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  • sylvia_mae
    sylvia_mae Member Posts: 37
    edited October 2018 #22
    Peter_S said:

    Hi Sylvia_Mae

    You have a really great name it reminds me of old Hollywood, classy and classic. I think I'm the last person here to give advice to anyone because today makes one week since my own diagnosis. But I will say congrats on a clear result from both scopes I think thats fantastic. That you're having bowel movements is a positive as well. It sounds cliche' and maybe it is - but none of us have an experation date and there seems to be no shortage of people with stage 3 and 4 living and living well.

    It's like that old saying "it's not the years of your life that count, it's the life in your years"  So I wish you the very best and look foreward to reading more of your posts  

    thanks peter its a

    thanks peter its a combination from my mom and my dad's name...you're absolutely correct but sometimes having this disease will put my positivity into a test. 

  • plsletitrain
    plsletitrain Member Posts: 252 Member
    Hi sylvia

    I was also 30 years old when diagnosed and because I still have young kids, I underwent chemo.  I had a recurrence in my lung and am now back on chemo.  Its not easy, which route you take.  Chemo or not, the uncertainties are always present.  A CEA rise can be a cause for concern, but not until the scans confirm it.  I had normal CEA even when I had my colon tumor, after, and even with my lung met (it slightly increased but still within normal) so I stopped taking the CEA test for my monitoring.  There could be several factors that can cause the CEA to rise, not necessarily cancer.  

    Best wishes.  Keep strong!

  • Trubrit
    Trubrit Member Posts: 5,796 Member

    good day Trubrit. im sorry i

    good day Trubrit. im sorry i was reading peter's post and i didnt know how to post on my own. i will make one later. thank u

    No problem, Sylvia

    I bet many of us here started by posting on someones thread; its no big deal. 

    Look forward to hearing from you more. 

    Tru

  • sylvia_mae
    sylvia_mae Member Posts: 37
    edited October 2018 #25

    Hi sylvia

    I was also 30 years old when diagnosed and because I still have young kids, I underwent chemo.  I had a recurrence in my lung and am now back on chemo.  Its not easy, which route you take.  Chemo or not, the uncertainties are always present.  A CEA rise can be a cause for concern, but not until the scans confirm it.  I had normal CEA even when I had my colon tumor, after, and even with my lung met (it slightly increased but still within normal) so I stopped taking the CEA test for my monitoring.  There could be several factors that can cause the CEA to rise, not necessarily cancer.  

    Best wishes.  Keep strong!

    thank u plsletitrain. every

    thank u plsletitrain. every single word you guys have said are great help especially in these days of uncertainties. please keep me posted and i might have several questions though i know we have different experiences and side effects but i wanted to know and understand about my disease and i cant keep on going to the doctor because sometimes doctors answers were vague. i need to know from you guys because like me we're in the same boat wherein cancer invaded our bodies. 

  • ceotase
    ceotase Member Posts: 3
    Hello Sylvia and Peter

    This is a great resource for so many questions and concerns.  I've been registered for over a year, but only just started to post.   

    About CEA - it can be a good indicator of tumor growth or reduction but should only be used as a "marker"  and not as life expectancy indication.  After I first began treatment I freaked out with every increase and then rejoiced with every reduction.  It was a real roller coaster.   I've settled down with the readings now and have realized (in large part to this forum) that a CEA increase is not a death sentence.   If fact my CEA was 1195 after my colectomy in January 2017.  After Chemo cycles began it has gone down and up. This month It's down to 45.  So from my perspective that's great progress, but if I compare it to so many who have less than 10 it used to be depressing.  So be not troubled about the CEA number. Your Doctors look at all tests and markers and should keep you updated on your progress. 

  • sylvia_mae
    sylvia_mae Member Posts: 37
    ceotase said:

    Hello Sylvia and Peter

    This is a great resource for so many questions and concerns.  I've been registered for over a year, but only just started to post.   

    About CEA - it can be a good indicator of tumor growth or reduction but should only be used as a "marker"  and not as life expectancy indication.  After I first began treatment I freaked out with every increase and then rejoiced with every reduction.  It was a real roller coaster.   I've settled down with the readings now and have realized (in large part to this forum) that a CEA increase is not a death sentence.   If fact my CEA was 1195 after my colectomy in January 2017.  After Chemo cycles began it has gone down and up. This month It's down to 45.  So from my perspective that's great progress, but if I compare it to so many who have less than 10 it used to be depressing.  So be not troubled about the CEA number. Your Doctors look at all tests and markers and should keep you updated on your progress. 

    thank u ceotase never thought

    thank u ceotase never thought that joining these org. makes a releiving feeling. i'll keep that in mind. 

  • ron50
    ron50 Member Posts: 1,723 Member
    Peter_S said:

    Thank You Ron

    Well you may be be a relic of the war with cancer but to me relic=hero, congrats on making it, and surviving not just to tell the story but to help others. I worry because I'm a 60 year old type 2 uncontrolled diabetic. I don't say this for pity and I don't feel sorry for myself it just puts me at a disadvantage that's all. I know others have their own complications and make it - I hope I'm one of them. Congrats of fighting the good fight and living to help people like me who are just begining to roll up our sleeves.

    Peter

    I turned 68 this year Peter

       I too have type two diabetes. Unfortunately it was mainly due to a mis diagnosed kidney condition. I was treated with high dose prednisone for nearly two years. I have since had two more kidney biopsies with a new neph. He has confirmed I have an unknown auto -immune kidney problem and i take cyclosporin twice a day. I have moderate to severe peripheral neuropathy in my feet and legs. My neph supects i have auto- immune hepatitis. I Have regular bouts of vertigo . I hve been dxed with atrial flutter and atrial fib earlier this year and take warfarin daily.  Apart from that I still work four days a week and when well enough I go out fishing in my tynny or preferably my kayak. Cheers Ron.

  • Twinzma
    Twinzma Member Posts: 236 Member
    Sorry you are here

    Peter, so sorry that you have had to join the group. Ugh, not the words anyone wants to hear. Know you have found a wonderful group here. There are so many that will give you their sucess stories despite the terrible odds. And please don't look into those stats online they are so wrong so antiquated and wrong. CEA can fluctuate for so many reasons so try not to fall into the trap of disbeleif if you do hit a little bump. My husbands rose incredibly one week because of cuts on his fingers! Even scans can e decieving sometimes. my husbands came in as mixed reviews this last time so we don't know what to beleive. Growth, shrinkage stability. All I do know is he has undergone almost a year of treatment and is still working and traveling and living life to the fullest despite being told last fall he had only 6 months to live. We just got back from Mexico and he had more energy than I did! This is just a diagnosis and doesn't define you or how you will react to treatment. I pray that you will find peace, have the strenth to fight and that you find NEDsville as soon as possible! Hugs!!!

  • Peter_S
    Peter_S Member Posts: 109
    edited October 2018 #30

    Hi Peter and Sylvia

    So sorry to hear about your recent diagnoses--no one ever expects to hear those words--"you have cancer".  This is the place to find out all the things the clinicians don't tell you --and share experiences and find hope. I am a Stage 4  doing Folfox/Avastin--Never stop fighting!!

    Thank You!

    Hi myAZmountain and I appreciate the warm welcome.

    You're a hero, I think every single one of you are and even though I don't know you I'm grateful to you and sure can use the support and the hope. I won't know my stage untill surgery but whatever it is I'll follow your mantra and Never Stop Fighting!

    Peter

  • Peter_S
    Peter_S Member Posts: 109
    ceotase said:

    Hello Sylvia and Peter

    This is a great resource for so many questions and concerns.  I've been registered for over a year, but only just started to post.   

    About CEA - it can be a good indicator of tumor growth or reduction but should only be used as a "marker"  and not as life expectancy indication.  After I first began treatment I freaked out with every increase and then rejoiced with every reduction.  It was a real roller coaster.   I've settled down with the readings now and have realized (in large part to this forum) that a CEA increase is not a death sentence.   If fact my CEA was 1195 after my colectomy in January 2017.  After Chemo cycles began it has gone down and up. This month It's down to 45.  So from my perspective that's great progress, but if I compare it to so many who have less than 10 it used to be depressing.  So be not troubled about the CEA number. Your Doctors look at all tests and markers and should keep you updated on your progress. 

    Many Thanks!

    Hi ceotase,

    Thank you for taking the time to welcome me here - I'm so glad to have found this forum it seems intimate and firendly. I'm at the idiot stage when it comes to Cancer lingo but I'm starting to educate myself, and I thought diabetes was complicated! Well, I'll be asking lot's of questions and learning as much as I can - thanks for reaching out. Peter

  • Peter_S
    Peter_S Member Posts: 109
    edited October 2018 #32
    Twinzma said:

    Sorry you are here

    Peter, so sorry that you have had to join the group. Ugh, not the words anyone wants to hear. Know you have found a wonderful group here. There are so many that will give you their sucess stories despite the terrible odds. And please don't look into those stats online they are so wrong so antiquated and wrong. CEA can fluctuate for so many reasons so try not to fall into the trap of disbeleif if you do hit a little bump. My husbands rose incredibly one week because of cuts on his fingers! Even scans can e decieving sometimes. my husbands came in as mixed reviews this last time so we don't know what to beleive. Growth, shrinkage stability. All I do know is he has undergone almost a year of treatment and is still working and traveling and living life to the fullest despite being told last fall he had only 6 months to live. We just got back from Mexico and he had more energy than I did! This is just a diagnosis and doesn't define you or how you will react to treatment. I pray that you will find peace, have the strenth to fight and that you find NEDsville as soon as possible! Hugs!!!

    Hi There Twinzma and Thank You

    Thanks so much for the great advice, I'm scared enough without the horror stories plastered all over the web, so I hear you. You and your husband sound awesome, stories like his give me hope and hope = life.

     

    Peter