Footstomper?

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  • marosa
    marosa Member Posts: 334 Member
    Im out of words

    this news really hurt.  Stomps was one of the first persons I came in touch with here. He was one of our "rocks".  I looked up to him for his humor, his intelligence and his generosity. I loved his special way of saying things.  I feel like I have lost a friend.  He will be greatly missed...

  • Kat23502
    Kat23502 Member Posts: 179 Member
    This makes my heart so sad. I

    This makes my heart so sad. I didn't think I would get so upset but ever since he stopped posting I've been checking each day for news. When I was first diagnosed and terrified, Footstomper, Iceman, Fox, Jan, Donna, Medic, were all some of the first people to make me feel like I could and would get through this. I realize today how much the people on this board mean to me. I don't know most real name and only know minimally about each of you aside from a tumor stage and grade. Despite that, I have deep appreciation and care for all of you that have been brought together. I hope he knew how appreciated he was and I hope the same for those that are still with us. 

  • lobbyist0724
    lobbyist0724 Member Posts: 515 Member
    I am out of words as well,

    I am out of words as well, stomp is also first first few that I came across with here. Being here has already became part of my life, i am not a person that is good with words but have been worrying to hear this news since last week. Don't know how to describe how sad it feels... Stomps will be missed!

  • rhominator
    rhominator Member Posts: 233 Member
    edited March 2017 #25
    Ouch

    Speechless; I'm without words.

  • stub1969
    stub1969 Member Posts: 966 Member
    edited March 2017 #26
    Hurt

    This hurts very deep.  Ditto on what Kat said.  Foots was one of the first to reach out to this "newbie" to help calm my anxiety and assure me that my diagnosis was not a death sentence.  I have a deep level of appreciation and gratitude for Foots and many others here on this site.  God speed, Footstomper.

    Stub

  • Dave418
    Dave418 Member Posts: 95 Member
    edited March 2017 #27
     He will be miss on this

    Cry He will be miss on this board... Cry Hard news hitting this week...

    My deepest condolences to his family and friends.

  • daisybud
    daisybud Member Posts: 541 Member
    Sad news

    I will also miss his humor .  He was also one of the first to welcome me to the board. Condolences to his family.

    .

  • Jan4you
    Jan4you Member Posts: 1,330 Member
    edited March 2017 #29
    OH MY, my heart has been

    OH MY, my heart has been stomped permanently! May his spirit know how much I care, that we ALL care. Now he can know we cared how he has been missing.

    With Mark (mrou50)'s passing (March 17th) and FootStomper, its too much.

    I am also concerned about a newish member (end of Dec 2016) is MIA too=WhatIsLife. Mark (mrou50) and Fox were assisting me with help for him as well. It looked hopeful yet serious last time I talked to WhatIsLife. No obit..phone disconnected. Hope he has the strength to let me know.

    RIP dear Footstomper..rest easy big guy!

    PLEASE go to his site and write his family about his effects on our hearts, ok folks?

    Jan

  • sblairc
    sblairc Member Posts: 585 Member
    he will be truly missed. I signed the guestbook

    This hurts bad. Stomps, your fight was admirable. I wrote on the guestbook. FYI, you don't need to submit all the personal information if you don't want to, it still took my submission. 

  • Jojo61
    Jojo61 Member Posts: 1,309 Member
    edited March 2017 #31
    Such sad news....my heart is

    Such sad news....my heart is breaking. So much loss all at once. Rest in peace, Stomps. Your humor and positive outlook made your star shine.

    You will be missed, but not forgotten. Glad we got to know you here.

    Big hugs to everyone.

    Jojo

  • Jan4you
    Jan4you Member Posts: 1,330 Member
    icemantoo said:

    Sad news

    I sent a pm to Footstomper and here is the reply I just received from CSN.

    Hi Iceman,

    We try not to interfere too much in the forums, but when I saw the post tonight about Footstomper, I was worried as well (as I've noticed him missing the last few weeks also.) I'm sorry to say that it appears he has passed on. Here is his obituary which you may want to share with the board - http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/name/peter-whitby-obituary?pid=1000000184407732&view=guestbook . I know this will hit the board hard as it hits us on the back end as well. Please let me know if I can help in any other way. 

    Simone

    CSN Support Team

    Thank you Iceman for doing

    Thank you Iceman for doing reaching out with a PM.

    And a BIG thank you to the CSN staff looking into this for us. Cannot tell you how important is it to get information when a member goes missing. And thank you for permitting mrou50's wife Patrice to write to us. It all means so much.

    Hugs to you for the work you do behind the scenes for US!

    Jan

  • Jan4you
    Jan4you Member Posts: 1,330 Member
    Seems the Legacy.com site is

    Seems the Legacy.com site is not working, BUT please keep trying. Write to Peter's family (Footstomper). I know it means a lot to them.

    When my husband passed, members of a forum I was active on wrote on my legacy page. I got hundreds of responses; meant so much. I printed them off and still have them in a file.

    Hang in there folks=HOPE

    Jan

  • Allochka
    Allochka Member Posts: 1,062 Member
    Oh no... Stomps, we love you.

    Oh no... Stomps, we love you. RIP

    Iceman, thank you so much for finding this out.  We had to know.

  • mlph4021
    mlph4021 Member Posts: 76 Member
    edited March 2017 #35
    First time on in a while

    And this is the first thing I see, so sad. He was so nice to me when I came here, looking for people that understood what I was going through. I only interacted with him a handful of times, but each time he said something I needed to hear. 

  • firedude21
    firedude21 Member Posts: 52
    mlph4021 said:

    First time on in a while

    And this is the first thing I see, so sad. He was so nice to me when I came here, looking for people that understood what I was going through. I only interacted with him a handful of times, but each time he said something I needed to hear. 

    Stomps was a very special person. He was an inspiration to so many and a friend to all. He will be missed.

    fd21

  • foxhd
    foxhd Member Posts: 3,181 Member
    edited March 2017 #37
    I was

    sure that foots was doing better while on nivo. I didn't see this coming. Not even a little bit. He wasn't happy with his prognosis but didn't complain. He knew to put his energy to better use. Rest in Peace Mr. Whitby.

  • APny
    APny Member Posts: 1,995 Member
    edited March 2017 #38
    At a loss for words. First I

    At a loss for words. First I read about Mark and now Stomps. So very sad.

  • pamstayner
    pamstayner Member Posts: 111 Member
    Hurts...

    I liked Footstomper. His sense of humor was a good one for me.  He taught me how to laugh at all the yuckie side effects of Sutent... and invest in wet wipes.  I am sorry for his familiy's loss.  I am happy that he is not in pain. I salute you Footsie my friend... Fly freely forever.

    Pam

     

  • Deanie0916
    Deanie0916 Member Posts: 616 Member
    edited March 2017 #40
    Will miss Footstomper

    I wrote on the legacy.com site, so amazing to see all of the wonderful comments about him. I am really sad, like so many others here he was one of the first to resonde to my posts. I also am invested in wet wipes or "moist flushable towelettes" because of his wisdom. RIP Footstomper.

     

  • Skagway Jack
    Skagway Jack Member Posts: 224 Member
    Deepest Condolences

    Foots,   We will miss you.  Vaya Con Dios, Amigo.

     

    Jack