Appreciative of Angels

plsletitrain
plsletitrain Member Posts: 252 Member

I'm sure we've had our days when random, little, encouraging things that people say could get us teary-eyed.  I'm reminded of Jan's story about the old guy in the elevator who told her she's gonna be alright.  These people might not know the impact of these short messages they say, but it sure does give me an impact.

Once, I was walking in a mall and just a random acquaintance, not even a close friend, went running just to say "Patty, I've been praying for you".  And my male friends, who aren't really expressive before have all been telling me they love me and they care for me.   Even those whom I thought were very shady and cold to me, walks into me and says "Don't lose hope" or "You can do it". Simple words like "This is our fight", or "We can do this" just makes me feel appreciative and I think I must have done something right in my lifetime to deserve the love of these people.

 

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  • MyJourneywithCancer
    MyJourneywithCancer Member Posts: 82
    Wonderfully said!
    Wonderfully said!
    Positivity is so powerful and infectious.
    Thank you for sharing.
  • Annabelle41415
    Annabelle41415 Member Posts: 6,742 Member
    Family and Friends

    What a wonderful story.  Sometimes family and friends can say the best thing at the right moment.  Sounds like you have had some very special people thinking and praying for you lately.  When I'm praying to God there is often time that I'd hear "you are going to be okay."  Doesn't mean that I'll be okay here, but know that He knows that I'll be OK with HIM.  Still I'm wanting to be here still.  Glad that you found sound peace in the people you meet.  Hope it continues.

    Hugs! Kim

  • JanJan63
    JanJan63 Member Posts: 2,478 Member
    It really is sticking with me

    It really is sticking with me, that experience. And, like you, I've had some really positive experiences with people. People who were just acquaintances who turned out to really care and people who are in my inner circle that went above and beyond.

    Some really nasty stuff, too, unfortunately. I had a woman who is in the horse world around here and is a real piece of work that many people can't stand tell me last week when I finally confronted her that 'maybe your stage four cancer is karma. Ha ha ha ha!' Then several smiley faces. She posted this publicly. It's really going to help with her already poor reputation. I'm just laughing thinking about it. Shows a lot more about her than me. I'd confronted her on ripping people off with her terrible horse training that she has no idea what she's doing. 

    But, for sure, those little words of encouragement and support from strangers are so uplifting! And maybe sometimes it is an angel just reminding us that all is not lost as long as we're still here. I can't say how much it made me feel better. I found that when the doctor finally came in and told me the news I was totally calm about what he was going to say. Yes, I burst into tears of relief but I don't think I'd have melted down, either, if it had been bad. Not at that moment, anyway. I do find a lot of strength in my faith. I'm not of any particular one, I just absolutely believe in a higher power and that He loves us and wants the best for us. None of this has shaken that belief and nothing will.

    Jan 

     

  • plsletitrain
    plsletitrain Member Posts: 252 Member
    Wow, that was so mean of her

    Wow, that was so mean of her to say that.  By that statement alone I can already see she's a very insensitive and rude person.  

    Right after I was diagnosed, it occurred to me if this disease is a punishment.  But then I remember that God doesn't send us punishments because He is a forgiving God.  Rather, he gives us trials and challenges.  There are reasons for it.  We might not understand right away and we might even question Him for giving it to us, but He is miles ahead in this journey and He has a plan that is beyond our human understanding.  And I do believe that God doesn't give us problems that we can't handle.  That's why whenever I think I'm on the losing end, I say to myself, "You should be proud.  God thinks you can handle cancer that's why He gave you this."

  • plsletitrain
    plsletitrain Member Posts: 252 Member

    Family and Friends

    What a wonderful story.  Sometimes family and friends can say the best thing at the right moment.  Sounds like you have had some very special people thinking and praying for you lately.  When I'm praying to God there is often time that I'd hear "you are going to be okay."  Doesn't mean that I'll be okay here, but know that He knows that I'll be OK with HIM.  Still I'm wanting to be here still.  Glad that you found sound peace in the people you meet.  Hope it continues.

    Hugs! Kim

    Prayer

    Yes, it really helps.  I also feel the same.  There are times when I'm scared and I feel so uncertain and I feel like losing hope but whenever I pray, there's this certain calm that envelops me and gives me a soothing feeling, as if telling me everything's gonna be okay.

  • JanJan63
    JanJan63 Member Posts: 2,478 Member

    Wow, that was so mean of her

    Wow, that was so mean of her to say that.  By that statement alone I can already see she's a very insensitive and rude person.  

    Right after I was diagnosed, it occurred to me if this disease is a punishment.  But then I remember that God doesn't send us punishments because He is a forgiving God.  Rather, he gives us trials and challenges.  There are reasons for it.  We might not understand right away and we might even question Him for giving it to us, but He is miles ahead in this journey and He has a plan that is beyond our human understanding.  And I do believe that God doesn't give us problems that we can't handle.  That's why whenever I think I'm on the losing end, I say to myself, "You should be proud.  God thinks you can handle cancer that's why He gave you this."

    That's a lovely thought. One

    That's a lovely thought. One thing that worries me is that my husband doesn't have faith, he never has. He's scientific and analytical. When I survived the blood clot he had faith for a while. He'd been praying for me in the chapel at the hospital and the next day I woke from the coma. He was then very excited about believing and, instead of trying to disprove God, he'd look for information to prove Him. I was so happy and told people that if I had to get cancer and go through what I did for him to have faith it was worth it. ow that I've had more things happen he's become bitter and keeps questioning if there's a God, why is this happening to me. I'm frustrated and disappointed and I try to explain that we all have to die and have hard times and belief doesn't stop that. And that there are people much worse off than I am. I'm afarid that when I'm gone he'll become very anti-religion and it breaks my heart. I've tried to talk to him about it but he's not listening.

    Jan 

  • Phil64
    Phil64 Member Posts: 838 Member

    your story reminded me of an experience I once wrote about in my blog. I do agree it is sure nice to encounter support and understanding. And if I was king I'd try to outlaw ignorance and insensitivit. :-)

    See the following link for my story from 2013...

    https://pscamihorn.me/2013/12/01/surgery-tomorrow-11302013-update/

  • plsletitrain
    plsletitrain Member Posts: 252 Member
    I had goosebumps after

    I had goosebumps after reading your encounter.  I believe he really was an angel.

  • Phoenix_66
    Phoenix_66 Member Posts: 118
    Powerful

    God has a unique way of sending just the right person across our path during difficult times.  For instance, the other day I was feeling a little down until I read some of the comments on this site.  There is hardly a day that does by that God doesn't send someone by with a small word of encourgement that lifts my spririt at just the right time.  He knows what we need and assures us that we are not alone.  "Have I not commanded you?  Be strong and courageous.  Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go."  Joshua 1:9

    Just a small word of encouragement, or an offer of help can make a world of difference when dealing with Cancer.  I believe God doesn't ask us to move mountains with our faith but to use what He gives us when He places the opportunity before us.  Jan, you may never know this side of heaven how your life has affected your husband's faith, but we are only called to plant the seed and let God do the rest in his timing. 

    I agree that I don't believe God is punishing us by giving us Cancer, but I prefer to think that if someone has to have it, He has given me the strength to endure.

  • JanJan63
    JanJan63 Member Posts: 2,478 Member
    Phil, what a beautiful story!

    Phil, what a beautiful story! Thanks for sharing that! I wept when I read it. 

    Phoenix, I love your biblical quotes, thank you so much for sharing them. They give me strength when I read them.

    Really, I'm starting to think that there are lots of angels on here. You are all so amazing, sensitive, perceptive, strong, encouraging, kind, and lots more. Being on here is one of the positives about cancer. Because there are some positives. Some of the people it's brought into my life or brought closer to me are a gift I wouldn't have had otherwise. 

    Jan

  • Trubrit
    Trubrit Member Posts: 5,796 Member
    Angels

    We are all angels here on earth, sent to help others on their way. We have to be sensitive to the spirit that lies within us, so that we can be there for whoever needs us. 

    Tru

  • Canadian Sandy
    Canadian Sandy Member Posts: 783 Member

    Powerful

    God has a unique way of sending just the right person across our path during difficult times.  For instance, the other day I was feeling a little down until I read some of the comments on this site.  There is hardly a day that does by that God doesn't send someone by with a small word of encourgement that lifts my spririt at just the right time.  He knows what we need and assures us that we are not alone.  "Have I not commanded you?  Be strong and courageous.  Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go."  Joshua 1:9

    Just a small word of encouragement, or an offer of help can make a world of difference when dealing with Cancer.  I believe God doesn't ask us to move mountains with our faith but to use what He gives us when He places the opportunity before us.  Jan, you may never know this side of heaven how your life has affected your husband's faith, but we are only called to plant the seed and let God do the rest in his timing. 

    I agree that I don't believe God is punishing us by giving us Cancer, but I prefer to think that if someone has to have it, He has given me the strength to endure.

    My thoughts exactly. 

    My thoughts exactly. 

  • darcher
    darcher Member Posts: 304 Member
    There was a song called send

    There was a song called send me an angel.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jCHE0Tjw6MA   Quite honestly, I could really use one now.  Someone told me that we are angels sent here to prove ourselves and once passed will get our wings provided we've earned them.  Eventually I'll find out but not today.

  • plsletitrain
    plsletitrain Member Posts: 252 Member
    edited July 2017 #15
    darcher said:

    There was a song called send

    There was a song called send me an angel.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jCHE0Tjw6MA   Quite honestly, I could really use one now.  Someone told me that we are angels sent here to prove ourselves and once passed will get our wings provided we've earned them.  Eventually I'll find out but not today.

    Send me an angel

    I love that song! I've been a fan of the song because of the gregorian version of it which is what I usually listen to when I just feel so low and I start to pity myself (even before I found out that I have cancer).  Here's the gregorian version which adds more ethereal feeling to the song.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bud_rR82Jig

    If you or anyone (like Jan) could listen to this, I hope this gives you hope.  The song is Don't Give Up by Gregorian.  I listen to this song when I feel like giving up.  Gregorian's vocals aren't audible much but listen to Sarah Brightman's vocals and the lyrics, they're so comforting and encouraging.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oeEoR6PQV8U

  • Phoenix_66
    Phoenix_66 Member Posts: 118
    edited July 2017 #16
    A beautiful song that I have

    A beautiful song that I have listened to alot during my journey is the contemporary christian song "Press On" by Selah.  Here is a youtube link with slide show and words for any interested:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XLwtF9KYbnE

     

  • Canadian Sandy
    Canadian Sandy Member Posts: 783 Member

    A beautiful song that I have

    A beautiful song that I have listened to alot during my journey is the contemporary christian song "Press On" by Selah.  Here is a youtube link with slide show and words for any interested:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XLwtF9KYbnE

     

    That is a beautiful song.

    That is a beautiful song. Thanks for the link. I just know Jan will love this.

  • NewHere
    NewHere Member Posts: 1,427 Member
    Send Me An Angel ....

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1UUYjd2rjsE

    And the lyrics from the two songs below

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    "Send Me An Angel"

     

     

    The wise man said just walk this way

    To the dawn of the light

    The wind will blow into your face

    As the years pass you by

     

    Hear this voice from deep inside

    It's the call of your heart

    Close your eyes and you will find

    The passage out of the dark

     

    Here I am

    Will you send me an angel?

    Here I am

    In the land of the morning star

     

    The wise man said just find your place

    In the eye of the storm

    Seek the roses along the way

    Just beware of the thorns

     

    Here I am

    Will you send me an angel?

    Here I am

    In the land of the morning star

     

    The wise man said just raise your hand

    And reach out for the spell

    Find the door to the promised land

    Just believe in yourself

     

    Hear this voice from deep inside

    It's the call of your heart

    Close your eyes and you will find

    The way out of the dark

     

    [4x]

    Here I am

    Will you send me an angel?

    Here I am

    In the land of the morning star

     

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    Do you believe in Heaven above?

    Do you believe in love?

    Don't tell a lie, don't be false or untrue

    It all comes back to you

     

    Open fire!

    On my burning heart

    I've never been lucky in love

    My defenses are down

    A kiss or a frown

    I can't survive on my own

     

    If a girl walks in and draws her name in my heart

    I'll turn and run away

    Every day, we've all been led astray

    It's hard to be lucky in love

     

    It gets in your eyes

    It's making you cry

    Don't know what to do

    Don't know what to do

    You're looking for love

    Calling Heaven above

     

    Send me an angel

    Send me an angel

    Right now, right now

     

     

    Send me an angel

    Send me an angel

    Right now, right now

     

    Empty dreams can only disappoint

    In a room behind your smile

    But don't give up, don't give up

    (Give up, give up, give up)

    You can be lucky in love

     

    It gets in your eyes

    It's making you cry

    Don't know what to do

    Don't know what to do

    You're looking for love

    Calling Heaven above

     

    Send me an angel

    Send me an angel

    Right now, right now

     

    Send me an angel

    Send me an angel

    Right now, right now

     

    Right now

  • Annabelle41415
    Annabelle41415 Member Posts: 6,742 Member
    edited July 2017 #19
    My Song of Choice - Need You Now

    Everytime I'm down or lonely or going through another test is "Need You Now (How Many Times)" by Plumb.  I'm hoping that this is the right link https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ylnx0NA9X4.  When you go through a cancer dianosis you do whatever you can to keep moving on.  This song reminds me that I'm able to continue even though I'm scared.  I'm a prayer warrior for all of you on this board every day even when I'm not posting.  I've been here for many years and hope to help as many people as I'm able to.

    Hugs!  Kim

  • plsletitrain
    plsletitrain Member Posts: 252 Member
    edited July 2017 #20

    My Song of Choice - Need You Now

    Everytime I'm down or lonely or going through another test is "Need You Now (How Many Times)" by Plumb.  I'm hoping that this is the right link https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ylnx0NA9X4.  When you go through a cancer dianosis you do whatever you can to keep moving on.  This song reminds me that I'm able to continue even though I'm scared.  I'm a prayer warrior for all of you on this board every day even when I'm not posting.  I've been here for many years and hope to help as many people as I'm able to.

    Hugs!  Kim

    That's a lovely song Kim

    Very inspiring.  And thanks for the prayers.  Prayers is the strongest weapon we have. 

  • Trubrit
    Trubrit Member Posts: 5,796 Member
    Deep Theta - Deep Alpha - Crystal bowl

    I go to sleep each night listening to the music, mostly by Stephen Halpern. During chemo, this music saved my sanity, maybe my life. 

    This one is probably my favourite https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eyXqJkmH7Pk

    Tru