VickiCO

Buzzard
Buzzard Member Posts: 3,043 Member
edited March 2014 in Colorectal Cancer #1
.....I guess its you in the batters box in the morning. It will all be fine soon...Its just the anticipation of everything but soon it will be another step in the final defeat of "Fred". You young lady are a trooper and you will see that the surgery will be more easily tolerated than anything else you have been through. I will talk with ya for most of the day as long as your on here. I understand you have a million things to do but not really. Just get in there and lets move on to the next step.....Its now when you will get a little break for healing time...enjoy it..Then its mop up then NED...........God Bless ya hun, we'll be done soon.... :-)
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  • Shayenne
    Shayenne Member Posts: 2,342
    Heal soon!
    Hope you're up and about soon, and heal fast. I know surgery is not an easy thing. I've never been afraid of being put under the anesthesia at all, it's waking up in the middle of it because they hadn't given me enough..haha..

    Hope you are well and come talk to us soon! let us know how things went! we're praying and pulling for you!

    Hugsss!
    ~Donna
  • VickiCO
    VickiCO Member Posts: 917
    Thanks Buddy!
    Yep, I have a million things to do...mostly to do with the magazines. But along about midnight last night, I had a revelation - I DON'T HAVE TO DO IT ALL! This is why God gave me those two wonderful employees...they can handle it. So today I am cleaning up a few loose ends, and getting my guest room ready for my best friend of 40 years to come and take care of me. We are going to have fun...OK, as much fun as I can after surgery! But she can sit by my bed and regale me with stories, and make me walk and eat and all the good things I'll have to do. But not laugh....I'll save that for after I heal. Oh, and she can dispense drugs on demand...that's a must!

    Thank you for always being there for me, and others. God is good to give me such wonderful, supportive friends.

    Vicki

    PS - Donna, OK, now I have to worry about waking up?? LOL! I am such a control freak that my family warned the doctor that I'll probably want to do the operation myself....
  • Shayenne
    Shayenne Member Posts: 2,342
    VickiCO said:

    Thanks Buddy!
    Yep, I have a million things to do...mostly to do with the magazines. But along about midnight last night, I had a revelation - I DON'T HAVE TO DO IT ALL! This is why God gave me those two wonderful employees...they can handle it. So today I am cleaning up a few loose ends, and getting my guest room ready for my best friend of 40 years to come and take care of me. We are going to have fun...OK, as much fun as I can after surgery! But she can sit by my bed and regale me with stories, and make me walk and eat and all the good things I'll have to do. But not laugh....I'll save that for after I heal. Oh, and she can dispense drugs on demand...that's a must!

    Thank you for always being there for me, and others. God is good to give me such wonderful, supportive friends.

    Vicki

    PS - Donna, OK, now I have to worry about waking up?? LOL! I am such a control freak that my family warned the doctor that I'll probably want to do the operation myself....

    Haha!
    It's just something I always feared! waking up in the middle of a surgery, and looking at all the surgeons around me, and just screaming because I could see on the TV's my whole body opened up.. worse nightmare! that's why I like ALOT of drugs before even being touched with anything haha...
  • keepnthefaith
    keepnthefaith Member Posts: 36
    VickiCO said:

    Thanks Buddy!
    Yep, I have a million things to do...mostly to do with the magazines. But along about midnight last night, I had a revelation - I DON'T HAVE TO DO IT ALL! This is why God gave me those two wonderful employees...they can handle it. So today I am cleaning up a few loose ends, and getting my guest room ready for my best friend of 40 years to come and take care of me. We are going to have fun...OK, as much fun as I can after surgery! But she can sit by my bed and regale me with stories, and make me walk and eat and all the good things I'll have to do. But not laugh....I'll save that for after I heal. Oh, and she can dispense drugs on demand...that's a must!

    Thank you for always being there for me, and others. God is good to give me such wonderful, supportive friends.

    Vicki

    PS - Donna, OK, now I have to worry about waking up?? LOL! I am such a control freak that my family warned the doctor that I'll probably want to do the operation myself....

    Best Friends
    How wonderful old friends are!!! My best friend of 37 years (not quite 40) came twice after my surgery to help my husband out. She was actually with us when we got the path report that said it wasn't Stage 1 but Stage 3 and cried with me. I know that your friend will be a great help/comfort to you. I will be thinking of you and praying for you today and tomorrow. I know that you will be fine - no waking up during surgery - and your recovery will be easy. My advice for today is to stay as busy as possible and realize it's okay to be a little stressed. After surgery take the time you need to recover.
    Hugs,
    Felicia
  • msccolon
    msccolon Member Posts: 1,917 Member
    VickiCO said:

    Thanks Buddy!
    Yep, I have a million things to do...mostly to do with the magazines. But along about midnight last night, I had a revelation - I DON'T HAVE TO DO IT ALL! This is why God gave me those two wonderful employees...they can handle it. So today I am cleaning up a few loose ends, and getting my guest room ready for my best friend of 40 years to come and take care of me. We are going to have fun...OK, as much fun as I can after surgery! But she can sit by my bed and regale me with stories, and make me walk and eat and all the good things I'll have to do. But not laugh....I'll save that for after I heal. Oh, and she can dispense drugs on demand...that's a must!

    Thank you for always being there for me, and others. God is good to give me such wonderful, supportive friends.

    Vicki

    PS - Donna, OK, now I have to worry about waking up?? LOL! I am such a control freak that my family warned the doctor that I'll probably want to do the operation myself....

    how awesome!
    The revelation AND your friend coming to care for you! That is certainly something to look forward to! And don't worry about the anesthesia, they have it down to such an art now they can bring you back up at just the right time. I always like meeting my anesthesiologist during the pre-op. I laughed at your comment about wanting to do the operation yourself! Take care and enjoy today.
    mary
  • VickiCO
    VickiCO Member Posts: 917
    msccolon said:

    how awesome!
    The revelation AND your friend coming to care for you! That is certainly something to look forward to! And don't worry about the anesthesia, they have it down to such an art now they can bring you back up at just the right time. I always like meeting my anesthesiologist during the pre-op. I laughed at your comment about wanting to do the operation yourself! Take care and enjoy today.
    mary

    anesthesiologist
    My son-in law is an anesthesiologist and has prepared me ad nauseum. I am not so afraid as I was last week...now I just want to get 'er done. Side note, one of my friends (OK, acquaintances) actually suggested that Scott be the anesthesiologist on my case! 3 things wrong with that -1. EEWWW...he's my SIL! 2. He does not work at that hospital, and 3. EWWWWWWW.

    Vicki
  • maglets
    maglets Member Posts: 2,576 Member
    msccolon said:

    how awesome!
    The revelation AND your friend coming to care for you! That is certainly something to look forward to! And don't worry about the anesthesia, they have it down to such an art now they can bring you back up at just the right time. I always like meeting my anesthesiologist during the pre-op. I laughed at your comment about wanting to do the operation yourself! Take care and enjoy today.
    mary

    friend
    that is so great your friend is coming to help....that will be awesome. Mary is right the anesthesia these days is so good....take care.....breathe deeply today...

    All the very best,
    Mags
  • maglets
    maglets Member Posts: 2,576 Member
    VickiCO said:

    anesthesiologist
    My son-in law is an anesthesiologist and has prepared me ad nauseum. I am not so afraid as I was last week...now I just want to get 'er done. Side note, one of my friends (OK, acquaintances) actually suggested that Scott be the anesthesiologist on my case! 3 things wrong with that -1. EEWWW...he's my SIL! 2. He does not work at that hospital, and 3. EWWWWWWW.

    Vicki

    ha ha ha
    that's funny.....always best to have a stranger when you are lookin so good
    !LOL
  • msccolon
    msccolon Member Posts: 1,917 Member
    VickiCO said:

    anesthesiologist
    My son-in law is an anesthesiologist and has prepared me ad nauseum. I am not so afraid as I was last week...now I just want to get 'er done. Side note, one of my friends (OK, acquaintances) actually suggested that Scott be the anesthesiologist on my case! 3 things wrong with that -1. EEWWW...he's my SIL! 2. He does not work at that hospital, and 3. EWWWWWWW.

    Vicki

    LOL!
    Can you imagine the nightmares he would have whenever they visited? I am sure he is very professional, but that would just not be a memory you would want your SIL having of you!
    mary
  • KathiM
    KathiM Member Posts: 8,028 Member
    I'm sending warm hugs...
    Sweet dreams, my dear. Visualize that it is already over, and you are back home. Don't worry about the surgery, or the anesthesia...there are trained professionals for that! I agree, though, on No to your SIl...ewwwwww! From that point forward,he could say he knows the 'real you'...

    Hugs, Kathi

    Please get someone to post here how you are doing...
  • VickiCO
    VickiCO Member Posts: 917
    KathiM said:

    I'm sending warm hugs...
    Sweet dreams, my dear. Visualize that it is already over, and you are back home. Don't worry about the surgery, or the anesthesia...there are trained professionals for that! I agree, though, on No to your SIl...ewwwwww! From that point forward,he could say he knows the 'real you'...

    Hugs, Kathi

    Please get someone to post here how you are doing...

    Thanks to all...
    You want irony with a capital I??? I live for chocolate, and Godiva especially. For the holidays, I sent my writers Godiva baskets. As a Thank You for the business, Godiva sent me two boxes of chocolates. They arrived TODAY! I had to hide them from myself! LOL! Wait, if I melt them, is that on my liquid diet! Not clear, though....

    Vicki
  • Shayenne
    Shayenne Member Posts: 2,342
    VickiCO said:

    Thanks to all...
    You want irony with a capital I??? I live for chocolate, and Godiva especially. For the holidays, I sent my writers Godiva baskets. As a Thank You for the business, Godiva sent me two boxes of chocolates. They arrived TODAY! I had to hide them from myself! LOL! Wait, if I melt them, is that on my liquid diet! Not clear, though....

    Vicki

    OHHHH!!!
    I LOVEEEEEE Godiva Dark chocolates! They are my favorite! you're so lucky! and don't worry about eating them now, at least you have something to look forward too after you're off that liquid diet!!
  • msccolon
    msccolon Member Posts: 1,917 Member
    VickiCO said:

    Thanks to all...
    You want irony with a capital I??? I live for chocolate, and Godiva especially. For the holidays, I sent my writers Godiva baskets. As a Thank You for the business, Godiva sent me two boxes of chocolates. They arrived TODAY! I had to hide them from myself! LOL! Wait, if I melt them, is that on my liquid diet! Not clear, though....

    Vicki

    I'll take care of it for you!
    I'll be right over! Wouldn't want you to be tortured by those nasty things!
    mary
  • KathiM
    KathiM Member Posts: 8,028 Member
    VickiCO said:

    Thanks to all...
    You want irony with a capital I??? I live for chocolate, and Godiva especially. For the holidays, I sent my writers Godiva baskets. As a Thank You for the business, Godiva sent me two boxes of chocolates. They arrived TODAY! I had to hide them from myself! LOL! Wait, if I melt them, is that on my liquid diet! Not clear, though....

    Vicki

    mmmmmm, chocolate!!!!
    I'll be there!!!

    (Hey, WAIT!!! Sneeky trick to get us all to your bedside...lol!!!!)

    Hugs, Kathi
  • KathiM said:

    mmmmmm, chocolate!!!!
    I'll be there!!!

    (Hey, WAIT!!! Sneeky trick to get us all to your bedside...lol!!!!)

    Hugs, Kathi

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  • Kathleen808
    Kathleen808 Member Posts: 2,342 Member
    praying 4 you
    Vicki,
    We are praying for you. Take your time with recovery and take all the help you can get. Don't be in a hurry to get back to us as we know you are recovering and we will hold you in prayer until we hear back from you.
    Aloha,
    Kathleen
  • MoonDragon
    MoonDragon Member Posts: 183
    I'm so glad that you'll have
    I'm so glad that you'll have a close friend with you to go through this with you!! Just know we're all pulling for you and you'll be just fine. We'll be waiting for updates, thinking of you and praying for you in the meantime!!

    HUGE hugs!

    Jorie
  • Buzzard
    Buzzard Member Posts: 3,043 Member

    I'm so glad that you'll have
    I'm so glad that you'll have a close friend with you to go through this with you!! Just know we're all pulling for you and you'll be just fine. We'll be waiting for updates, thinking of you and praying for you in the meantime!!

    HUGE hugs!

    Jorie

    Shes probably out now..........
    VickiCO is probably in lala land and either recovery or in her room...Hopefully resting and doing well with a very good outcome....Prayers are with you hun...hang in there...God Bless
  • Kathleen808
    Kathleen808 Member Posts: 2,342 Member
    today
    Vicki,
    **** and I were talking about you and figured you were probably in recovery. Know that you were being prayed for even when you were in and out.
    Aloha,
    Kathleen
  • mom_2_3
    mom_2_3 Member Posts: 953 Member
    Prayers and love to you Vicki
    Prayers and love to you Vicki as you start the healing process from your surgery. Keep us posted when you can.