthia Rose Member Posts: 35
    kkstef said:

    Cindy
    I am so glad that you have posted on this board. Your Mom is so fortunate to have such caring daughter...and one that is trying to learn more about this diagnosis so that you can help educate your Mom. I hope some day that your Mom feels comfortable joining us, but in the mean time...ask away!

    I am so happy to hear how well your Mom is tolerating treatment. That is wonderful.

    Do you know what type of uterine cancer she has? I wasn't sure what you meant by Stage 1v?

    Cindy, there are much worse things to be addicted to than this board...:-) We are here to support you in any way that we can.

    Big Hugs! Karen

    Karen
    Sorry about that 1v. Its stage 4b, I need to get all the info from Mom. I know it is the Rare aggessive type.She Started Chemo with CA 125 of 518 and its now 43!! I wish It were lower But thats still real good, Right? She Started her 5th round last Tuesday and thats when they told us its 43.Thanks Karen, Cindy
  • lovemysaints
    lovemysaints Member Posts: 15
    Hello Cindy
    Cindy
    I'm very new to the board, just recently diagnosed and haven't had surgery yet. I was looking for a support group and found CSN. Tell your mom that these ladies have provided me w/ info, encouragement, and support. They truly understand how scared, lost, and overwhelmed one can feel. I know I felt like I was talking to old friends, not strangers. I will put both you and your mom on my prayer list. Best wishes and know we are here for you!
    Brook
  • norma2
    norma2 Member Posts: 479
    Hoping your mom has a clear scan
    Here is hoping your Mom has a long remission after treatment. I know what has helped me is to talk to my daughter. I think she was more upset than I was when I was first diagnosed. Having loving family and friends there to give support is a wonderful thing.

    Thinking of you and your Mom. Norma
  • HellieC
    HellieC Member Posts: 524 Member

    Karen
    Sorry about that 1v. Its stage 4b, I need to get all the info from Mom. I know it is the Rare aggessive type.She Started Chemo with CA 125 of 518 and its now 43!! I wish It were lower But thats still real good, Right? She Started her 5th round last Tuesday and thats when they told us its 43.Thanks Karen, Cindy

    43 is GREAT
    A CA 125 of 43 is great, considering that your Mum hasn't finished her chemo yet. The reference range varies a little from hospital to hospital (and country to country) but where I am (in England, UK) anything below 30-35 is considered "normal". (I hate using the phrase "normal range" because it isn't normal for everyone - there are always a percentage of people who naturally fall outside of the range, even when healthy).

    So it looks as if your Mum is heading for a value which will be within range by the end of her chemo - which is the most wonderful news.

    Hang on in there - we're all here for you.
    Kindest wishes
    Helen
  • Elly P.
    Elly P. Member Posts: 4
    My Daughter Cynthia Rose
    I would like to say I am the proud mother of Cynthia Rose who has been by my side throughout my surgery and treatments. She is absolutely one of a kind. I hope you all have a child like her. It is true, she has been learning and lurking on this site. While she learns she educates me. I have finally stopped procrastinating and, with her help last night, signed on. It is time to lift her burden of teaching me about you ladies and learn first hand. She loves you all and you have helped her so much. I cannot thank you enough. I do have stage 4 cancer and on July 12th my Dr. said she could possibly give me a break from chemo after the 6th month. Which will be the end of August. I am praying my count drops below 35. It is now 43. I will keep reading and learning from this wonderful site. Elly
  • kkstef
    kkstef Member Posts: 688 Member
    Elly P. said:

    My Daughter Cynthia Rose
    I would like to say I am the proud mother of Cynthia Rose who has been by my side throughout my surgery and treatments. She is absolutely one of a kind. I hope you all have a child like her. It is true, she has been learning and lurking on this site. While she learns she educates me. I have finally stopped procrastinating and, with her help last night, signed on. It is time to lift her burden of teaching me about you ladies and learn first hand. She loves you all and you have helped her so much. I cannot thank you enough. I do have stage 4 cancer and on July 12th my Dr. said she could possibly give me a break from chemo after the 6th month. Which will be the end of August. I am praying my count drops below 35. It is now 43. I will keep reading and learning from this wonderful site. Elly

    Welcome Elly!
    Elly,

    Although no one wants to become a member of this board, it is a wonderful place for information and support!

    You do have a wonderful daughter....it is so obvious that she cares about your deeply and is a true advocate. How wonderful!!

    You have had a big drop in your CA 125 and that is great news! I am sure it will continue downward, but it very close to normal range now! HURRAH!!

    Don't hesitate to ask any questions you have or just vent....that is what we are here for.

    Best to you!

    Karen
  • Rewriter
    Rewriter Member Posts: 493 Member
    kkstef said:

    Welcome Elly!
    Elly,

    Although no one wants to become a member of this board, it is a wonderful place for information and support!

    You do have a wonderful daughter....it is so obvious that she cares about your deeply and is a true advocate. How wonderful!!

    You have had a big drop in your CA 125 and that is great news! I am sure it will continue downward, but it very close to normal range now! HURRAH!!

    Don't hesitate to ask any questions you have or just vent....that is what we are here for.

    Best to you!

    Karen

    So glad to meet you, Elly
    As Karen said, this is a place for so much cutting-edge information, support, and encouragement. We can help you through your traditional cancer treatments and share tons of information about how diet and complementary therapies might help.

    The huge drop in your CA-125 is very encouraging. May it soon fall into the normal range.

    We are here for you, Elly. I hope you will feel comfortable enough to share your questions and concerns. By the way, you have an amazing daughter.


    Jill
  • Kaleena
    Kaleena Member Posts: 2,088 Member
    Elly P. said:

    My Daughter Cynthia Rose
    I would like to say I am the proud mother of Cynthia Rose who has been by my side throughout my surgery and treatments. She is absolutely one of a kind. I hope you all have a child like her. It is true, she has been learning and lurking on this site. While she learns she educates me. I have finally stopped procrastinating and, with her help last night, signed on. It is time to lift her burden of teaching me about you ladies and learn first hand. She loves you all and you have helped her so much. I cannot thank you enough. I do have stage 4 cancer and on July 12th my Dr. said she could possibly give me a break from chemo after the 6th month. Which will be the end of August. I am praying my count drops below 35. It is now 43. I will keep reading and learning from this wonderful site. Elly

    Welcome!
    Dear Elly:

    Welcome to this site. You have a wonderful daughter who is looking out for you. I am glad that you signed on. It really helps. Dont search the internet, because it is full of way outdated stuff. A lot of women hear are on the top of the most recent treatment that is out there.

    Go and read some of the posts here and you will definitely have a positive outlook.

    Having a CA125 of 43 is great. Just becasue a "normal" reading is 35 below, an elevated CA125 can be just from inflammation too. I guess what I am saying don't get too hung up on that number. Stay positive and keep doing all your activities as you can.

    Sending you hugs,

    Kathy
  • california_artist
    california_artist Member Posts: 816 Member
    Kaleena said:

    Welcome!
    Dear Elly:

    Welcome to this site. You have a wonderful daughter who is looking out for you. I am glad that you signed on. It really helps. Dont search the internet, because it is full of way outdated stuff. A lot of women hear are on the top of the most recent treatment that is out there.

    Go and read some of the posts here and you will definitely have a positive outlook.

    Having a CA125 of 43 is great. Just becasue a "normal" reading is 35 below, an elevated CA125 can be just from inflammation too. I guess what I am saying don't get too hung up on that number. Stay positive and keep doing all your activities as you can.

    Sending you hugs,

    Kathy

    Elly,
    To know us, is to love us.

    Welcome.

    there is so much info here, it's almost overwhelming. Just pick a post and read. Something might pop out at you that makes you think of something, that makes you think of something else, and then, you'll feel better.

    I went to your page and it says
    Bladder
    Cervical
    Stomach
    Uterine

    and that you've had a recurrence. Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat????? That's just about overwhelming indeed. No wonder you didn't get on sooner.

    Love and hope to you and yours,

    Claudia
  • daisy366
    daisy366 Member Posts: 1,458 Member

    Elly,
    To know us, is to love us.

    Welcome.

    there is so much info here, it's almost overwhelming. Just pick a post and read. Something might pop out at you that makes you think of something, that makes you think of something else, and then, you'll feel better.

    I went to your page and it says
    Bladder
    Cervical
    Stomach
    Uterine

    and that you've had a recurrence. Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat????? That's just about overwhelming indeed. No wonder you didn't get on sooner.

    Love and hope to you and yours,

    Claudia

    Hi Elly and Cynthia Rose
    Welcome. Sounds like you are a wonderful family. This is a place to share whatever you want or need and you will always have a receptive ear and many people willing and able to help - day and night.

    It's not an enviable club we have, but nice to know it's here for us.

    Stay strong. Your sister, Mary Ann
  • Cynthia Rose
    Cynthia Rose Member Posts: 35

    Elly,
    To know us, is to love us.

    Welcome.

    there is so much info here, it's almost overwhelming. Just pick a post and read. Something might pop out at you that makes you think of something, that makes you think of something else, and then, you'll feel better.

    I went to your page and it says
    Bladder
    Cervical
    Stomach
    Uterine

    and that you've had a recurrence. Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat????? That's just about overwhelming indeed. No wonder you didn't get on sooner.

    Love and hope to you and yours,

    Claudia

    Elly
    Mom Had a little tiny bit Dr. almost missed it on her Diaphram And some on her bladder.Dr Got it all.Her Washings were positive.No Recurrence.She needs to re wright her about her self!But now she is spotting a tiny bit of brown.Should we worry?? She has a Dr. Appointment tomorrow.
  • Cynthia Rose
    Cynthia Rose Member Posts: 35

    Elly
    Mom Had a little tiny bit Dr. almost missed it on her Diaphram And some on her bladder.Dr Got it all.Her Washings were positive.No Recurrence.She needs to re wright her about her self!But now she is spotting a tiny bit of brown.Should we worry?? She has a Dr. Appointment tomorrow.

    I will update my diagnosis
    I will update my diagnosis after my cat scan......just to be sure. :)
  • Elly P.
    Elly P. Member Posts: 4

    I will update my diagnosis
    I will update my diagnosis after my cat scan......just to be sure. :)

    July 19, 2011 - 5:52am
    I

    July 19, 2011 - 5:52am
    I will update my diagnosis after my cat scan......just to be sure. :)
    Elly
  • Cynthia Rose
    Cynthia Rose Member Posts: 35
    Elly P. said:

    July 19, 2011 - 5:52am
    I

    July 19, 2011 - 5:52am
    I will update my diagnosis after my cat scan......just to be sure. :)
    Elly

    Spotting
    Mom went to the Gyn Dr. and had a exam for her Spotting.He said he didnt feel any thing and thought it was from the Chemo and thinning of the Mucous Membrane.Sorry about my Spelling!Does this sound familliar with you gals?
  • california_artist
    california_artist Member Posts: 816 Member
    Elly
    You've mentioned that the doc didn't feel anything. Generally, it's what they see when they look into the vaginal canal that gives them an idea if the cancer has returned there. it could be a tiny abnormal spot that they are seeing. My ob uses an exceedingly bright light to look at the cuff, at least I certainly hope that's what he's looking at.

    Claudia
  • Cynthia Rose
    Cynthia Rose Member Posts: 35

    Elly
    You've mentioned that the doc didn't feel anything. Generally, it's what they see when they look into the vaginal canal that gives them an idea if the cancer has returned there. it could be a tiny abnormal spot that they are seeing. My ob uses an exceedingly bright light to look at the cuff, at least I certainly hope that's what he's looking at.

    Claudia

    Elly
    Yes he did do that to! I just rememberd!!
  • Elly P.
    Elly P. Member Posts: 4

    Elly
    You've mentioned that the doc didn't feel anything. Generally, it's what they see when they look into the vaginal canal that gives them an idea if the cancer has returned there. it could be a tiny abnormal spot that they are seeing. My ob uses an exceedingly bright light to look at the cuff, at least I certainly hope that's what he's looking at.

    Claudia

    constipated
    The doc also checked the anal canal and said I was constipated. When my oncologist asked me if I were I said no. That was within 7 days. Now I'm taking stool softner twice a day and it feels soooooooo much better! I can hardly wait until my 6 months are up and find out what my CA125 level is at. Thank you ladies for being there.
  • Fayard
    Fayard Member Posts: 438 Member
    Elly P. said:

    constipated
    The doc also checked the anal canal and said I was constipated. When my oncologist asked me if I were I said no. That was within 7 days. Now I'm taking stool softner twice a day and it feels soooooooo much better! I can hardly wait until my 6 months are up and find out what my CA125 level is at. Thank you ladies for being there.

    Glad to hear good news!
    Eat a lot of fiber and drink a lot, a lot of water.
    That will help gig time with constipation, along with the stool softener.

    Hugs!