IN MEMORY......

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  • Devasted
    Devasted Member Posts: 185
    ktlcs said:

    My Husband
    Hank Stenger

    I will love and miss him forever

    Ktlcs

    In Memory...

    My beloved husband, John....
    Dx'd May 2009 - Died October 2010
  • plh4gail
    plh4gail Member Posts: 1,238 Member
    Thank you Jennie! I'm having
    Thank you Jennie! I'm having a hard time being happy about finishing chemo. I only joined this site in October and was just getting to know Kerry. ......it was hard...I had no idea what was in his future. At that time I was still very new and naive.......My brother is in his second year of glioblastoma and had poor outcome from surgery, chemo, and radiation. ( total left side paralysis, memory and thought process issues, and soo much more)....and my cousin was diagnosed in March with kidney (I think was origin?) now mets may live a couple of weeks or a month...How can I be happy for myself....it brings on so much guilt.

    Happy for the fighters, Gail
  • tabur
    tabur Member Posts: 71
    Bettie and Pam
    Bettie, Mother, 01/26/2011
    Pamela, Wife, 03/03/2011

    Rest in peace my two lovely ladies.
  • Btrcup
    Btrcup Member Posts: 286
    Missing Scott
    my husband. Passed 10/1/05.
  • BuckeyedPeach
    BuckeyedPeach Member Posts: 14
    In Memory. . .
    of my wonderful father, Frank E.
    October 7, 1924 - March 25, 2011

    Leukemia ended up taking his life rather quickly, just four days following surgery for my colon cancer! I was not able to even attend his funeral (we were in different states).We didn't even know he had cancer. The doctor said he'd likely had it for awhile, but was in remission when suddenly it took a deadly turn. He only was in hospice care for maybe 12 hours. . .

    But while grieving for him and feeling badly about not having to been able to attend his funeral, I could almost "hear" my father say, "Yeah, I know how you feel. I wasn't able to go either!"

    Although I am sad and miss him dearly I am at peace knowing he is with my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. And I will see him again one day.

    Can't wait to see you again, Dad--(only when it's my time though ;-) ).
  • BuckeyedPeach
    BuckeyedPeach Member Posts: 14

    In Memory. . .
    of my wonderful father, Frank E.
    October 7, 1924 - March 25, 2011

    Leukemia ended up taking his life rather quickly, just four days following surgery for my colon cancer! I was not able to even attend his funeral (we were in different states).We didn't even know he had cancer. The doctor said he'd likely had it for awhile, but was in remission when suddenly it took a deadly turn. He only was in hospice care for maybe 12 hours. . .

    But while grieving for him and feeling badly about not having to been able to attend his funeral, I could almost "hear" my father say, "Yeah, I know how you feel. I wasn't able to go either!"

    Although I am sad and miss him dearly I am at peace knowing he is with my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. And I will see him again one day.

    Can't wait to see you again, Dad--(only when it's my time though ;-) ).

    Also in Memory. . .
    of my wonderful Aunt Mary (my father's oldest sister) who died of colon cancer after a year's struggle on May 8, 2011 (Mother's Day). She was 90 years young.

    Aunt Mary is responsible for much of my family coming to faith in Jesus Christ. She was a dear woman who would have done anything for anyone.

    Am looking forward to seeing you again one day too, Aunt Mary! Keep Dad in line--love you both and also say "hello" to Aunt Ruth for me too! :)
  • pf78248
    pf78248 Member Posts: 209
    David
    Thank you all for remembering my precious David. It's been 8 1/2 months and the hurt is still so intense. One year ago this weekend I brought David back to M.D, Anderson after liver resection in March 2010 because he appeared to me to be in liver failure. He was admitted and my fears were confirmed a few weeks later.

    Today I am back at M.D. Anderson with David's dear Mother Marie. She has been diagnosed with probable ovarian cancer. Its like the roller coaster never stops. Oh, I hate cancer. But one day I do believe there will be a cure. Or prevention, which is even better.

    Never, ever give up! this board is THE BEST! I love you guys!

    Hugs and Healing,
    Priscilla
  • BuckeyedPeach
    BuckeyedPeach Member Posts: 14
    pf78248 said:

    David
    Thank you all for remembering my precious David. It's been 8 1/2 months and the hurt is still so intense. One year ago this weekend I brought David back to M.D, Anderson after liver resection in March 2010 because he appeared to me to be in liver failure. He was admitted and my fears were confirmed a few weeks later.

    Today I am back at M.D. Anderson with David's dear Mother Marie. She has been diagnosed with probable ovarian cancer. Its like the roller coaster never stops. Oh, I hate cancer. But one day I do believe there will be a cure. Or prevention, which is even better.

    Never, ever give up! this board is THE BEST! I love you guys!

    Hugs and Healing,
    Priscilla

    I Am So Sorry
    I am so sorry for your loss, Priscilla. My husband's name is also David (goes by "Dave").

    My father just passed from cancer March 25, my aunt from cancer May 8 and my father-in-law has just been diagnosed with colon cancer--so I understand about the roller coaster! Prior to that, another aunt of mine died in February (NOT of cancer for once!).

    My mother (age 88) is a breast cancer SURVIVOR. Had that in her mid to late 70s and has been CANCER FREE so it IS possible!

    I pray all goes well for your mother-in-law. I hate cancer, too!

    Hugs and blessings,
    Lisa
  • Kathleen808
    Kathleen808 Member Posts: 2,342 Member
    Good remembering but hard
    Brant - melissas husband. Will's dad
  • krystiesq
    krystiesq Member Posts: 240 Member

    Good remembering but hard
    Brant - melissas husband. Will's dad

    my mom
    I miss her so much it hurts my bones to think about her. DX Nov. 2007 Died 08-29-10. It's not easy. She was my best friend. I wish she was here to see my daughter grow up, she would have thought she is hilarious.

    Alright, now time for a distraction so I don't get depressed.
  • AncientTiger
    AncientTiger Member Posts: 130
    In Memory Of
    My father-in-law Rob Krause, who was not only family, but also a friend, and a cherished co-worker, who lost the fight May of 2007.

    And also to another friend and co-worker, Taylor Hunt, who lost the fight March of 2009.

    I STILL miss you both, and I will every day until we're reunited at our Fathers table.
  • maglets
    maglets Member Posts: 2,576 Member

    In Memory Of
    My father-in-law Rob Krause, who was not only family, but also a friend, and a cherished co-worker, who lost the fight May of 2007.

    And also to another friend and co-worker, Taylor Hunt, who lost the fight March of 2009.

    I STILL miss you both, and I will every day until we're reunited at our Fathers table.

    wonderful
    what a wonderful thread....

    I thank you so much for starting this....

    I was thinking about Donna today....and I thought how would anyone new ever know how wonderful she was.....when she started here she was shy and frightened by her cancer but very quickly Donna bloomed into the queen.....she answered everyone.....she had joy and love for everyone. Donna never forgot a fact about any minor thing in your life.. she always remembered everyone..she never complained....she was one in a million....

    and Kimby and Mary....those two quiet caring wonderful women...I feel so humble when I think about them all....oh crap....I surely loved them all

    mags
  • jjaj133
    jjaj133 Member Posts: 867 Member
    plh4gail said:

    Thank you Jennie! I'm having
    Thank you Jennie! I'm having a hard time being happy about finishing chemo. I only joined this site in October and was just getting to know Kerry. ......it was hard...I had no idea what was in his future. At that time I was still very new and naive.......My brother is in his second year of glioblastoma and had poor outcome from surgery, chemo, and radiation. ( total left side paralysis, memory and thought process issues, and soo much more)....and my cousin was diagnosed in March with kidney (I think was origin?) now mets may live a couple of weeks or a month...How can I be happy for myself....it brings on so much guilt.

    Happy for the fighters, Gail

    You can be happy for
    You can be happy for yourself, Gail. If it was the other way around, you would want them to be.
    jj
  • kristasplace
    kristasplace Member Posts: 957 Member
    Sophie's Mum
    A very tragic loss was Sophie's (sharpie's) mum. It was a story that was very affecting since they were in another country, and Sophie was so young and basically all alone taking care of her dying Mother. When her Mother passed, it orphaned Sophie. She had a difficult time adjusting; with her only real support being us, here on the board. She is a strong, inspirational young lady whom i admire.

    Mark (limey) who Lisa already mentioned was an inspiration to me, as well, and i'll always feel his loss, and absence on this board.

    Donna, always...miss her tons.

    Hugs all!
    Krista
  • coloCan
    coloCan Member Posts: 1,944 Member

    Sophie's Mum
    A very tragic loss was Sophie's (sharpie's) mum. It was a story that was very affecting since they were in another country, and Sophie was so young and basically all alone taking care of her dying Mother. When her Mother passed, it orphaned Sophie. She had a difficult time adjusting; with her only real support being us, here on the board. She is a strong, inspirational young lady whom i admire.

    Mark (limey) who Lisa already mentioned was an inspiration to me, as well, and i'll always feel his loss, and absence on this board.

    Donna, always...miss her tons.

    Hugs all!
    Krista

    I'd like to recall for you all
    Pat Kapper.........
  • melissaincali
    melissaincali Member Posts: 34
    coloCan said:

    I'd like to recall for you all
    Pat Kapper.........

    Thank you for remembering
    Thank you for remembering Brant. I appreciate it. It seems there are a lot of us who have lost our spouse who still come to this board. That says a lot about this little community. Perhaps we don't post often, but I still come to root on those who helped me so much during Brant's battle.
    Melissa
  • tootsie1
    tootsie1 Member Posts: 5,044 Member

    Thank you for remembering
    Thank you for remembering Brant. I appreciate it. It seems there are a lot of us who have lost our spouse who still come to this board. That says a lot about this little community. Perhaps we don't post often, but I still come to root on those who helped me so much during Brant's battle.
    Melissa

    I remember him often
    Melissa,

    I hope you saw my post in May about our Relay Talent Show. I sang a song called "Untitled (Come to Jesus)" and dedicated it to our semi-colon members who have passed away. I said something about each one I mentioned. I don't remember exactly what I said, but it was something to the effect of him being "a brilliant doctor, beloved husband and father, beloved by friends on both coasts." I also mentioned the fact that he had a wicked sense of humor even in the face of a situation that he must have known right from the start was devastating.

    I never really knew him, but I think of him so often. Such a loss...

    Praying you and Will are doing well.

    *Hugs*
    Gail
  • k1
    k1 Member Posts: 220 Member
    in memory
    butterfly23, angel wings instead of butterfly wings now
  • dorookie
    dorookie Member Posts: 1,731 Member
    Sundanceh said:

    ....And There Was "My Chicky"
    Let's not forget about Donna (Shayenne), wife and mother of 4....and a dear friend:)
    Miss you, Chicky.

    Donna's Lion

    Craig
    I dont think anyone could ever forget Donna, I think of her almost everyday, and she passed away on my birthday, so this year I will celebrate to lives on Aug 24th, hers and mine. I still have her number in my phone, and I just cant bring myself to delete it. I miss her so much, it still brings me to tears...

    *SAD*
    Beth
  • dorookie
    dorookie Member Posts: 1,731 Member

    Thanks for remembering
    angel and all the others may they all rest in peace.

    michelle

    MIchelle
    Angel lives on in all us bike riders and all of us here...everytime I see a bike go by or get on mine, I think of Angel..always will...

    HUGS
    Beth