brenda 3_16

amyb15
amyb15 Member Posts: 109 Member
edited March 2014 in Colorectal Cancer #1
Hi everyone
Have notposted in a long time. Brenda stated becomming jaundiced in November and December. She went to Sloan on 12/27 and had a stint placed in her liver to drain the fluid that is making her jaundice. Procedure went ok but she is still yellow and biliruben is still creeping up. It is around 25. She has a terrible pain near her grin (left side) and at this time she can not really walk. She has needed assistance getting to the bathroom and from the chair to the bed. She has an appt Wed. at Sloan and will be having a sacn at that time. She has no appetite but has gained about 12 pounds in water weight. Her feet and abdomenon were very swollen. She was put on a water pill which seems to have taken away the swelling of her feet but abdomonem is still very bloated. She rests mosts of the time, but has a hard time sleeping, Anyone that believes in the power of prayer please pray for Brenda and our whole family. Don't know what lies ahead; She is still doing chemo at this time.(Folfox) which is the one she was put on right after her diagnosis in 3/09. Xeloda seemed to work good for a long time after that. Then she was on to Folfori whihc did not seem to work. Now back on Fofox. Any ideas anyone?
I want to thank each and everyone of you for all your support. No one can quite understand unless you are going through it. Hugs to all of you.
Amy

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  • pepebcn
    pepebcn Member Posts: 6,331 Member
    Amy , my prayer of today will be for her!
    Keep hope and faith!
    Give her a big hug!
  • geotina
    geotina Member Posts: 2,111 Member
    Amy:
    I'm so sorry things are not going better. I was hoping the Folfox and help of Sloan and the stint would start to turn thins around for Brenda. Talk to the docs at Sloan or your local onc about some pain management for Brenda. Talk to the doc about draining the fluid in her abdomen to give her some relief. Several on the board and blogs I follow have had this done as it is not an uncommon thing.

    I'm so sorry your family is going through this. Brenda is far too young for this but hopefully her fighting spirit will help her turn things around.

    Take care and know you are being thought of and prayed for constantly.

    Hugs - Tina
  • msccolon
    msccolon Member Posts: 1,917 Member
    prayers for sure
    I pray that God be with you and Brenda in these days as she fights to return to health. I pray he wraps His arms around you and comforts you and gives the doctors who are treating Brenda the clarity and knowledge they need to do what's best for her. Definitely see about having her abdomen drained of the fluid, even if it builds backup, the relief is instant and multiple drainings can occur. Back in 2006 I was getting 4L of fluid drained off every week; what a tremendous relief that first drainage was!
    mary
  • idlehunters
    idlehunters Member Posts: 1,787 Member
    msccolon said:

    prayers for sure
    I pray that God be with you and Brenda in these days as she fights to return to health. I pray he wraps His arms around you and comforts you and gives the doctors who are treating Brenda the clarity and knowledge they need to do what's best for her. Definitely see about having her abdomen drained of the fluid, even if it builds backup, the relief is instant and multiple drainings can occur. Back in 2006 I was getting 4L of fluid drained off every week; what a tremendous relief that first drainage was!
    mary

    Hey Amy.....
    Sending prayers and good vibes your way. Tell Brenda we are all thinking about her and wishing her a speedy recovery. Take care

    Jennie
  • Crow71
    Crow71 Member Posts: 679 Member
    very worried . .
    . . . and sad for you and Brenda. This really breaks my heart. Hang in there.

    many sparks,
    roger
  • pete43lost_at_sea
    pete43lost_at_sea Member Posts: 3,900 Member
    my prayers as well, smile if you can
    dear amy, goodluck with brendas treatments. i have had a different treatment except we have folfox in common. besides prayers all i could offer as advice is a smile and be positive in a gentle way brenda and possibly be positively pushy in a polite way with your doctors.
    prayers for your family,
    Pete
  • Sonia32
    Sonia32 Member Posts: 1,071 Member
    Hugs to you both
    Sending prayers Brenda's way
  • AnneCan
    AnneCan Member Posts: 3,673 Member
    Amy
    Thank-you for the update. I have been thinking about Brenda a lot, wondering how she is. I am sorry it is so tough for her right now. I hope Brenda will soon find the right treatment which leads her back to better health.
  • Kathleen808
    Kathleen808 Member Posts: 2,342 Member
    Amy
    Amy,
    I am so sorry that Brenda is in such a difficult place right now. I know how hard it is on you and your family. I am holding all of you up in prayer. I pray things turn around.

    Aloha,
    kathleen
  • tootsie1
    tootsie1 Member Posts: 5,044 Member
    So sorry
    Hi, Amy.

    I'm so sorry that Brenda's been having such a terrible time. I know it has to be agonizing for you to see.

    I'm praying that she will soon feel some relief.

    *hugs*
    Gail
  • Lori-S
    Lori-S Member Posts: 1,277 Member
    Amy
    Sending prayers to you and Brenda. HUGS
  • sfmarie
    sfmarie Member Posts: 602
    Amy
    Praying for you and Brenda. I know what it is like to be in your shoes. I believe in prayers. I believe in miracles. Don't stop believing and know you are a blessing to Brenda.
    Marie
  • lisa42
    lisa42 Member Posts: 3,625 Member
    Thanks for writing Amy
    You can bet I am and will continue to pray for Brenda. We exchanged a few PM's lately & it breaks my heart to hear that the bilirubin continues to go up.
    Please keep us/me informed.

    Hugs to you and Brenda-
    Lisa