An update on my Father

Well, Thursday May 5th, my father had surgery on his neck. After his surgery we were told that he may be able to leave on Tuesday May 10th. However, after the meds. wore off from surgery, he was pretty lethargic to say the least. He had 3 drainage tubes coming from his neck, and being that he had his jugular vein removed with alot of tissue and muscle, we were told that Tuesday the 10th was an expected date. Well, we came home yesterday at 2:30PM. The drainage tubes almost completly dried up, he has a little pain, but nothing a little oxycodone cant manage. He currently cannot swallow anything more that the consistancy of tomato soup and jello, but he is comfortably home and walking around outside wanting to do soo much but just can't. i have been up there all day today mowing his yard and helping him with things that he always does himself. We do not know at this time where the next road will take us, ut I am glad that this rough road has passed. The radiation and chemo road is next, and I hope that it is promising.

Jason

Comments

  • D Lewis
    D Lewis Member Posts: 1,581 Member
    Stay strong!
    The road ahead is do-able. Your father can get through this, with you by his side.

    Sending healing thoughts his way.

    Deb
  • Jason1111
    Jason1111 Member Posts: 64
    D Lewis said:

    Stay strong!
    The road ahead is do-able. Your father can get through this, with you by his side.

    Sending healing thoughts his way.

    Deb

    Thanks Deb! Been trying to
    Thanks Deb! Been trying to get his immune system boosted for the road to follow. Fruits, veggies, glucerna and Juven. We have lots so I hope it helps.

    Thanks again
    Jason
  • MarineE5
    MarineE5 Member Posts: 1,030 Member
    He is doing very good at this stage.
    Jason,

    Your Dad is actually doing very good for what he has been through so far. I am glad to hear that he is up and around and going outside, a huge plus. I hope to hear that he takes some walks around the area with you at his side.

    Right now, he will go through the healing stage for a period of time. He shouldn't receive any radiation until his incisions heal up, roughly 6 weeks. He is unable to eat much at the moment because of the Surgery. The inside of his throat is swollen and the passageway is narrow, making swallowing a bit more difficult. As the swelling goes down, he will be able to eat larger bites/ amounts. I too had 3 drain tubes after my Radical Neck Disection and it was roughly 2 weeks before the staples were removed along with the drains.

    He may be getting fitted for the Mask in roughly 2-3 weeks and there will be a scan done to allow the Phyicist and Radiation Oncologist to plan the angles of the Radiation beams to attack the area were the cancer was located.

    My Best to Both of You and Everyone Here
  • Hondo
    Hondo Member Posts: 6,636 Member
    MarineE5 said:

    He is doing very good at this stage.
    Jason,

    Your Dad is actually doing very good for what he has been through so far. I am glad to hear that he is up and around and going outside, a huge plus. I hope to hear that he takes some walks around the area with you at his side.

    Right now, he will go through the healing stage for a period of time. He shouldn't receive any radiation until his incisions heal up, roughly 6 weeks. He is unable to eat much at the moment because of the Surgery. The inside of his throat is swollen and the passageway is narrow, making swallowing a bit more difficult. As the swelling goes down, he will be able to eat larger bites/ amounts. I too had 3 drain tubes after my Radical Neck Disection and it was roughly 2 weeks before the staples were removed along with the drains.

    He may be getting fitted for the Mask in roughly 2-3 weeks and there will be a scan done to allow the Phyicist and Radiation Oncologist to plan the angles of the Radiation beams to attack the area were the cancer was located.

    My Best to Both of You and Everyone Here

    Good news

    Glad to hear your Dad is doing so well after the Surgery, like you said one big step down and getting ready for the next. Just be there for him when ne needs you the most and that will be when he starts treatment.

    All the best to you both
    Hondo
  • Skiffin16
    Skiffin16 Member Posts: 8,305 Member
    Cool Deal
    Glad you guys got that down and out of the way...

    You both will handle the upcoming well also. It's just a process in the large picture of getting completely through this.

    Thoughts & Prayers,
    John
  • Pumakitty
    Pumakitty Member Posts: 652
    Glad he is home
    I am glad the surgery went okay and he is doing so well. Remember we are here for you as you start you next step in the journey.

    Kathy
  • arndog64
    arndog64 Member Posts: 537
    Pumakitty said:

    Glad he is home
    I am glad the surgery went okay and he is doing so well. Remember we are here for you as you start you next step in the journey.

    Kathy

    Nice to hear that your dad
    Nice to hear that your dad is in good hands.. He will need you.. Take care!!
  • Jason1111
    Jason1111 Member Posts: 64
    arndog64 said:

    Nice to hear that your dad
    Nice to hear that your dad is in good hands.. He will need you.. Take care!!

    Thanks for the thoughts and
    Thanks for the thoughts and prayers everyone. It really is helpful in ways you can only imagine!!!!
  • Jason1111
    Jason1111 Member Posts: 64
    12 Days post surgery and.............
    My father is doing pretty well. After he got home from the surgery he couldnt eat anything past the consistency of tomatoe soup or pudding. He has been advancing ever since. I have kept him filled up on Glucerna and Juven to keep the required nutrients in his body that has been lacking. He weighed 203 the day of surgery and 3 days after surgery he weighed 185. Tonight when I weighed him he weighed 190 so he is putting some weight back on which is good. I have been trying to keep him stocked up on Glucerna and Juven so his immune system gets built up in order to take the radiation and chemo with minimizing effects. I know it will probably affect him greatly, but every little thing in my opinion helps. All of the research that I have done points to the best health possible and that is what I am trying to do.
    He still stays active, still can't keep him inside to rest. I have insisted on mowing and weed eating his lawn for him, along with tending to his massive garden. He is not the type of person that wants anyone to do anything for him, no matter what his problems. He is always the one helping everyone else.
    A life changing event for anyone, no matter how massive or miniscule, makes a person change their outlook on life and their priorities. That, my friends, is what has unexpectedly happened to me and I am going to cherish every moment I have with my one and only father.
    I will keep you updated as to how his future treatments go.

    Jason
  • Skiffin16
    Skiffin16 Member Posts: 8,305 Member
    Jason1111 said:

    12 Days post surgery and.............
    My father is doing pretty well. After he got home from the surgery he couldnt eat anything past the consistency of tomatoe soup or pudding. He has been advancing ever since. I have kept him filled up on Glucerna and Juven to keep the required nutrients in his body that has been lacking. He weighed 203 the day of surgery and 3 days after surgery he weighed 185. Tonight when I weighed him he weighed 190 so he is putting some weight back on which is good. I have been trying to keep him stocked up on Glucerna and Juven so his immune system gets built up in order to take the radiation and chemo with minimizing effects. I know it will probably affect him greatly, but every little thing in my opinion helps. All of the research that I have done points to the best health possible and that is what I am trying to do.
    He still stays active, still can't keep him inside to rest. I have insisted on mowing and weed eating his lawn for him, along with tending to his massive garden. He is not the type of person that wants anyone to do anything for him, no matter what his problems. He is always the one helping everyone else.
    A life changing event for anyone, no matter how massive or miniscule, makes a person change their outlook on life and their priorities. That, my friends, is what has unexpectedly happened to me and I am going to cherish every moment I have with my one and only father.
    I will keep you updated as to how his future treatments go.

    Jason

    Great News
    I was one that still maintained my lawn, weed eating, trimming and blowing also....other than a few weeks when I was too tired and worn down.

    His body will let him know when he doesn't have enough enrgy to do it himself...

    Best,
    John