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  • claud1951
    claud1951 Member Posts: 424 Member
    Welcome
    Mike,

    As the others have said, to bad we have to meet this way but you've come to the right place.

    I was Stage 3 colon (ascending). 12" removed, 2 lymph nodes cancer, 6 Mos (12 rounds) of chemo and as of Dec 07, I am still NED!

    Keep your positive attitude. It's such a big help. Try and surround yourself with positive people and always keep your energy for moving forward.

    Let us know what you find out as far a what stage, what treatment, etc.
    Keep a notebook and write all question down (for the Onc). Make sure someone goes with you to the Doctor. That person will pick up things you don't.

    My best to you and yours.
    Claudia
  • tootsie1
    tootsie1 Member Posts: 5,044 Member
    Hi, Mike.
    Hi, Mike. You seem like such a kind and caring person. Even in your fear and worry, you've taken time to answer every person!

    I'll be praying that you'll have good results from the liver biopsy, and that any treatments you have will eventually bring you a state of NED (no evidence of disease).

    I was diagnosed almost a year ago. I was fortunate enough to be Stage 1. The surgery has cause me some ongoing problems, but there's no evidence of further cancer, so that's a blessing.

    I'll be praying for you!

    *hugs*
    Gail
  • msccolon
    msccolon Member Posts: 1,917 Member
    another mid 40s
    I was 43, just shy of my 44th birthday when I was diagnosed. Stage IIIB, in August of 2004. Surgery, chemo. Recurrence in my abdomen in 2006, surgery and chemo again. I am now waiting for results of a suspicious area in my liver from my last PET, but doing well. At the time of diagnosis I had 17 and 20 year olds. I have since seen my oldest get married and am currently enjoying my first grand child! I am looking forward to more grand children and to seeing my youngest married at some time in the future! Treatments today are so much better than they have been in the past, and there are so many of us living with this beast. How is your wife doing? Does she have a support group? This will be hard for her as well, and I am sure she is trying to be strong for you. Keep us posted.
    mary
  • doris2657
    doris2657 Member Posts: 38
    Hi Mike
    I was diagnosed in february with stage 4 colon cancer with mets to ovaries,after 2 surgeries with in 7 weeks I was told yesterday by my oncologist my pet scan came back clear NED,now I will try to stay on maitenance chemo,plus I do want to dance at my Girls wedding.Good luck.

    God bless you

    Doris
  • Mike49
    Mike49 Member Posts: 261
    How's Mike, I know, the biopsy was only hours ago
    I was thinking about you and your liver biopsy, too soon for results but how's Mike? I have a procedure on Thursday (unless they reschedule tommorow when I go to clinic) they are going to put in a Porta-Cath to use for the Chemo-Therapy infusions.

    I hope you made it through and can communicate tommorow.

    Later,
    Mike
  • VickiCO
    VickiCO Member Posts: 917
    Mike49 said:

    How's Mike, I know, the biopsy was only hours ago
    I was thinking about you and your liver biopsy, too soon for results but how's Mike? I have a procedure on Thursday (unless they reschedule tommorow when I go to clinic) they are going to put in a Porta-Cath to use for the Chemo-Therapy infusions.

    I hope you made it through and can communicate tommorow.

    Later,
    Mike

    Hi Mike & Mike
    First Mike - hope all went well today.

    Second Mike - I also will have my port inserted on Thursday. We can hold good thoughts for each other.

    Got my surgeon lined up - I am ready to go!


    Vicki
  • menright
    menright Member Posts: 256 Member
    VickiCO said:

    Hi Mike & Mike
    First Mike - hope all went well today.

    Second Mike - I also will have my port inserted on Thursday. We can hold good thoughts for each other.

    Got my surgeon lined up - I am ready to go!


    Vicki

    The waiting is making us NUTS!
    Vicki:

    I wish you the best with your port and the beginning of Chemo. Like you, I am eager to get started. It is really odd to be anxious to start poisoning ones body, but it is for the greater good.

    I am going on a month since Dx and still no treatment. A question to the collective group would be: When should I become concerned about the delays to treatment? I hope to start next week yet I am preparing for doctors/nurses telling me about further delays. I have the Xeloda pills already and just waiting for instructions.

    Sorry for ranting in your space.

    I hope all goes well for you Vicki. I hope we can continue to share our parallel journey, if for nothing else to know we are not alone.

    Best wishes!

    Mike
  • menright
    menright Member Posts: 256 Member
    Mike49 said:

    How's Mike, I know, the biopsy was only hours ago
    I was thinking about you and your liver biopsy, too soon for results but how's Mike? I have a procedure on Thursday (unless they reschedule tommorow when I go to clinic) they are going to put in a Porta-Cath to use for the Chemo-Therapy infusions.

    I hope you made it through and can communicate tommorow.

    Later,
    Mike

    biopsy
    Mike:

    You are right. No results yet. I will anxiously await word from the oncologist. The liver biopsy was a breeze. I pray it comes back negative.

    How am I? I am progressively more anxious to get started with treatment. Let's keep in touch as we begin the battle.

    Best wishes to you and your family.

    Mike
  • menright
    menright Member Posts: 256 Member
    doris2657 said:

    Hi Mike
    I was diagnosed in february with stage 4 colon cancer with mets to ovaries,after 2 surgeries with in 7 weeks I was told yesterday by my oncologist my pet scan came back clear NED,now I will try to stay on maitenance chemo,plus I do want to dance at my Girls wedding.Good luck.

    God bless you

    Doris

    Dance
    Dear Doris:

    Thanks for your comments. Good luck to you and your family.

    May we all dance long into the future.

    Mike
  • menright
    menright Member Posts: 256 Member
    tootsie1 said:

    Hi, Mike.
    Hi, Mike. You seem like such a kind and caring person. Even in your fear and worry, you've taken time to answer every person!

    I'll be praying that you'll have good results from the liver biopsy, and that any treatments you have will eventually bring you a state of NED (no evidence of disease).

    I was diagnosed almost a year ago. I was fortunate enough to be Stage 1. The surgery has cause me some ongoing problems, but there's no evidence of further cancer, so that's a blessing.

    I'll be praying for you!

    *hugs*
    Gail

    Prayers accepted
    Dear Gail:

    Thanks for your note. I find this web exhange board helpful.

    Good luck with your ongoing issues. I will pray that the cancer remains gone for you.

    Mike
  • Mike49
    Mike49 Member Posts: 261
    VickiCO said:

    Hi Mike & Mike
    First Mike - hope all went well today.

    Second Mike - I also will have my port inserted on Thursday. We can hold good thoughts for each other.

    Got my surgeon lined up - I am ready to go!


    Vicki

    We are going to do great, I can feel it
    Vicki, We will be there together and we're going to be better off with the port from all I read. Good luck
  • Mike49
    Mike49 Member Posts: 261
    menright said:

    biopsy
    Mike:

    You are right. No results yet. I will anxiously await word from the oncologist. The liver biopsy was a breeze. I pray it comes back negative.

    How am I? I am progressively more anxious to get started with treatment. Let's keep in touch as we begin the battle.

    Best wishes to you and your family.

    Mike

    Good
    I am glad the biopsy was a breeze, we'll stay in touch.
  • kimby
    kimby Member Posts: 797
    menright said:

    The waiting is making us NUTS!
    Vicki:

    I wish you the best with your port and the beginning of Chemo. Like you, I am eager to get started. It is really odd to be anxious to start poisoning ones body, but it is for the greater good.

    I am going on a month since Dx and still no treatment. A question to the collective group would be: When should I become concerned about the delays to treatment? I hope to start next week yet I am preparing for doctors/nurses telling me about further delays. I have the Xeloda pills already and just waiting for instructions.

    Sorry for ranting in your space.

    I hope all goes well for you Vicki. I hope we can continue to share our parallel journey, if for nothing else to know we are not alone.

    Best wishes!

    Mike

    Ranting
    Mike said: "Sorry for ranting in your space."

    Well Mike, this is YOUR space too. I'm sorry that it is, sorry for anyone that needs to be here. Please feel welcome here. Rant, vent, scream, cry, encourage, laugh, and have fun. It is all allowed here, and we don't even dock for spelling.

    You have added to our group already. Please rant here!

    Kimby
  • kmygil
    kmygil Member Posts: 876 Member
    Welcome
    Hi Mike. I'm sorry for why you are here, but this is THE PLACE TO BE if you're diagnosed with the beast. Glad your biopsy went well. We will be with you all the way.

    Hugs,
    Kirsten
  • menright
    menright Member Posts: 256 Member
    Biopsy gone bad
    Well I just received word that there is one small spot on the liver that is indeed cancer. I so hoped otherwise.

    Now my treatment plan will change and become prolonged.

    I was told this is a roller coaster ride and they weren't kidding.

    Wish me luck. I have an appointment with the chemo oncologist tomorrow to review the biopsy and lay out the treatment plan.

    I guess I will be setting aside the Xeloda pills and going to a more agressive Chemo plan. Any ideas what that would be?

    Any questions I should be asking tomorrow from your collective experience?

    Mike
  • Moesimo
    Moesimo Member Posts: 1,072 Member
    Sorry
    I am so sorry about the liver biopsy. Where are you getting treatment. I would suggest a major cancer center.

    Sometimes you can have surgery on a liver biopsy. There are many long term stage 4 cancer survivors on this board.

    Another test to have is a pet scan. It is similar to a cat scan. It would be good to have one as a baseline.

    Good luck and keep us posted.

    Your good attitude will get you through this.

    I know you were asking about working. I also worked through radiation and chemo. It kept my mind occupied and life somewhat normal. Radiation made me tired and lots of diarrhea. I could only work and was unable to do anything around the house.

    Maureen
  • Mike49
    Mike49 Member Posts: 261
    menright said:

    Biopsy gone bad
    Well I just received word that there is one small spot on the liver that is indeed cancer. I so hoped otherwise.

    Now my treatment plan will change and become prolonged.

    I was told this is a roller coaster ride and they weren't kidding.

    Wish me luck. I have an appointment with the chemo oncologist tomorrow to review the biopsy and lay out the treatment plan.

    I guess I will be setting aside the Xeloda pills and going to a more agressive Chemo plan. Any ideas what that would be?

    Any questions I should be asking tomorrow from your collective experience?

    Mike

    Hang in there
    Mike, I know that was the last thing you wanted to hear, its tough news but, this is one of the more treatable cancers and we can beat this too. Is it possible to excise the liver lesion surgically in addition to more aggressive chemo? I don't know if that is even a question you want to ask. I know from my treatment team and my internet research FOLFOX may be the chemo regimen. 12 courses of IV therapy delivered of 2 1/2 days. That is the regimen they are preparing me for. If you hear that term tommorow we can talk some about it.

    My day pales in comparison, but preparing for the IV chemo is why I had the Port-a-Cath placed today. They may suggest that to you if they go the IV chemo route.

    There is a treatment plan that can work. I hope you are finding your Oncologist to be someone you have faith in. I hope you have a good visit tommorow and a plan develops that you can quickly begin is formed.

    Mike B.
  • Kanort
    Kanort Member Posts: 1,272 Member
    Tomorrow!
    Hi Mike,

    Welcome to our group....even though you didn't seek membership. There is a wealth of information here as well as genuine, caring people who will quickly become your friends.

    If possible, take someone with you to your visit tomorrow. Since so much information will be given to you, it would be very helpful to have another pair of ears. Also, if someone takes notes, that proves useful as well.

    Please let us know your new plan of attack. There are many new drugs and procedures for stage 4 that weren't available even a few years ago.

    Thinking of you and your family.

    Hugs,

    Kay
  • trainer
    trainer Member Posts: 241
    menright said:

    Cancer gone
    Your story is what I hope and pray for. I have heard of the possibility but love to hear from someone who had it happen. I take it you had treatment before surgery which took care of the cancer?

    Thanks,

    Mike

    No pre-surgery treatments
    I know I've read on this site where others have done chemo and rad prior to surgery, but for whatever reason, my docs took out the polyp during the colonoscopy that was cancerous, marked the spot on either side in the colon and then scheduled my surgery. They had me do a CAT scan, which showed some irritation closer to the stomach, and although the surgeon though it wasn't anything significant, he nonetheless had me to an upper GI. The radiologist who did that one was great and when she couldn't find any evidence of an irritation, she called the CAT scan doc and had him talk her through it while I was still on the scope. Nothing showed up, which was why she called him. Then it was time to resked the surgery and I went in on the 20th. They couldn't find anything cancerous and instead of taking out 18 inches and affiliated lymph nodes, they took 5 inches and several nodes. So the only pre-surgery treatment was the colonoscopy and follow up scans and Xrays.
    And now, I'll do a PET scan every three months twice and then if nothing has been revealed, do one followup after another 6 months and then no more oncologist and just an annual colonoscopy to make sure everything is OK or to stop a recurrence early. I'm all for that. We're praying that your swift recovery and NED status.
  • trainer
    trainer Member Posts: 241
    menright said:

    The waiting is making us NUTS!
    Vicki:

    I wish you the best with your port and the beginning of Chemo. Like you, I am eager to get started. It is really odd to be anxious to start poisoning ones body, but it is for the greater good.

    I am going on a month since Dx and still no treatment. A question to the collective group would be: When should I become concerned about the delays to treatment? I hope to start next week yet I am preparing for doctors/nurses telling me about further delays. I have the Xeloda pills already and just waiting for instructions.

    Sorry for ranting in your space.

    I hope all goes well for you Vicki. I hope we can continue to share our parallel journey, if for nothing else to know we are not alone.

    Best wishes!

    Mike

    Delays
    I'd be all over them about the delay and if they can't get their ducks in a row, I'd find a medical team that can. You're the one who has to live with this. I was frustrated with the lack of specific info I was getting up and down the line and it wasn't until I met with the oncologist that I finally got the specific answers I needed. Don't be shy, you're the reason they are there.