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vinaykumar
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Apr 05, 2014 - 11:56 am

dear all,

 

my dad passed away on 4th april early morning.

i am not sad for him as i belive he left his sick body behind ,is now free of agony  and in a happy place.......i am sad for myself , my mom , sister and gradma who have to get used to living in his in his absence.

 

i am greatful for the chance we had to tell him how much we admired him , loved him and hear from him that he wasnt scared , his faith still  intact

 

this group has been a constant source of information and strength.....

 

to all who left us - have a good rest

to all who are fighting - soldier on , you are our heros

 

i will still be lurking around , helping out where needed.

regards

 

A
janderson1964
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Apr 05, 2014 - 12:57 pm

I am truly sorry for your loss.
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Trubrit
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Apr 05, 2014 - 1:29 pm

I a so sorry that you are now to live without your dad. I pray that you and your family will find comfort in the coming weeks and months, and no doubt years, and enjoy your memories.

Blessings!
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annalexandria
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Apr 05, 2014 - 1:16 pm

Losing a parent, a person who holds a unique and irreplaceable spot in our lives, is a terrible experience.  But I'm glad that you were able to have time with your dad, and have a chance to say what you wanted to say.  That is a gift that not all receive.

May the passage of time bring with it a little peace, and the blessing of memory.

AA
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karguy
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Apr 05, 2014 - 1:42 pm

I'm sorry you lost your dad,It's never easy even when your expecting it.
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Jeremy2323
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Apr 05, 2014 - 3:41 pm

Im so sorry for your families loss.
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marbleotis
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Apr 05, 2014 - 5:40 pm

Please lean on us whenever you need!
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tanstaafl
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Apr 05, 2014 - 5:55 pm

Sorry for your family's loss. Thank you for sharing your journey.  May the good memories soon overcome the pain of loss.    
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lp1964
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Apr 05, 2014 - 6:20 pm

Your dad and and your family did everything to fight this disease and left nothing on the table. Life will be different without him. To honor him you live your life the best you can. Not in sorrow but always with positive and progressive attitude. That is what he wants you to do...

Laz
Chelsea71
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Apr 05, 2014 - 7:45 pm

I am so so sorry.  Take comfort in the fact that you were there for your Dad and he did not go through it alone.  You were a wonderful son and advocate.  You left no stone unturned.  

My condolences,

Chelsea
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Lovekitties
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Apr 05, 2014 - 10:32 pm

I am so sorry for your loss.

May the memories of good times shared ease your sorrow.

Hugs to you and your family.

Marie who loves kitties
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sdp
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Apr 06, 2014 - 2:49 am

My deepest sympathies and I hope you and the rest of the family finds some solace in the fact that he was steadfast in his faith.

 
Fucc
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Apr 07, 2014 - 4:41 pm

I am so sorry to hear about your dad.  I found his posts very helpful and informative regarding alternative treatments and we had messaged to share information.  He will be missed....

 

 
UncleBuddy
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Apr 07, 2014 - 5:36 pm

It's not easy losing a parent, no matter what age we are. It's wonderful that you were all able to tell him how you felt about him. I truly wish I had that chance with my mom. 

I hope you'll stick around and let us know how you're doing.

Lin
Jimmontana
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Apr 07, 2014 - 10:25 pm

I sorry for your loss. My gods comfort bring you and your family peace as god is giving your dad peace right now.  

Amen. 
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