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  • beaumontdave
    beaumontdave Member Posts: 1,280 Member
    #22
    My Thoughts are also with you

    My Thoughts are also with you and your kids, Jen. Losing Cindy a year ago left us numb, doing things on kind of an autopilot, it took time to even feel the whole scope of our loss. At every event or holiday, her absence was felt so much, we had to learn the share those feelings and memories first, stories about her unique way of doing things, that allowed us to laugh a little and bring her into the moment, rather than silently hurt at the loss we all felt. She's at peace, as is your husband, and now comes the emotional battle to live in your new normal, without anger and bitterness. It's taken me most of the year to get past those feelings and get to a loving ache [or an aching love] when I think of her. I wish you peace of mind and a quick trip through the worst of the hurts that follow such a huge loss.......................................Dave

     

  • janderson1964
    janderson1964 Member Posts: 2,215 Member
    #23
    I am so sorry Jen. I read

    I am so sorry Jen. I read this a couple of days ago but didn't know what to say. I still dont. You are such a sweet person who has touched my heart through being thoughtful and selfless as I am sure you have and will continue  to touch many other people. Right now you need someone to touch your shattered heart.

  • Momof2plusteentwins
    Momof2plusteentwins Member Posts: 509 Member
    #24
    So Sad

    i am so sorry Jen, I havent been here much and just read this.  I have followed your journey and was so hoping he would keep going.  You have been such a huge help to me and everyone else here. Just sad for you and your 3 babies.

  • YoVita
    YoVita Member Posts: 590 Member
    #25
    So sorry for your loss

    You were a loving and supportive caregiver. 

  • Semira
    Semira Member Posts: 381 Member
    #26
    oh Jen...

    ... there are no words.

    A silent hug from Germany

    Petra

     

  • UncleBuddy
    UncleBuddy Member Posts: 1,019 Member
    #27
    :(

    I'm so sorry for your loss! This is such a horrendous disease!

    I pray that you and your family find peace in the fact that he is no longer in pain.

    Lin

  • danker
    danker Member Posts: 1,276 Member
    #28
    UncleBuddy said:

    :(

    I'm so sorry for your loss! This is such a horrendous disease!

    I pray that you and your family find peace in the fact that he is no longer in pain.

    Lin

    So sorry

    I'm so sorry. He was way too young.  You may not be familiar with this Poem.

    I am standing on the seashore

    A ship appears and spreads her white sails in the morning breeze and starts to the ocean.

    She is an object of beauty and I stand watching her

    till at last she fades away on the horizon and someone at my side says,"she is gone."

    Gone where? Gone from my vision, that is all. She is just as large as when I  saw her last.

     

    The diminished size and total loss of sight is in me,not in her.

    And just at the  moment when someone at my side says, "She is gone."

    There are others who are watching her comming, and other voices take up a joyful shout

    "there she comes !"

     

     

  • Trubrit
    Trubrit Member Posts: 5,796 Member
    #29
    danker said:

    So sorry

    I'm so sorry. He was way too young.  You may not be familiar with this Poem.

    I am standing on the seashore

    A ship appears and spreads her white sails in the morning breeze and starts to the ocean.

    She is an object of beauty and I stand watching her

    till at last she fades away on the horizon and someone at my side says,"she is gone."

    Gone where? Gone from my vision, that is all. She is just as large as when I  saw her last.

     

    The diminished size and total loss of sight is in me,not in her.

    And just at the  moment when someone at my side says, "She is gone."

    There are others who are watching her comming, and other voices take up a joyful shout

    "there she comes !"

     

     

    Tears

    Oh Danker, that was beautiful!

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