my husband died and i miss him

josie_5 said:

alone
i know the feeling. my hub died on 22 apr. i am so alone. im going to go shopping tomorrow and look around. maybe that will help. pick up a hobby???? how bout u????? josie

trying to deal
I loss my hubby on May 14, 2009 and I can't walk into a grocery store without being on edge of tears. I start shopping and have to stop and remember it's just me now and I don't need 2 loaves of bread. I try to stay as busy as I can that helps.

ZOE60 said:

My husband died suddenly of a heart attack 10 days ago
My husband died May 11, 2009. It is hard to go around the house and remember the things you did together, or were thinking of finishing together. I am trying to keep myself a little numb right now, cause it aches so much to think of all the things we were planning. I am glad he didn't suffer, because it was so sudden and I have the comfort of knowing he is at home with God, but I am alone, without my best friend beside me to hold me every night. We were married 42 years and had ups and downs, but the last 2 years have been the best years of our life. I am glad we had this peace in our marriage, but wish we'd had so many more years together like the last 2. He was 62. I miss him terribly. I am so sorry for your loss, it's like losing half of you. I am stong too, but that absolutely doesn't heal the ache and loss. I kiss his picture good night each night and each morning and ask him and God to follow me thru my day.

I know the feeling
I lost my husband on May 14,2009. I understand what you mean about going around the house and remembering. We were together for 33 yrs and married for 27 yrs. He was only 52 when He passed. Try to stay busy it really helps.