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  • honeybelle22
    honeybelle22 Member Posts: 70
    So impressed
    Dale, I went to your website you posted and was overcome with emotion. You are an inspiration. And I thought of the children that have to go through what we go through and it just shouldn't be that way. D#&%m big Pharma needs to get a cure NOW.
    As for the rest, I can't add much except to say it takes time and trial and error. I've read all the posts and it seems each is different. But, Sweetblood has a thread that gives many recipes for smoothies and healthy eating that surely will help you. She can help a lot with lots of info.
    You inspired me this morning just when I needed it the most. Thank you. Rose
  • Glenna M
    Glenna M Member Posts: 1,576
    Dale
    As you know from reading the other responses, everyone's time is different. I'm 18 months post treatment and my rad onc was surprised when I saw him last month, he said your tongue is moist. Sounds like a strange remark but it's because this was the first time he had seen any signs of moisture in my mouth in over a year. I still carry water with me at all times and sip on it constantly, can't chew gum and don't like hard candy so I just stick with the water.

    I think it was about a month post treatment before I really "ate" anything. The first thing was scrambled eggs then mashed potatoes with a lot of gravy. If you like oatmeal that also goes down quite easily and the instant comes in so many different flavors. It will mostly be trial and error for a while. If I thought of something that sounded appetizing then I would try it, if it tasted like crap then I would wait and try it again in a couple of weeks.

    I swear by Ensure Plus, to me the taste wasn't too bad and it's quite nutritional with 350 calories per bottle. It can get a bit pricey if you drink a lot of it but it's worth it.

    Mostly though you just have to learn patience...ha ha ha!!! I am the least patient person in the world but I survived, I kept telling myself...next week will be better. Eventually things did improve and now I don't have too many complaints. I'm still bothered by some side effects but things could be worse, they could be a lot worse!!

    Stay strong and keep fighting,
    Glenna
  • luv4lacrosse
    luv4lacrosse Member Posts: 1,410 Member
    SIMILLAR RECOVERY
    My recovery seems alot like youurs. massive weight loss, (70 Lbs for me) loss of voice, weakness etc. I am post treatment as of Oct. 4th 2010 and just had my PEG removed. I eat a combination of high protien mass building shakes and soft foods. I seem to live out of the "Chef Boyardee" product line alot.

    I too can relate to avoiding this site at times. It seems as my condition moves forward, sometimes this site reminds me of the "dark days" and other times it really pumps me up. I think this is normal as people want to get back to the lives they had before cancer.

    Hang in there and stay strong.

    Best!!

    Mike
  • tonyanddenise
    tonyanddenise Member Posts: 70
    taste etc.
    Hello Dale, I am about 7 months out of tx. Had my J tube and peg tube removed about 3 weeks ago. I had difficulties with the tubes and nutrition, could not eat due to stricture in my esophagus. I dropped just over 100#. I had to seek an alternative stimulant to help me eat.
    I was against it. Was recommended by my psychologist and it really helped me.
    I was on a feeding pump 24/7 for a while and did not tolerate the feedings very well.
    There are difficult times ahead but it does get better. I cooked and ate for pleasure. Eating is more of a job than a pleasant experience these days. saliva has barely returned at this point, I am hopeful. Nothing tastes as it did.All basic spices burn the tissue in my mouth, I really miss the flavor of Tabasco! Meats and breads pretty much just stick to the back of my throat. I eat a lot of eggs, pancakes and waffles. Lucky charms are my munchie of choice! I don't know why but i can eat them with little trouble.
    We adjust.We have to. Now we get to live! It can be really hard to be happy with all of this, but just think of what could have been had we not been diagnosed in time. I was stage 4a tonsillar. Good luck and keep your head up!
  • sweetblood22
    sweetblood22 Member Posts: 3,228

    taste etc.
    Hello Dale, I am about 7 months out of tx. Had my J tube and peg tube removed about 3 weeks ago. I had difficulties with the tubes and nutrition, could not eat due to stricture in my esophagus. I dropped just over 100#. I had to seek an alternative stimulant to help me eat.
    I was against it. Was recommended by my psychologist and it really helped me.
    I was on a feeding pump 24/7 for a while and did not tolerate the feedings very well.
    There are difficult times ahead but it does get better. I cooked and ate for pleasure. Eating is more of a job than a pleasant experience these days. saliva has barely returned at this point, I am hopeful. Nothing tastes as it did.All basic spices burn the tissue in my mouth, I really miss the flavor of Tabasco! Meats and breads pretty much just stick to the back of my throat. I eat a lot of eggs, pancakes and waffles. Lucky charms are my munchie of choice! I don't know why but i can eat them with little trouble.
    We adjust.We have to. Now we get to live! It can be really hard to be happy with all of this, but just think of what could have been had we not been diagnosed in time. I was stage 4a tonsillar. Good luck and keep your head up!

    Tonyanddenise
    May I ask what the alternative stimulant was and if your stricture is improved and if yes, how? I too am better than I was but still have eating issues and drink more than half my calories.

    Thanks.
  • Kent Cass
    Kent Cass Member Posts: 1,898 Member

    taste etc.
    Hello Dale, I am about 7 months out of tx. Had my J tube and peg tube removed about 3 weeks ago. I had difficulties with the tubes and nutrition, could not eat due to stricture in my esophagus. I dropped just over 100#. I had to seek an alternative stimulant to help me eat.
    I was against it. Was recommended by my psychologist and it really helped me.
    I was on a feeding pump 24/7 for a while and did not tolerate the feedings very well.
    There are difficult times ahead but it does get better. I cooked and ate for pleasure. Eating is more of a job than a pleasant experience these days. saliva has barely returned at this point, I am hopeful. Nothing tastes as it did.All basic spices burn the tissue in my mouth, I really miss the flavor of Tabasco! Meats and breads pretty much just stick to the back of my throat. I eat a lot of eggs, pancakes and waffles. Lucky charms are my munchie of choice! I don't know why but i can eat them with little trouble.
    We adjust.We have to. Now we get to live! It can be really hard to be happy with all of this, but just think of what could have been had we not been diagnosed in time. I was stage 4a tonsillar. Good luck and keep your head up!

    Tony and Denise
    Not sure you'll want to try this, and please don't hold me liable, but I was on pretty-much a pancake and ice cream diet for a couple months, and along comes the company golf tournament. Club house had little choices, so I opted for a hot dog and overloaded it with mustard and diced onions, for a reason that escapes me. And to my shock- it was great! Very little bites, with the mustard providing the lubricant, but that was the event that got me around the corner w/eating. And that was around month-five, post-treatment. Couple weeks later I discovered Roadhouse Chili, and it's a regular, now. Yes, there is a degree of discomfort with it, but the taste actually registers, and to the positive.

    Realize, though, that my only throat problem was the swelling from the rads during treatment- mouth is what took the big hit.

    kcass