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Karen82
Karen82 Member Posts: 41
My mom is now gone and lost her battle with this horrible cancer. She went very peacefully and was not suffering or gasping for air while dieing. If I had it to do all over again, I would do it in a heartbeat. Even though it only took a few minutes for her to go home, I could not bring myself to pull that vent off of my mom. My older cousin had to do it for me and she volunteered. My mom has a huge family. She touched alot of lives and will be dearly missed by many, many people. From some of the posts I read about Nancy, my mom was jsut as strong and wanted to still fight to the bitter end as Nancy. I don't know if I can ever be as strong as these two wonderful ladies. May both of them rest in peace and be remembered as they were before this awful cancer took over. Mom, I will always love you and you will be sadly missed but never forgotten. Thanks all for the support you given me.
Mum2bellaandwilliam, I am thinking about you and your family. Hopefully they can find something that can work so you do not have to go through this for a long time. I wish all of you the best.

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  • mopar
    mopar Member Posts: 1,972 Member
    DEAR KAREN
    I am so sorry that you have lost your wonderful Mom. I truly know what this feels like, as I'm sure many on this board do. There's never an easy way, a right way. But to know that your Mom went peacefully, in no pain, is so wonderful, as did my mother.

    Now, may the Lord heal your broken heart, and help you to find peace again. The day will come when you will reflect on all the fond memories, instead of the hurt. Since your Mom was so instrumental in everyone's lives, you will obviously have many, many memories.

    (((HUGS)))
    Monika
  • birdwellv
    birdwellv Member Posts: 13
    mom
    Karen am sorry to hear about your mother. I know at this time you feel overwhelm. I lost my father 3 years ago and it gets easier every day. I try to do everything I can with my mom and try to remember the great times and love we had with him.

    It is always hard to lose a love one and just remember God has a new plan for your mother.

    Take care.

    Vicki
  • Mwee
    Mwee Member Posts: 1,338
    Dear Karen
    I'm so sorry for your family's loss. I'm sure that it is a comfort that she went peacefully. I'm glad to hear that you have a large supportive family to help you. We're here for you also.
    ((((HUGS)))) Maria
  • poopergirl14052
    poopergirl14052 Member Posts: 1,183 Member
    I am so sorry
    To hear of your moms passing.You are very strong just like your mom. We are here for you if you need us. God bless....
  • Cafewoman53
    Cafewoman53 Member Posts: 735 Member
    Sorry for your loss
    You have suffered a terrible loss but I believe she will always be with you in your heart. Grief will be with you now but don't forget to celebrate the woman she was and is because she is a part of you,I am thinking of you and wishing you well.
    Colleen
  • carolenk
    carolenk Member Posts: 907 Member

    Sorry for your loss
    You have suffered a terrible loss but I believe she will always be with you in your heart. Grief will be with you now but don't forget to celebrate the woman she was and is because she is a part of you,I am thinking of you and wishing you well.
    Colleen

    Thank you for sharing your
    Thank you for sharing your mom's story with us. It comforts me to hear that your mom's passing was peaceful. My heart goes out to you & your family.

    (((hugs)))

    Carolen
  • Mum2bellaandwilliam
    Mum2bellaandwilliam Member Posts: 412
    carolenk said:

    Thank you for sharing your
    Thank you for sharing your mom's story with us. It comforts me to hear that your mom's passing was peaceful. My heart goes out to you & your family.

    (((hugs)))

    Carolen

    I am deeply saddened to read
    I am deeply saddened to read your post, may you courageous mum RIP.
    Take comfort from the fact she was in no pain , and she has left a fantastic legacy , you her daughter.
    Please look after yourself in the weeks to come , take care.

    xxx Liz xxx
  • eward
    eward Member Posts: 210
    sorry
    I am so sorry to hear this, Karen. Please accept my most sincere condolences.
  • kikz
    kikz Member Posts: 1,345 Member
    eward said:

    sorry
    I am so sorry to hear this, Karen. Please accept my most sincere condolences.

    I am so sorry for your loss
    Karen. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

    Karen
  • Karen82
    Karen82 Member Posts: 41
    Thanks
    Thanks. I am just glad how she took the dx and how much she fought up to the end. I am very glad she went the way she did. Thanks everyone. I wish everyone the best on here the best.
  • kayandok
    kayandok Member Posts: 1,202 Member
    Dear Karen,
    I am so sorry for your loss! It is a comfort to hear that she went so peacefully. May you find peace and comfort in your family's love for your sweet mom.
    warm hugs,
    kathleen