New Caregiver to my mother

tenzin
tenzin Member Posts: 1
edited March 2014 in Ovarian Cancer #1
My name is Tenzin, and my mother has just been diagnosed with OvC Stage 3C. She's had the tumor debulking surgery and Chemo starts next week. My father is infirm with diabetes and arthritis, so I'm now the primary caregiver for both parents. If this isn't an argument to avoid having only one child I don't know what is!

Anyway, I've just joined this group, and I hope to see it become more active soon. I need all the help I can get!

Peace, and may all be auspicious,
Tenzin

Comments

  • ingrid
    ingrid Member Posts: 9
    Dear Tenzin
    I wish you all strength you need! But how wonderful that you'll be your mother's caregiver. Time during chemo will be very hard for you and your mother - but it will be allright.
    I had myself ovc and I am doing well - so far. Never give up hope - everything is possible.
    Please do write me sometime about everything - and how things are going.
    All the best - Ingrid
  • captsoldlady
    captsoldlady Member Posts: 1
    TENZIN MY MOTHER HAS STAGE4 OVARIANCANCER AND YOOU WILL SEE HER GO FROM UP TO BAD MOODS TO SICK,MOST OF THE TIME AFTER CHEMO, I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST AND MY HEART AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IF YOU NEED ANY ONE TO TALK TO LET ME KNOW I AHVE BEEN THROUGH IT ALL SO FAR.
    CAPTSOLDLADY
  • Chandramallika dutta
    Chandramallika dutta Member Posts: 1
    edited April 2017 #4
    Tenzin, its an old post i

    Tenzin, its an old post i know but i want to know how are you and mom doing.my mother had been diagnosed with ovarian ca back in 2011 and ever since on chemotherapy.in 2017 her therapy was stopped owing to complications. She has been a refractory case.her stage at diagnosis was 3c. I feel so weak at times thinking what would i do without my mom.

  • Elena_NY
    Elena_NY Member Posts: 1
    ingrid said:

    Dear Tenzin
    I wish you all strength you need! But how wonderful that you'll be your mother's caregiver. Time during chemo will be very hard for you and your mother - but it will be allright.
    I had myself ovc and I am doing well - so far. Never give up hope - everything is possible.
    Please do write me sometime about everything - and how things are going.
    All the best - Ingrid

    How are you doing Ingrid ?

    How are you doing Ingrid ?

  • NoTimeForCancer
    NoTimeForCancer Member Posts: 3,352 Member
    Elena_NY said:

    How are you doing Ingrid ?

    How are you doing Ingrid ?

    Dear Elena, sometimes it can

    Dear Elena, sometimes it can get a little slow on the chat boards.  I clicked on Ingrid's name and it shows me that the last time she visited the site was in 2008.  

    Are you a ovarian cancer warrior or a caregiver.  Both are welcome!  I am a visitor from the Uterine chat board.  The gynecologic cancer folks visit the other 'below the belt' cancer threads to lend and ear if they can.  It is always nice to find others who have the same fights - it lets you know you are not alone.