I am telling on my sister!

kikiz
kikiz Member Posts: 94
edited May 2011 in Ovarian Cancer #1
I have been NED for 21 months now. My younger sister was just told she has a growth on her Uterus and will need a hysterectomy and a biopsy. We are adopted so there are no Genetics between us and we have no medical history. ( our records are sealed in the state of California)

I am writing this to let you know that little sisters are not allowed to follow big sisters anymore. I refuse to allow my sister to do like she did when we were kids and I had to take her everywhere with me.

She is also not allowed to have what I have. She is a big girl now and I will not let her have Cancer. I had it first and she does not get to have it.

She is also not allowed to take the attention away from me. I want all the attention from people. Ever since she was little, she was always, prettier, smarter and kinder than I am.

This time, I am not going to whine to my mom about my sister following me, and trying to copy me. This time I am going to take it straight to God and let him know that it is not fair that she always gets what I get and always trys to copy me. I know he will put a stop to it.

I am asking all of you to tell on my sister too. Let God know that she is trying to be a copy cat and it is not fair to me.

Lori

Comments

  • kellyh33
    kellyh33 Member Posts: 287
    Copy Cat
    Little sisters always want to copy their big sisters. She is not allowed to in this case. I sent my message right to God for you to put a stop to this immediately!
    She will be okay because we have demanded it.
    <3
    Kelly
  • Mwee
    Mwee Member Posts: 1,338
    Oh, Lori
    no, no... this is not a time for her to follow her big sister. Please let us know how her surgery goes.
    (((HUGS))) Maria
  • kikiz
    kikiz Member Posts: 94
    Mwee said:

    Oh, Lori
    no, no... this is not a time for her to follow her big sister. Please let us know how her surgery goes.
    (((HUGS))) Maria

    Thank you Maria and Kelly.
    Thank you Maria and Kelly. There was a problem with her insurance co-pay and the Oncologists office originally told her they would not see her until she could meet her co-pay.She did not have 400 dollars lying around. Her Doctors set them straight so we will find out Monday when they are scheduling the surgery. Thanks again for your prayers for the Copy Cat.
  • mopar
    mopar Member Posts: 1,972 Member
    DEAR LORI
    I hear ya'. And I agree! No copy-cat antics acceptable! Now, I'm the younger of two sisters. Funny things is, my sister just developed leukemia. And she was always the one that wanted to be like me! So, the tables are turned. And I should tell her the same thing - YOU AREN'T ALLOWED TO HAVE WHAT I HAD (CANCER)! GIVE IT BACK!

    All kidding aside, sending hugs and prayers, Lori. Please keep us informed.

    Monika
  • Lisa13Q
    Lisa13Q Member Posts: 677
    Tell your sister that she is not allowed in this clubhouse
    you know I hate being followed around by little sisters who want to be in the club...Tell her this clubhouse is locked and she can only get in if she knows the secret password...and the completely confidential knock....also, she needs to be interviewed by Fang Fish and I don't like much of anyone these days...so she better report benign uterus....or maybe she's pregnant and doesn't know it....???
  • poopergirl14052
    poopergirl14052 Member Posts: 1,183 Member
    Lisa13Q said:

    Tell your sister that she is not allowed in this clubhouse
    you know I hate being followed around by little sisters who want to be in the club...Tell her this clubhouse is locked and she can only get in if she knows the secret password...and the completely confidential knock....also, she needs to be interviewed by Fang Fish and I don't like much of anyone these days...so she better report benign uterus....or maybe she's pregnant and doesn't know it....???

    tell sis to copy your hair or clothes or men
    but not your illness. That is an order....val
  • kikiz
    kikiz Member Posts: 94

    tell sis to copy your hair or clothes or men
    but not your illness. That is an order....val

    She is not prenant but I
    She is not prenant but I will let her know about Fang Fish. Thank you all for your comments. I know she will be fine. Her oldest is the same age as my oldest (22) and her youngest is the same age as my twins (16). Now you see what I mean about a Copy Cat. I told her all the Teal Warriors are not allowing her to have a color to get into any club.

    Love and Prayers

    Lori
  • VickiReed
    VickiReed Member Posts: 66
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    Praying for your sister!!