CSN Login
Members Online: 3

You are here

Sad news to report about Donna ~UPDATE 8-1-10~

just4Brooks's picture
Posts: 988
Joined: Jun 2009

I’m personally taking a big jump in reporting this news. But Donna said it was up to me if I felt if it was the time to tell you guys on the board. I was kind of hopping she would get home soon to give you the update herself but I feel at this time she needs everybody sending good thought, prayers, or whatever you want to call it SHE NEEDS IT. Donna’s daughter Chey reported to me that the cancer has now spread to her mom’s brain and the doctors told her that there is no longer anything they can do for her. I’m crying as I write this because I feel very close to Donna and her daughter Chey. They both hold a special place in my heart and they will continue to hold that spot forever. I hope that someday I can be half the person that Donna is. She has faced this head on and never flinched. Her daughter Chey is way beyond the 13 years she has been on this earth. She has what I would call a old soul and is a pleasure to talk to. This is a trait that she must have got from Donna. Donna has done a great job in raising her family while fighting this monster. I LOVE you Donna!!!


UPDATE>>> I talked to Donna on the phone today and she says thank you for all the support you guys have given her and for all of us to stay strong. She would love to post something but right now it’s very hard for her to get her thoughts together because of the cancer. I told her that we all love her very much and that she has touched the lives of many of us, including me. Hospice will be out sometime this week and I told her that she’s welcome to call me 24/7 for any reason. If anyone wants to send her a card please send to my address (PM me for address) and I’ll forward it to her or if you already have her address just sent it to her directly. I don’t feel comfortable giving anyone's address out. I hope you all understand. This so very hard for me to deal with too but we need to stay strong for Donna and that includes me :o(

I’m a better person because I have known Donna!!


just4Brooks's picture
Posts: 988
Joined: Jun 2009


Lovekitties's picture
Posts: 3366
Joined: Jan 2010

Donna and her family certainly have all my prayers during this terrible trial. I hope that the docs are able to keep Donna pain free.

Thank you Brooks for sharing this update.

If only our tears could bring a cure.


Buzzard's picture
Posts: 3073
Joined: Aug 2008


just4Brooks's picture
Posts: 988
Joined: Jun 2009

Me too Buzz.... It pains me so much. :o(

CanadaSue's picture
Posts: 340
Joined: Apr 2006


Please know that my thoughts and prayers, great vibes and everything in between are headed your way!




Kathryn_in_MN's picture
Posts: 1258
Joined: Sep 2009

Just when I think I'm strong and not much can make me cry, I read this. There is no way not to cry when hearing bad news for Donna.

Donna has always been out there LIVING and keeping such a positive strong attitude, and taking care of her family, all while dealing with the effects of treatments. She has always been full of support for all of us. It is so hard to hear this news. I want to stomp my feet and jump up and down and throw a temper tantrum! It just isn't fair!

I HATE CANCER! I hate what it does to people like Donna, and families - families that have to face losing an important member WAY too soon.

Donna and her whole family are in my prayers. They have been all along, but I will ask for strength for all of them to get through whatever the future brings together.

pluckey's picture
Posts: 484
Joined: Jul 2009

I spoke to Donna once on the phone when she was researching Thera Spheres. She was as loveley "in person" as she is on this board. Damn it, I f##*&n HATE this cancer.

what a horrible run on this board.

Donna, my heart and prayers are with you and your family.

Brooks, hugs to you too

My hart is just aching tonight.


Patteee's picture
Posts: 950
Joined: Jul 2009

oh Donna.
I along with everyone am just crushed. Love you- if there is anything I or any one of us can do, please let us know. Your kids, your husband, your family, friends- they are all in my prayers. Of course you are too- I pray for peaceful times ahead for all of you.

Posts: 168
Joined: Oct 2009

I hate this disease so much. I'm absolutely sick about this. Donna gave me such a warm and sweet welcome when I joined this board last fall - her love of life and enthusiasm (especially for her theater and performing!) are so apparent. She was the first person who demonstrated to me that life doesn't end at a cancer diagnosis.

My prayers and thoughts are going out to Donna and her family tonight. Please keep us posted as you find out more, Brooks.

geotina's picture
Posts: 2123
Joined: Oct 2009

Like Buzz and the others, I am speechless and just can't believe it.

Love ya Donna - Tina and George

tootsie1's picture
Posts: 5065
Joined: Feb 2008

Oh, God. That's all. Oh, God. Can't say anymore right now.


P.S. I'm singing a solo in church tomorrow, "I Want Jesus to Walk With Me." The last time I sang it a friend had just been put in hospice. Tomorrow my thoughts will all be with Donna.

PamPam2's picture
Posts: 376
Joined: Jan 2009

I am so sad to hear this news. I am hoping the doctors might find some treatment to deal with it and am holding my breath for this. I am only about an hour away from OU hospital if that is where you are Donna.

lizzydavis's picture
Posts: 893
Joined: May 2009

Donna, strong prayers are being said for you over and over. We love you. We want you to remember that you are very special to us. We are thinking of you and please think of us too.


karguy's picture
Posts: 1024
Joined: Apr 2009

I am sorry to hear this bad news,I will be praying for her,and her family.I HATE CANCER SO MUCH.

idlehunters's picture
Posts: 1792
Joined: Apr 2009

Why not????? I don't get it..... why the heck can't SOMETHING be done????? Donna ...and all the others...fight and fight and fight..for years... and then thats it??? sorry??? wtf??? I am so majorily bummed about this ... and all the crap!


Nana b's picture
Nana b
Posts: 3045
Joined: May 2009

Oh God! Donna came on this board right after I did....she was so scared and reaching out for us, and I was new too and she spoke of her fears fears that I had inside also, mainly of th unknown. Buzz jumped in to toss her the rope and she caught it and climbed to the top with the other survivors on this board. I pray for a miracle, show her a sign lord that you are there for her! Please!

Annabelle41415's picture
Posts: 6694
Joined: Feb 2009

Just can't express how much this has hit me. This month has been so hard and now another one that is affected so much. My heart is just aching and my tears are just coming from all that we have lost this month. Just don't have the words to say for how I'm feeling as there really isn't any. No one that has had this disease can ever be feeling the same feelings we do. May God Bless Donna and her family as she battles with this. My heart is so heavy on this news and I'm just devastated by all this recent news and with Donna. My prayers always go out to this board every day. May the Lord be with her and family.

Love you Donna, Kim

christinecarl's picture
Posts: 545
Joined: Sep 2009

Oh no, this is beyond bad. My heart goes out to her friends and family. When is this going to stop? :(

I don't know what to even think anymore

sfmarie's picture
Posts: 605
Joined: Aug 2009

I too do not understand why there is nothing that can be done. It is rare, from what I have been told, for colon cancer to spread to the brain.
Donna, you have always been nothing but kind and supportive to me during my journey with my sister. I pray that you find some peace and comfort.
Blessings to you and your family.

Posts: 3692
Joined: Oct 2009

Please know my thoughts are with you. We all love you so much.

Posts: 175
Joined: Nov 2009

This is hard news to hear. Donna was one of the first to welcome me here last year when I was dx. She is such a bright light of hope and strength for me. I pray that she gets through this. We all love you Donna. Please God grant her healing.

pf78248's picture
Posts: 209
Joined: Jul 2008

Donna Dear,

You are so loved on this board. What an inspiration you have been from your very first post! So positive and enthusiastic and how you showed so much love for your kids and husband. I wish you peace and no more pain and I am boldly and without hesitation asking God for a miracle for you and everyone else on this board who needs one. You are one of the best and are truly loved!

Brooks, thanks for updating. This is terrible news. I HATE, HATE, HATE CANCER, TOO


Aud's picture
Posts: 480
Joined: Oct 2009

thank you for telling us. This is terrible. Donna is in my prayers and thoughts as she has been.

Aud's picture
Posts: 480
Joined: Oct 2009

I am so sorry that you're going through this. Know that we all care about you and love you. You were one of the first people who welcomed me on this board and you're such a joy and inspiration on this board. I, too, HATE cancer!!
Holding you in the Light, Donna, for healing and hope.

Posts: 827
Joined: Jan 2010

I too wish to express my feelings but I just don't know the right words to say.

Donna, you are a brave, beautiful person. I have always felt your kindness coming through cyberspace and it has always been a joy to read your posts.I am so sad to hear the news that your cancer has spread. Please know that you have touched many people, on this board and elsewhere, and you have a multitude of folks sending prayers, hope, good vibes, and many sparks your way. You are a much loved woman and always remember that.


chicoturner's picture
Posts: 285
Joined: Apr 2009

Brooks, thank you for sharing this news. It is not an easy thing to do. Donna, you and your family are in my prayers even as I write this tonite. I Pray for peace for all of you. Jean

Lilmiss82's picture
Posts: 257
Joined: Dec 2009

I dont know what to say, your smiling face always brings happiness to my heart. You have given many of us such positive support. I will pray for you and your family.

lisa42's picture
Posts: 3661
Joined: Jul 2008

Oh, dear God, no! I'm crying as I write this.

I do know that colon cancer metastasizing to the brain is rare, but I do know of someone who recently also has had a brain met from colorectal cancer and recently underwent cyberknife for it. Wondering if that can be proposed to Donna's doctors- gammaknife has been the norm, but now cyberknife is replacing radiation to the brain over gammaknife in many places.
Cheyenne or Donna- if you're reading this, please, please suggest that and ask the doctors about it. Hold tight, if you can. You are loved and cared for by many, many people.

I am praying.


Posts: 1956
Joined: Oct 2009

Among the first to respond to my plea for help when I found this site, Donna was one of you who helped me learn to live with a bag. How I wish I could blast this disease to smithereens,I feel so helpless.....steve

KathiM's picture
Posts: 8077
Joined: Aug 2005

But, I will say that one of my patient partners had mets to her brain, and it was removed, and she is still kickin' cancer's butt!!!!

I am sending up prayers, sweet soul, that the same will be for you!!!

Hugs, Kathi

daydreamer110761's picture
Posts: 497
Joined: Dec 2008

All I can think of is - Oh God, not her.....she has to be ok, and there has to be something they can do....that's all.

ktlcs's picture
Posts: 360
Joined: Jan 2010

It has only been 2 weeks since this monster took my husband and in those two weeks how may others have been lost? This just s--ks!

Donna you and your family are in my prayers


impactzone's picture
Posts: 542
Joined: Aug 2006

Crushed...again.....I HATE CANCER!

HollyID's picture
Posts: 951
Joined: Dec 2009

I am totally devastated. Cheyenne or Donna, please know that I'm sending prayers and good vibes your way. Love you all!!

Posts: 60
Joined: Aug 2003

this is so horrible. I dont post often but have been coming here for about 8 years. My mom died at age 46 to colon cancer. Hers too had spread to the brain. She also had it in her lungs, liver, ovaries and bones. They did surgery on her brain tumors and also radiation. This is just so sad. She is such a wonderful spirit. It saddens me deeply. It seems there would be something they could do.

MelanieT's picture
Posts: 188
Joined: Nov 2009

My heart is overwhelming sad !!! What an amazing person she is and I feel so lucky to know her!! My thoughts and prayers are with Donna and her family :(


Anonymous user (not verified)

This comment has been removed by the Moderator

Sundanceh's picture
Posts: 4408
Joined: Jun 2009

Now, hope escapes me....

For, I always thought it could never be Donna, my Chicky.

I'm devastated at this moment. She sounded so good on the phone when we talked on just the 14th, the day before I went into the hospital. Sounded just like her old self, full of life and laughter.

She and I share a special relationship as well - and have from the beginning. I've not talked with her daughters, but have with Wes - and enjoyed sending them some things for Christmas, was special to me.

I just find this so hard to take right now. Just does not seem real, but from reading the update from Brooks, it must be true. I got close to her, because she drew me in - but I know I'm better for knowing her than not. She is such an amazing spirit and everyone loves her so deeply.

I will continue to hold out hope that something can be done. Not giving up on her.

I love you, Chicky!

-Your Lion

Sonia32's picture
Posts: 1078
Joined: Mar 2009

...totally numb. But I agree with Jennie, Lisa and Kathi there must be something else they can do. Radiation, surgery, anything. Chey if you read this, I've sent an fb message to your sister, and I mean everything I say. Love you sis, your in my prayers, please don't give up no matter what the doctors say, you can't. :'-(

Posts: 1736
Joined: Jul 2007


I am at a lost for words, but my prayers are flying, Please God dont take your angel Donna now, to many people need her, I know I do. We have come along way together, please God hear our prayers.


Posts: 67
Joined: Dec 2009

This is what Donna would be telling each of us today. Don't give up. Yes, I have known several with brain mets from colon cancer. My husbands father died years ago from cc and had brain mets...but there has to be something that can be done - tried - all these years later! I hope Donna's doctor will have her some options for now, I know even radiation is very effective on tumors that have spread to the brain. Will not cure, but can slow the growth. I also know everything if any that can be done will depend on the location of the brain met. If it is in a location that controls speech, movement, sight, then maybe they cannot do radiation. I'm praying they give Donna some options to try - and we all know her well enough that she is asking them all these questions as well. Crying, sad, but also lifting Donna in prayer - hang in there dear - keep fighting - as you would encourage any and all of us to do.

abmb's picture
Posts: 311
Joined: Sep 2009

Donna is in my thoughts and Prayers. Today at Mass I said a special Prayer for all of you on this board. My Heart and Prayers go out to you, you are all very strong people. You have helped me out just listening to my posts and I am sure you have all helped a lot more people than you know. I will keep Donna and her family in my Prayers and all of you. God Bless you. Margaret

Paula G.'s picture
Paula G.
Posts: 596
Joined: Apr 2009

Just read this post. John told me about it just a minute ago. Damn it I just can't believe it! My heart is just full right now and I am crying too.
Donna, read Lisa42's post it maybe an option. I'm thinking of you and you are a champ in my book. Prayer's good thoughts and all that can go with it from JR and me too. Love you, Paula

Posts: 220
Joined: Feb 2009

coming to me right now. I just have no words. Totally shocked and devastated. I am sorry but not ready to give up you, Donna. Be strong cause this board needs you.

just4Brooks's picture
Posts: 988
Joined: Jun 2009

I tried to send you my address but it states "abmb does not accept private messages." You need to look into this on your side.


just4Brooks's picture
Posts: 988
Joined: Jun 2009

abmb does not accept private messages.

just email me at

abmb's picture
Posts: 311
Joined: Sep 2009

thanks for giving me your e-mail address. i fixed my end so that i will get messages. my e-mail will come up: omasgrandangels@yahoo.com

thoughts and Prayers are with Donna. I asked all at work to keep her in their Prayers. Margaret

herdizziness's picture
Posts: 3642
Joined: Apr 2010

I have no idea how to pm. Please pm me, so I can get your address to send Donna a card.
Many thanks.
Winter Marie

Nana b's picture
Nana b
Posts: 3045
Joined: May 2009

It's on the home page, your inbox.

Posts: 21
Joined: Mar 2009

Hi my name is Sonjia ,Sherri22 lil sis anyways could you please get me Donnas addresse so that my sister can mail her a card,Sherri thinkis alot of her and talks about her often. She would write this but her computer is acting up once again. Thanks Sonjia oh yeh my email is ssonjia@yahoo.com ps dont forget the extra S in my name


Subscribe to Comments for "Sad news to report about Donna ~UPDATE 8-1-10~"