****'s Birthday!

Kathleen808
Kathleen808 Member Posts: 2,342 Member
Hi Everyone,
Today is ****'s 54th birthday, his 3rd birthday since his stage 3c diagnosis. We can't believe he has been in this so long (and we know many of you have been in it longer) and we are tired but we are grateful.
As you know, we have had many, many hard days and weeks. 57 or so rounds of chemo for **** and 2 major surgeries. He has suffered and that has sucked. And, during the past almost 3 years we have had, many, many, many beautiful days. Right now the sun is starting to go down and he is out stand up paddling in some good surf right in our neighborhood bay. I am cooking seared ahi, artichokes, brown rice and bok choy. We will sit down as a family and have a meal together and celebrate and for that I am very, very, very grateful.
We don't know what the next year or even then next week will bring but I wanted to encourage some of you who may be starting out in this nightmare that there may be the opportunity for some wonderful days.
Thank you for your continued support.

Aloha,
Kathleen
«1

Comments

  • Buckwirth
    Buckwirth Member Posts: 1,258 Member
    Happy Birthday ****
    Glad it was a good one!

    Blake
  • taraHK
    taraHK Member Posts: 1,952 Member
    Happy Birthday!
    Happy birthday ****. And congratulations to both of you for reaching another milestone.

    I cut out an ad from Tiffany's "There are times to celebrate" -- I believe in celebrating them ALL -- every single 'excuse' -- we earned them!

    love,
    Tara
  • buckeye2
    buckeye2 Member Posts: 428 Member
    Happy Birthday ****. I hope
    Happy Birthday ****. I hope for many more. It sounds like you had a great day. Lisa
  • mom_2_3
    mom_2_3 Member Posts: 953 Member
    Aloha
    Aloha Kathleen and ****,

    I'm sending a huge Happy Birthday to you **** and hope that you enjoyed your birthday. You are both amazing and I wish your family wonderful joy today and all days.

    Amy
  • alexinlv
    alexinlv Member Posts: 194 Member
    Happy birthday to ****.
    Happy birthday to ****. Thank you for the reminder about enjoying the good days. Alex
  • pete43lost_at_sea
    pete43lost_at_sea Member Posts: 3,900 Member
    happy birthday ****
    kathleen,

    that meal sounds really tasty and healthy. **** is very lucky.

    hugs,
    pete
  • johnnybegood
    johnnybegood Member Posts: 1,117 Member

    happy birthday ****
    kathleen,

    that meal sounds really tasty and healthy. **** is very lucky.

    hugs,
    pete

    happy birthday
    **** and i hope you have many many more...Godbless...johnnybegood
  • abmb
    abmb Member Posts: 311
    Happy Birthday, ****! Enjoy
    Happy Birthday, ****! Enjoy your dinner and have a great night!
  • Sundanceh
    Sundanceh Member Posts: 4,392 Member
    HBD54!
    ....and many more to follow for you guys:)

    And here's on to grow on...

    "Hau`oli Lā Hānau"

    -Craig
  • westie66
    westie66 Member Posts: 642
    Sundanceh said:

    HBD54!
    ....and many more to follow for you guys:)

    And here's on to grow on...

    "Hau`oli Lā Hānau"

    -Craig

    Happy birthday from Canada
    ...and many many more!
    Cheryl
  • relaxoutdoors08
    relaxoutdoors08 Member Posts: 521 Member
    Happy Birthday Week
    Happy Birthday Week since we missed the day. Celebrate the whole week. Last Winter I was doing Folfox with all those issues of low blood levels so I could not visit my son in HI. This Winter, my husband and I plan to fly to Honolulu and enjoy the wonderful weather. I have nueropathy so I am all for enjoying HI outside, grilling wonderful native food, and seeing those beautiful sunsets.
    NB
  • pepebcn
    pepebcn Member Posts: 6,331 Member

    Happy Birthday Week
    Happy Birthday Week since we missed the day. Celebrate the whole week. Last Winter I was doing Folfox with all those issues of low blood levels so I could not visit my son in HI. This Winter, my husband and I plan to fly to Honolulu and enjoy the wonderful weather. I have nueropathy so I am all for enjoying HI outside, grilling wonderful native food, and seeing those beautiful sunsets.
    NB

    Happy birthday from Spain my dear friend!
    hugs!
  • TMac52
    TMac52 Member Posts: 352
    pepebcn said:

    Happy birthday from Spain my dear friend!
    hugs!

    Kathleen
    **** is so lucky to have you.

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY **** and many more.....Tom
  • tommycat
    tommycat Member Posts: 790 Member
    That is awesome and your
    That is awesome and your meal makes my mouth water. Here's to many more happy birthdays.
    xo
  • herdizziness
    herdizziness Member Posts: 3,624 Member
    Ahhh Love those Birthdays
    Each and every Birthday seems more special anymore. What a wonderful way to have spent it, under an Hawaiian sunset sky, the lapping waves of the ocean, and homemade food and a lot of love. Doesn't get any better then that does it?
    Happy Birthday to ****!!
    Winter Marie
  • maglets
    maglets Member Posts: 2,576 Member

    Ahhh Love those Birthdays
    Each and every Birthday seems more special anymore. What a wonderful way to have spent it, under an Hawaiian sunset sky, the lapping waves of the ocean, and homemade food and a lot of love. Doesn't get any better then that does it?
    Happy Birthday to ****!!
    Winter Marie

    late
    soo sory to be late....more Canadian wishes to ****

    yup I will treasure this picture...of Hawaiian paradisio all winter....long winter...:) :)

    happy birthday darlings......

    maggie
  • Kathryn_in_MN
    Kathryn_in_MN Member Posts: 1,252 Member
    Birthday wishes
    A very happy birthday to ****, and many, many more!
  • ron50
    ron50 Member Posts: 1,723 Member
    Happy birthday
    And a big hug to your whole family for making the best of a tough situation,Ron.
  • tootsie1
    tootsie1 Member Posts: 5,044 Member
    Happy Birthday!
    I think you're both quite amazing! Happy Birthday to ****!!!

    *hugs*
    Gail
  • jjaj133
    jjaj133 Member Posts: 867 Member
    A very happy birthday ****,
    A very happy birthday ****, It just sounds wonderful. What a special family you are Congratulations.Hugs, Judy