update on husband's cheating

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ohilly
ohilly Member Posts: 441
edited March 2014 in Breast Cancer #1
A few weeks ago I wrote a post about my husband's having cheated online while I was undergoing treatment, and received numerous responses. I want everyone to know that things are going better, and the counseling seems to be helping. You can never tell the future (don't we know that as breast cancer survivors) but I think things are going to work out for us to stay together.

Just wanted to let everyone know. Thanks for your prayers and support.

Ohilly

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  • tasha_111
    tasha_111 Member Posts: 2,072
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    Ohilly
    I am so pleased the outlook looks positive, My husband and I were having major problems and neither of us believed counceling would do any good...but we gave it a shot as a last resort...It helped tremendously! We are now thinking before we strangle each other LOL....Good luck Sis.
  • chenheart
    chenheart Member Posts: 5,159
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    So glad you posted!
    ohilly~

    As much as you unintentionally opened a line of discussion which sent some of us ( me included!) to the ends of the earth and back again about what WE would do~ the original post was indeed about YOU and your relationship with your husband of 27 years and the father of your childen. I am truly pleased that things are going well, and that counseling has been of benefit to you both. You are correct, none of us knows what the future may bring, but if it brings you together to a good emotional place, congratulations to you!

    Happy holdiays, ohilly...and an especially Happy New Year~ you richly deserve it!

    Hugs,
    Claudia
  • RE
    RE Member Posts: 4,591 Member
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    OHilly,

    I am pleased to hear things have improving a bit. I will continue to keep you in my prayers. I wish you and the best and hope this all comes to a positive conclusion.

    My best to you,

    RE
  • mmontero38
    mmontero38 Member Posts: 1,510
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    Ohilly, I am glad that
    Ohilly, I am glad that things seem to be working out for you. It's too many years to just give up. You'll always be in my prayers, Hugs, Lili
  • Joycelouise
    Joycelouise Member Posts: 482
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    I am not quite sure where it
    I am not quite sure where it lies, but I sense that there is something really beautiful in your experience, O'hilly. Something that has to do with a deep understanding of what it means to stand by your partner, for both partners. Something so deep that I would not be able to understand it till I have been there, but I can see and respect in you. You have my heartfelt best wishes for happiness in every area of your life. Love, Joyce
  • dorothyt
    dorothyt Member Posts: 103
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    Joycelouise said:

    I am not quite sure where it
    I am not quite sure where it lies, but I sense that there is something really beautiful in your experience, O'hilly. Something that has to do with a deep understanding of what it means to stand by your partner, for both partners. Something so deep that I would not be able to understand it till I have been there, but I can see and respect in you. You have my heartfelt best wishes for happiness in every area of your life. Love, Joyce

    I knew you would work it
    I knew you would work it out, This can only make you stronger.

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