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  • beaumontdave
    beaumontdave Member Posts: 1,280 Member
    edited September 2019 #22
    abrub said:

    When I was pregnant, I was advised to take Iron with Colace

    The iron supplements I took also contained a stool softener (Docusate Sodium) to help avoid constipation. Would that be an option for your dad?  If you can't find the combination, perhaps ensuing that he takes a stool softener with his iron might be helpful.

    That is what I take now,

    That is what I take now, though I start and stop the Colace, depending on how soft things get, but it works for me, taking iron and Colace............................Dave

  • Butt
    Butt Member Posts: 352 Member

    i have never been to South America. However, I have been in 30 plus countries. Many not so well developed countries may require you to pay something to a doctor, give Some money to a nurse and buy pre surgery supplies and bring them on a day of a surgery. Those prices are very low in comparison with US ones and US salary. I had a leg injury while in Kosovo for 3 weeks for work. I got all services on a very high level  but I think it was about $350 or so. Well worth it. I suspect some dollars can go a long way in your country.....

  • Butt
    Butt Member Posts: 352 Member
    edited September 2019 #24

    i have never been to South America. However, I have been in 30 plus countries. Many not so well developed countries may require you to pay something to a doctor, give Some money to a nurse and buy pre surgery supplies and bring them on a day of a surgery. Those prices are very low in comparison with US ones and US salary. I had a leg injury while in Kosovo for 3 weeks for work. I got all services on a very high level  but I think it was about $350 or so. Well worth it. I suspect some dollars can go a long way in your country.....

  • Fayard
    Fayard Member Posts: 438 Member
    Butt said:

    i have never been to South America. However, I have been in 30 plus countries. Many not so well developed countries may require you to pay something to a doctor, give Some money to a nurse and buy pre surgery supplies and bring them on a day of a surgery. Those prices are very low in comparison with US ones and US salary. I had a leg injury while in Kosovo for 3 weeks for work. I got all services on a very high level  but I think it was about $350 or so. Well worth it. I suspect some dollars can go a long way in your country.....

    Hola Butt,

    Hola Butt,

    I hope this message finds you well, and everyone else too!

    Yes, the dollar is a strong currency, but inflation is completely out of control: in the hundreds of thousands percent per year :( The cost of living is almost as much as any city in the US: chicken between $4 and $6, loaf of bread between $1 and $2, toothpaste $3 a medium size tube, etc. This is without mentioning the lack of electricity, water, transportation and others. I support my entire family, and some neighbors, because I am blessed to be able to send money and supplies there. However, the minimum wage is $2 and $5. No one can live with that, not even in South America. One of my sisters died in 2016 from a pneumonia from which she never recovered. She was 53. Her medical insurance covered her expenses for 3 days. She was in the ICU for 7 weeks. I was paying around $600 per day in a private clinic, because most public hospital are infected and don’t have supplies. And you are correct, that is way cheaper than it is here, but most people can’t afford it with $5 a month. It is very depressing, sad and frustrating, but there is nothing I can’t do to change it. I pray every day that no one in my family becomes sick :( I am sorry all this sounds terrible, I didn't mean to be negative, it's just reality Cry

    Thank you for your feedback!

  • Annabelle41415
    Annabelle41415 Member Posts: 6,742 Member
    Fayard said:

    Hola Butt,

    Hola Butt,

    I hope this message finds you well, and everyone else too!

    Yes, the dollar is a strong currency, but inflation is completely out of control: in the hundreds of thousands percent per year :( The cost of living is almost as much as any city in the US: chicken between $4 and $6, loaf of bread between $1 and $2, toothpaste $3 a medium size tube, etc. This is without mentioning the lack of electricity, water, transportation and others. I support my entire family, and some neighbors, because I am blessed to be able to send money and supplies there. However, the minimum wage is $2 and $5. No one can live with that, not even in South America. One of my sisters died in 2016 from a pneumonia from which she never recovered. She was 53. Her medical insurance covered her expenses for 3 days. She was in the ICU for 7 weeks. I was paying around $600 per day in a private clinic, because most public hospital are infected and don’t have supplies. And you are correct, that is way cheaper than it is here, but most people can’t afford it with $5 a month. It is very depressing, sad and frustrating, but there is nothing I can’t do to change it. I pray every day that no one in my family becomes sick :( I am sorry all this sounds terrible, I didn't mean to be negative, it's just reality Cry

    Thank you for your feedback!

    Awful

    What an awful situation to be in.  I've heard that the citizens are having such a hard time, but just didn't realize how bad medical was there and also how expensive things are for the wages they make.  I'm praying that your father does well.  You sound like a very loving and kind daughter and I'm sure he is proud to have you.  You also are a great caregiver that is trying to desperately help her father in a difficult situation.

    Kim

  • Fayard
    Fayard Member Posts: 438 Member

    Awful

    What an awful situation to be in.  I've heard that the citizens are having such a hard time, but just didn't realize how bad medical was there and also how expensive things are for the wages they make.  I'm praying that your father does well.  You sound like a very loving and kind daughter and I'm sure he is proud to have you.  You also are a great caregiver that is trying to desperately help her father in a difficult situation.

    Kim

    Kim,

    Kim,

    Thank you very much for your comment. I appreciate it!

  • Fayard
    Fayard Member Posts: 438 Member
    Update

    Good morning! 

     

    My father finally had the procedure yesterday,

    and everything went well!

    He still has some brain fogs: he wants to remove the colostomy bag and the catheter.

    I hope it is still the anesthesia in his system, since this morning my brother sent me

    a video and my father looked fine.

     

    For now, he has a bag the hospital actually provided, but it seems to be

    universal. I am not sure. It is very difficult to get detailed information.

    I am praying that everything continues going well.

     

    Thank yo very much for your support!

  • Annabelle41415
    Annabelle41415 Member Posts: 6,742 Member
    Fayard said:

    Update

    Good morning! 

     

    My father finally had the procedure yesterday,

    and everything went well!

    He still has some brain fogs: he wants to remove the colostomy bag and the catheter.

    I hope it is still the anesthesia in his system, since this morning my brother sent me

    a video and my father looked fine.

     

    For now, he has a bag the hospital actually provided, but it seems to be

    universal. I am not sure. It is very difficult to get detailed information.

    I am praying that everything continues going well.

     

    Thank yo very much for your support!

    Wonderful

    I've been thinking about your dad and have been waiting for an update, so this is wonderful news that the surgery went well.  It's very normal to have a foggy head after surgery.  Also, it can be normal for other sensations to not be the same right after surgery for several days, even sometimes a couple months after surgery.  My strength in my hands disappeared a lot after surgery and my husband lost his taste.  Others will also tell you they had things not the same, but eventually it goes back.  Your dad will get back but it might take some time.  Wishing your dad the best in recovery.  Thanks again for the update.

    Kim

  • Fayard
    Fayard Member Posts: 438 Member

    Wonderful

    I've been thinking about your dad and have been waiting for an update, so this is wonderful news that the surgery went well.  It's very normal to have a foggy head after surgery.  Also, it can be normal for other sensations to not be the same right after surgery for several days, even sometimes a couple months after surgery.  My strength in my hands disappeared a lot after surgery and my husband lost his taste.  Others will also tell you they had things not the same, but eventually it goes back.  Your dad will get back but it might take some time.  Wishing your dad the best in recovery.  Thanks again for the update.

    Kim

    Kim,
    Thank you very much!

    Kim,

    Thank you very much!

  • Lovekitties
    Lovekitties Member Posts: 3,364 Member
    getting supplies thru customs there

    I was reading an article which said it is very difficult to get medical supplies shipped from US to Ven. due to customs authorities there and that many shippers are not sending there.

    I am unaware of what travel between South American countries is like.  Is it possible for your brother to go to another country and carry the supplies back with him?  Purchasing in another country might be easier than trying to get them in from USA.

    I am glad to hear that surgery went well and wish your father best recovery.

    Marie who loves kitties

  • Fayard
    Fayard Member Posts: 438 Member

    getting supplies thru customs there

    I was reading an article which said it is very difficult to get medical supplies shipped from US to Ven. due to customs authorities there and that many shippers are not sending there.

    I am unaware of what travel between South American countries is like.  Is it possible for your brother to go to another country and carry the supplies back with him?  Purchasing in another country might be easier than trying to get them in from USA.

    I am glad to hear that surgery went well and wish your father best recovery.

    Marie who loves kitties

    Hola Marie,

    Hola Marie,

    Thank you very much for your thought!

    Yes, it is difficult, but I have been using a shipping company, own by Venezuelans, that has worked well. Bringing goods into the country is also difficult. 

    You pretty much have to know someone at the airport and pay that person so customs won't still your stuff. 

    Thank you very much again for your feedback!