Radiation bonus!

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tgf
tgf Member Posts: 950 Member
edited March 2014 in Breast Cancer #1
I just have to tell you how wonderful my entire oncology crew is. The oncologist is great ... his nurses who do the infusions are true angels ... the surgeon and his crew are terrific ... but yesterday after my radiation treatment ... they asked if I wanted a massage. It seems that every Wednesday they have someone there to give a massage to any patient who wants it.

I'd never had a massage in my life ... but yesterday my treatment lasted longer than normal (new tech ... or something) ... but by the time it was over I could hardly move my arms and let go of those 2 poles things I have to hang onto. So ... I said "YES!" to the massage and it was WONDERFUL.

I know it's terrible for us to have breast cancer ... but aren't you amazed at how wonderful people can be and how they treat us with so much care and concern and make us feel like we are their ONLY patient. It totally amazes me to see how they treat me like I am truly "special."

I just hope all of you are as lucky as I am when it comes to you medical team.

hugs.
teena

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  • dbs1673
    dbs1673 Member Posts: 203
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    nice!
    I, too am so thankful and amazed at the wonderful people we meet on this journey. I have a plaque on my desk at work that says..Because nice matters.... so true, isn't it! Good luck with the rest of the rads.

    dawn
  • Christmas Girl
    Christmas Girl Member Posts: 3,682 Member
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    Wow - a massage!
    An awesome "perk" from your rads team - good for you, teena! I bet you're actually looking forward to NEXT Wednesday!

    Don't mean to sound like a broken record, again, but... Finding the best medical care possible - when facing any sort of serious and complicated disease - is at least half the battle, always.

    So glad you're confident and happy with your own medical pros.

    Kind regards, Susan
  • fauxma
    fauxma Member Posts: 3,577 Member
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    Massages, how great is that.
    Massages, how great is that. What a wonderful thing to do. I love massages and during treatment that would have been fantastic. And they do this every Wednesday. I would have been in heaven. There has to be an upside to this and that is definitely one.
    Glad you have a great team. To me that was the most crucial part of my treatment, the people that surrounded me. Both medically and at home. I was blessed to have the best in both places. Hope your treatments go smoothly and well. Don't forget the lotions.
    Stef
  • Noel
    Noel Member Posts: 3,095 Member
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    How wonderful, a massage!
    How wonderful, a massage! Very nice! What are the 2 poles you hang onto? My right arm

    rested comfortably in a sling made for it. I had an excellent, loving, caring team of techs

    too! I was like some of the others here, I still stay in touch with them. They were just

    great and went above and beyond.
  • Akiss4me
    Akiss4me Member Posts: 2,188
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    I am sooooooooo jealous!!
    My husband calls me a massage queen (meant in a very good way!) because I would have one three times a day if I could. I am one of those people that just respond very well to touch therapy. I am so jealous of you!! I am going to bring this up with my radiation oncologist this afternoon when I go see him. Gheeesh....I'm just meeting him for the first time and I'm already asking him about a massage!! Wish I had a video cam to tape my hubby falling off his chair!! :) Pammy
  • rjjj
    rjjj Member Posts: 1,822 Member
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    Akiss4me said:

    I am sooooooooo jealous!!
    My husband calls me a massage queen (meant in a very good way!) because I would have one three times a day if I could. I am one of those people that just respond very well to touch therapy. I am so jealous of you!! I am going to bring this up with my radiation oncologist this afternoon when I go see him. Gheeesh....I'm just meeting him for the first time and I'm already asking him about a massage!! Wish I had a video cam to tape my hubby falling off his chair!! :) Pammy

    I treated myself
    After my last radiation treatment, I went and got a pedicure and massage! I didn't even feel guilty at the cost because i knew i deserved it and like the commercial says "i am worth it" lol!
    love and hugs, jackie
  • tgf
    tgf Member Posts: 950 Member
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    rjjj said:

    I treated myself
    After my last radiation treatment, I went and got a pedicure and massage! I didn't even feel guilty at the cost because i knew i deserved it and like the commercial says "i am worth it" lol!
    love and hugs, jackie

    Noel
    The two pole things are over my head. It's like I'm on my back in in a iron bed reaching behind behind/above my head for the rungs on the iron headboard thing. I guess I stupidly assumed we were all sort of in the same position for radiation ... but obviously not. I guess it all has to do with where the tumor was... and the direction they have to aim the machine. It's all so fascinating to me.

    All of us with our different diagnosis .. different treatments ... it's just amazing what medical science can do.

    hugs.
    teena
  • Noel
    Noel Member Posts: 3,095 Member
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    tgf said:

    Noel
    The two pole things are over my head. It's like I'm on my back in in a iron bed reaching behind behind/above my head for the rungs on the iron headboard thing. I guess I stupidly assumed we were all sort of in the same position for radiation ... but obviously not. I guess it all has to do with where the tumor was... and the direction they have to aim the machine. It's all so fascinating to me.

    All of us with our different diagnosis .. different treatments ... it's just amazing what medical science can do.

    hugs.
    teena

    Hi Teena! Yea, it is weird
    Hi Teena! Yea, it is weird how we all have rads so differently. I just assumed that we were all in the same position. But, I was wrong. I bet that is uncomfortable the way you have them. Good luck with your rads and your massages. :)

    Hugs, Noel
  • susie09
    susie09 Member Posts: 2,930
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    Noel said:

    Hi Teena! Yea, it is weird
    Hi Teena! Yea, it is weird how we all have rads so differently. I just assumed that we were all in the same position. But, I was wrong. I bet that is uncomfortable the way you have them. Good luck with your rads and your massages. :)

    Hugs, Noel

    A massage? Ok, I am
    A massage? Ok, I am demanding that now! Very nice!
  • rjjj
    rjjj Member Posts: 1,822 Member
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    tgf said:

    Noel
    The two pole things are over my head. It's like I'm on my back in in a iron bed reaching behind behind/above my head for the rungs on the iron headboard thing. I guess I stupidly assumed we were all sort of in the same position for radiation ... but obviously not. I guess it all has to do with where the tumor was... and the direction they have to aim the machine. It's all so fascinating to me.

    All of us with our different diagnosis .. different treatments ... it's just amazing what medical science can do.

    hugs.
    teena

    Noel
    I was also in that same position but my hands were in like stirrups. I know it is amazing how different everyones treatment is. hugs, jackie
  • Jeanne D
    Jeanne D Member Posts: 1,867
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    rjjj said:

    Noel
    I was also in that same position but my hands were in like stirrups. I know it is amazing how different everyones treatment is. hugs, jackie

    Your hands were in stirrups?
    Your hands were in stirrups? Wow, we do all have it different. My right arm was almost next to me, a little higher, in a very comfortable slinglike thingie too. It is amazing how different we all have the radiation treatments done. And, how are you doing Teena! Ok, I hope!

    And, Jackie..HOORAY again for your being done! You had a hard time with rads, but, you did it very bravely!

    Love, Jeanne
  • Akiss4me
    Akiss4me Member Posts: 2,188
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    Jeanne D said:

    Your hands were in stirrups?
    Your hands were in stirrups? Wow, we do all have it different. My right arm was almost next to me, a little higher, in a very comfortable slinglike thingie too. It is amazing how different we all have the radiation treatments done. And, how are you doing Teena! Ok, I hope!

    And, Jackie..HOORAY again for your being done! You had a hard time with rads, but, you did it very bravely!

    Love, Jeanne

    Jeanne....
    Me too. We had a few adjustments to make since it was my bad arm that had to go in the air, but we managed to get it pretty much right next to me in a very comfortable padded holder. This was just for the simulation today but I think it is doable for the duration.
    Also, he started me on meds for my neuropathy in that arm that he thinks will really help make it even more comfortable once they kick in. :) Pammy
  • susie09
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    Akiss4me said:

    Jeanne....
    Me too. We had a few adjustments to make since it was my bad arm that had to go in the air, but we managed to get it pretty much right next to me in a very comfortable padded holder. This was just for the simulation today but I think it is doable for the duration.
    Also, he started me on meds for my neuropathy in that arm that he thinks will really help make it even more comfortable once they kick in. :) Pammy

    Now I am going to demand a
    Now I am going to demand a massage too. Very nice Teena!
  • survivorbc09
    survivorbc09 Member Posts: 4,374 Member
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    susie09 said:

    Now I am going to demand a
    Now I am going to demand a massage too. Very nice Teena!

    A massage? That is not
    A massage? That is not fair. lol All I get is burnt! :(
  • Moopy23
    Moopy23 Member Posts: 1,751 Member
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    A massage? That is not
    A massage? That is not fair. lol All I get is burnt! :(

    Same Here, Survivorbc!
    Teena, a massage--how wonderful. Hope you take the offer every week now.

    It is surprising how different rads are for everyone. I didn't expect the considerable pain from my arm positioning. Also, I had gotten the impression that you are positioned, then techs leave the room and you get zapped off and on for about 15 minutes during which you can just lie there quietly.

    Wrong. The supervisor of the radiation therapists comes in first to make sure everything--that would be me-- is lined up. Then she OKs the zapping. She leaves,and the standard radiation therapists come back in after every zap. There are 3 of them, checking a couple of screens and the machine. I sure don't have time in between to try to relax or listen to music, even if it weren't wretched. Also no warm and friendly techs. The therapists are more polite and professional, impervious to my Southern charm, I guess. Another patient brought in homemade turtle brownies for them--maybe Betty Crocker or Duncan Hines can soften them up!

    The hyperthermia treatments are better. My arm is down and the treatment actually makes me sleepy. After the hyperthermia dpt guy and therapist set things up, he leaves and it's just me and the therapist. Then we talk, but mostly I sleep.

    It is good for everyone to know that rads are different, as far as positioning and staffing. It is not always a peaceful, easy feeling, though I am grateful that it can be and is for many of us.
  • fauxma
    fauxma Member Posts: 3,577 Member
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    Moopy23 said:

    Same Here, Survivorbc!
    Teena, a massage--how wonderful. Hope you take the offer every week now.

    It is surprising how different rads are for everyone. I didn't expect the considerable pain from my arm positioning. Also, I had gotten the impression that you are positioned, then techs leave the room and you get zapped off and on for about 15 minutes during which you can just lie there quietly.

    Wrong. The supervisor of the radiation therapists comes in first to make sure everything--that would be me-- is lined up. Then she OKs the zapping. She leaves,and the standard radiation therapists come back in after every zap. There are 3 of them, checking a couple of screens and the machine. I sure don't have time in between to try to relax or listen to music, even if it weren't wretched. Also no warm and friendly techs. The therapists are more polite and professional, impervious to my Southern charm, I guess. Another patient brought in homemade turtle brownies for them--maybe Betty Crocker or Duncan Hines can soften them up!

    The hyperthermia treatments are better. My arm is down and the treatment actually makes me sleepy. After the hyperthermia dpt guy and therapist set things up, he leaves and it's just me and the therapist. Then we talk, but mostly I sleep.

    It is good for everyone to know that rads are different, as far as positioning and staffing. It is not always a peaceful, easy feeling, though I am grateful that it can be and is for many of us.

    Moopy
    Yes, the facilities do

    Moopy
    Yes, the facilities do vary a lot. I suppose it depends on treatment methods, staff, and maybe even the size of the facility. Where I went for rads this time, the staff was great, very family-like, very comforting. I wasn't in a mold just on the table with my arm holding a bar behind me. It got a little stiff and once in awhile very stiff. The techs would tell me when they were done and would come right in and help me to move it down. I was always greeted with smiles and left with smiles. The doctor I saw was good, but very professional and a little aloof. The nurse was very helpful but not particularly friendly. The radiation was done at a smaller hospital and while busy it seemed a small facility. When I did pelvic radiation I was at a much bigger hospital in Sacramento. The doctor I saw was fantastic. Great bedside manner, very reassuring, took her time with me and saw me weekly. No nurse visits just her. The staff on the other hand, while polite and informative did not have the same demeanor as my breast techs. They would explain what was going on, but not much friendliness until I drew a shamrock on my tummy on St Patrick's Day. Then they cracked up. But I think they were more aloof because they were so busy. There would be 8 to 10 people waiting for rads each time I came compared to the 1 or 2 other that were at the breast facility. The pelvic radiation was so much more invasive and I had more burning in a very sensitive area. Internal rads are not fun. When I had those my doctor was good enough to arrange a light sedation that made them bearable. It's not that they hurt but emotionally I was freaking out about them. But all of it was doable. And in comparison they both worked fine. I do wish that each of them had offered massages. The best I got was puzzles to do while I waited for my turn.
    I am sorry that you are having pain and burning. I was hoping that it would be minimal but it will pass and then you will be done with this part of the journey. Next is working on the new norm and getting back to life. And I have a feeling that you and Aortus will be as successful with that as you have been dealing with all of this and it's ugly surprises. I have you in my thoughts and prayers.
    Stef
  • Moopy23
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    Steff
    Thanks, Steff, for your perspective and experiences and encouragement. The size of the facility does make a difference, I see.

    I am halfway through--as Cat pointed out to me--so that made me feel good. Looking forward to graduation from cancer treatments, with or without a diploma!
  • fauxma
    fauxma Member Posts: 3,577 Member
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    Moopy23 said:

    Steff
    Thanks, Steff, for your perspective and experiences and encouragement. The size of the facility does make a difference, I see.

    I am halfway through--as Cat pointed out to me--so that made me feel good. Looking forward to graduation from cancer treatments, with or without a diploma!

    Halfway is good. Finished
    Halfway is good. Finished will be better. Home will be best.
    Stef
  • Christmas Girl
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    Moopy23 said:

    Steff
    Thanks, Steff, for your perspective and experiences and encouragement. The size of the facility does make a difference, I see.

    I am halfway through--as Cat pointed out to me--so that made me feel good. Looking forward to graduation from cancer treatments, with or without a diploma!

    Moopy and your rads...
    For those of us already done with rads, your treatment is very different; so, thanks for sharing with us. I do wish that your rads team was more personable, dear Moopy.

    However, I'm glad to know that you're getting the best treatment available to you. And, am always hoping for the best.

    Kind regards, Susan
  • survivorbc09
    survivorbc09 Member Posts: 4,374 Member
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    Moopy and your rads...
    For those of us already done with rads, your treatment is very different; so, thanks for sharing with us. I do wish that your rads team was more personable, dear Moopy.

    However, I'm glad to know that you're getting the best treatment available to you. And, am always hoping for the best.

    Kind regards, Susan

    I am still waiting for my
    I am still waiting for my massage. lol :(