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  • Kathleen808
    Kathleen808 Member Posts: 2,342 Member
    Mags!!!
    Mags,
    Your beautiful and wonderful and NED!!!!!!!! Ah yes!!!!! I am smiling from ear to ear for you my friend!

    Aloha,
    Kathleen
  • ron50
    ron50 Member Posts: 1,723 Member
    maglets said:

    cabin
    I have this cottage on a island up north that looks over at Detour Michigan....I spend most winters dreaming of being there....and 3 summers there recovering from surgery and doing chemo. It is very primitive...no running water, no heat no washroomm....one year I was one chemo and the washroom was a sawhorse balanced over a pit in the ground with a tarp on top for rainy days....lordie...lots of trips to the pit

    soooo each year I wonder if I will see the cabin again and yes it seems I will.....

    mags

    (((((Mags))))))
    Just about started a tsunami sending poitive waves across the pacific. See there is a lot to be said for not stepping on the cracks. The secret to my long survival is refusing to make a will. I doubt if any of us does not have a secret ritual to ensure a good result. Hugs again ,enjoy that cabin sounds nice,Ron.
  • coloCan
    coloCan Member Posts: 1,944 Member

    Mags!!!
    Mags,
    Your beautiful and wonderful and NED!!!!!!!! Ah yes!!!!! I am smiling from ear to ear for you my friend!

    Aloha,
    Kathleen

    You've got every reason to be "enthusiastic",Mags, tho
    ecstatic mite be more appropriate.....Trek to yiour cabin and enjoy yourself from here on out....Another disease bites the dust....FU cancer..........steve
  • maglets
    maglets Member Posts: 2,576 Member
    coloCan said:

    You've got every reason to be "enthusiastic",Mags, tho
    ecstatic mite be more appropriate.....Trek to yiour cabin and enjoy yourself from here on out....Another disease bites the dust....FU cancer..........steve

    oh crap
    I would like to be gone right this instant but I have CEA's in June and then onc to look at those results in late June. Last year after chemo the car was literally packed to the brim for the cottage and we walked out of the hospital and into the car and DROVE away....

    later today I will post some more pics of my special place....it has an outhouse!!! now :)

    really fancy.....hahhaha

    thoughts for greybeard now........

    mags
  • dorookie
    dorookie Member Posts: 1,731 Member
    maglets said:

    CLEAR!!!!!!!
    that darling boy, that radiologist just phoned me and I am NED

    NED NEDDIE NEDDY

    mags...sorry a little enthusiasm

    AWESOME
    That is so wonderful to hear... I know you are so excited....I am so happy for you...

    *HUGS*
    Beth
  • RickMurtagh
    RickMurtagh Member Posts: 587 Member
    hmmm...
    All that fuss and worry for nothing. I am so glad you are NED! Congratulations!
  • Steve Z
    Steve Z Member Posts: 51
    maglets said:

    oh crap
    I would like to be gone right this instant but I have CEA's in June and then onc to look at those results in late June. Last year after chemo the car was literally packed to the brim for the cottage and we walked out of the hospital and into the car and DROVE away....

    later today I will post some more pics of my special place....it has an outhouse!!! now :)

    really fancy.....hahhaha

    thoughts for greybeard now........

    mags

    Thrilled for you
    Great news! Enjoy the cabin you deserve all the happiness you get this summer.
  • maglets
    maglets Member Posts: 2,576 Member

    hmmm...
    All that fuss and worry for nothing. I am so glad you are NED! Congratulations!

    hahah
    and what about you Mr. Rick? do you have a solution to those lowdownnogood fussings and worries????/ share!!!!!

    mags
  • RickMurtagh
    RickMurtagh Member Posts: 587 Member
    maglets said:

    hahah
    and what about you Mr. Rick? do you have a solution to those lowdownnogood fussings and worries????/ share!!!!!

    mags

    i recommend hugs
    i recommend hugs. That pretty much works for me. And visits with my grandson.
    Odd that this week I got less than encouraging results from my CT scan, my wife has gone on a road trip with her sisters and I saw my daughter, her husband and my grandson off at the airport their move to Colorado. So none of my usual remedies are available to me. When I find what else works, I'll let you know. Tonight I am thinking tequila or maybe some red wine, since that at least is supposed to be good for me. I am not generally a melancholy sort of fellow so I am not sure of the right remedy for extreme cases, but as I said - I intend to find several and will let you know what works. I hate drinking alone so perhaps a gastric feast - seafood I think, sea bass perhaps. Or maybe a nap, but I fear short term it helps, but long term it makes things worse.
  • maglets
    maglets Member Posts: 2,576 Member

    i recommend hugs
    i recommend hugs. That pretty much works for me. And visits with my grandson.
    Odd that this week I got less than encouraging results from my CT scan, my wife has gone on a road trip with her sisters and I saw my daughter, her husband and my grandson off at the airport their move to Colorado. So none of my usual remedies are available to me. When I find what else works, I'll let you know. Tonight I am thinking tequila or maybe some red wine, since that at least is supposed to be good for me. I am not generally a melancholy sort of fellow so I am not sure of the right remedy for extreme cases, but as I said - I intend to find several and will let you know what works. I hate drinking alone so perhaps a gastric feast - seafood I think, sea bass perhaps. Or maybe a nap, but I fear short term it helps, but long term it makes things worse.

    please forgive me
    Rick I am so sorry if I missed your post about your CT....

    I won't be so bold as to ask but I am so sorry if you have had bad news

    mags
  • RickMurtagh
    RickMurtagh Member Posts: 587 Member
    maglets said:

    please forgive me
    Rick I am so sorry if I missed your post about your CT....

    I won't be so bold as to ask but I am so sorry if you have had bad news

    mags

    today
    Mags, Not to worry, I just got the results today and have not seen my oncologist yet (he picked a fine time for a vacation). It is all probably nothing to worry about, but I will have to wait for his interpretation and probably more test results for something conclusive. I have projects to finish but no desire for them atm. So, I am thinking some good tequila and some jazz or classical music will pick up my spirits - maybe even a margarita or two. It has just been made apparent to me how much I have depended on my wife as a lifeline since finding out I had cancer.
  • maglets
    maglets Member Posts: 2,576 Member

    today
    Mags, Not to worry, I just got the results today and have not seen my oncologist yet (he picked a fine time for a vacation). It is all probably nothing to worry about, but I will have to wait for his interpretation and probably more test results for something conclusive. I have projects to finish but no desire for them atm. So, I am thinking some good tequila and some jazz or classical music will pick up my spirits - maybe even a margarita or two. It has just been made apparent to me how much I have depended on my wife as a lifeline since finding out I had cancer.

    yes
    yes Rick I understand that....I depend so much on my hubby...just to bounce worries and thoughts and emotions around with. It's crappy that DW and onc are away at same time.

    I also totally identify with the projects and lack of enthusiasm for....hard to focus , hard to concentrate. OK babes put on the Wolf
    gang or the Dizzy and do whatcha gotta do....better things ahead....you are just going to have to wait a moment....

    hugs....pm me if you want to talk

    mags
  • Jaylo969
    Jaylo969 Member Posts: 824 Member

    today
    Mags, Not to worry, I just got the results today and have not seen my oncologist yet (he picked a fine time for a vacation). It is all probably nothing to worry about, but I will have to wait for his interpretation and probably more test results for something conclusive. I have projects to finish but no desire for them atm. So, I am thinking some good tequila and some jazz or classical music will pick up my spirits - maybe even a margarita or two. It has just been made apparent to me how much I have depended on my wife as a lifeline since finding out I had cancer.

    Rick
    {{ Hugs}} from me too. I am not one to give advice seeing as I was in a dark hole myself only yesterday but I'd say put on some lively music ( not the melancholy crap )and one frozen Margarita sipped slowly.Come down here...my hubby is famous for his frozen peach Margaritas...Jose Cuervo, dash triple sec, dash Amaretto, peaches, nice fresh lime slice all in a salt rimmed glass.Just trying to make you smile.

    So sorry your onc had to go on vacation right now.Hope he has a sucky time ;)

    -Pat
  • RickMurtagh
    RickMurtagh Member Posts: 587 Member
    Jaylo969 said:

    Rick
    {{ Hugs}} from me too. I am not one to give advice seeing as I was in a dark hole myself only yesterday but I'd say put on some lively music ( not the melancholy crap )and one frozen Margarita sipped slowly.Come down here...my hubby is famous for his frozen peach Margaritas...Jose Cuervo, dash triple sec, dash Amaretto, peaches, nice fresh lime slice all in a salt rimmed glass.Just trying to make you smile.

    So sorry your onc had to go on vacation right now.Hope he has a sucky time ;)

    -Pat

    thanks
    drinking a nice margarita now - no fresh peaches, but i like the idea and have plenty of preserved ones which should taste yummy. And you know I have a lime too!
    I hope my onc has a great time - I want him clearheaded when he gets back.